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How many of you lazy hoes know how to make a plate for your man

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  • hautehaute Posts: 10,666
    edited April 2010
    sweetheart

    what do you define as you role as a women in regards to your man, like what do you think is your place?????

    I'm just curious
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  • blakfyahkingblakfyahking Posts: 12,622
    edited April 2010
    dusouljah wrote: »
    lmao don't tell me you bout to get on that "why do nice guys always gotta have hoodrat chicks when they done with the thugs?" tip... lmao

    LOL yeah champ but at least I was "thuggin" when I was checking for chicks like that. how can you call yourself a "hood" nigga if you never had no love for the "hood" chicks. And I'm reformed today, but I can't front like the hoodrats don't identify me in public places......I have to give effort all the time to not regress LMAO
    hummingbird wrote: »
    Thhis thread made my head hurt. I mean for real like I can seriously feel the heat coming off my skin. Got me amp'd like a muthafucka. Typing all hard and shit. lol

    LOL @ you Bird catching feelings cause this new generation lost......and people wonder why shit is all messed up now

    SMH @ mofos looking down on gender roles like they want their man to tell them "it's their week to cut the grass" cause we equals. same females who killed chivarly cause they want the privilege of being treated like a lady but not the responsibility SMH
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  • hummingbirdhummingbird Posts: 2,341
    edited April 2010
    dusouljah wrote: »
    naw dawg.. she bout right with that analogy...

    it's a very simple gesture of endearment....a woman making a plate for a man, is one of the little things that help create a bond.. it can seem extremely insignificant on the outside, but it's little shit like that, that will speak volumes for the level of the relationship....

    another woman making u a plate, is exactly like that...


    This^^^

    Like say, I know my man doesnt like any kind of bean near his mashed potatoes. And he like his corn over his rice. THose are things I know about him because we bond and these are things he's told me in our conversations.

    I dont want another woman to get to know my man on that kind of level. THose arent thing you just run into a party with food and announce. Those are things I know about him because we are a couple.
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  • Conscious_NkechiConscious_Nkechi Posts: 257
    edited April 2010
    THEsweetheart92 wrote: »
    lmao at the subliminals.



    traditional to older people.. that's cool..
    but i'm not doing.. because i can't find a solid reason to fix him a plate, when he can easily do it himself.
    shit, i would do it on his bday.. but religiously ?? nope.

    and it depends who is fixing him a plate.. but nobody should have to.

    Fixing a man a plate has now become a chore which requires a special request to be put in and only to be performed on what some deem as significant days??
    To each their very own but are you implying that if you were to cook your man a meal, you couldn't fix his plate because he too has hands?
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  • lady_clady_c Posts: 201
    edited April 2010
    dusouljah wrote: »
    .. if u refuse to do the little things.....ur just pretty much planting the seed that u don't really give a fuck about him

    and he will take notice of the females that will do the little things. like damn my girl wont even fix my plate lol
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  • THEsweetheart92THEsweetheart92 Posts: 1,089
    edited April 2010
    dusouljah wrote: »
    don't be like that..

    doing things out of spite, just because u don't want to conform, when u know damn well doing them would be an appriciated gesture can really send the wrong signs....

    it's the little things ppl do for you that lets u know how much they care.. if u refuse to do the little things.....ur just pretty much planting the seed that u don't really give a fuck about him

    ohh emm gee.lol

    by point is... it's not mandatory
    i'm sure it would be nice to take out food for him all the time...
    but shit is not mandatory.
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  • hautehaute Posts: 10,666
    edited April 2010
    Conscious_Nkechi wrote: »
    Mama has like 25 different table sets, literally. One to compliment each colored wall in the house, one for each season, one for each mood she can be in....lmao. Seriously, you name a color, and she has the table set and cloth for it!


    OMG! my mom too, she changes the dining set and linen with seasons LOL

    she even has matching teapots to correspond with linen lol

    our moms are the same in that regard
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  • sTaY_TrUesTaY_TrUe Posts: 3,838
    edited April 2010
    This a funny ass thread. In my fam, the women have always made the plates for their man no matter what the event is. Some people never see it growing up so they don't understand. Some people just take it more seriously than others.
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  • Du_DuDu_Du Posts: 32,943
    edited April 2010
    its like that whole scene in the bronx tale when sonny told C about the chick who unlocks your door for you....
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  • playmaker88playmaker88 Posts: 33,751
    edited April 2010
    Marley thx for the plate.. again.. delicioso...(No keenan)

    ;-)
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  • Simma IISimma II Posts: 787
    edited April 2010
    Lol! Dude calls all the females "hoes" and they still come in and explain how and what kind of dishes they prepare for their man.
    Hilarious. Random. I know.
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  • b@squ1@t reduxb@squ1@t redux Posts: 12,501
    edited April 2010
    *posting in this thread again because the seriousness with which you scalliwags take the subject matter is sad and hilarious*
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  • 25th hour25th hour Posts: 17
    edited April 2010
    new jacks is 2 worried about self 2 have a concept of what a relationship is supposed 2 be
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  • allreasoned_outallreasoned_out Posts: 2,697
    edited April 2010
    Why are women even responding to this?
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  • allreasoned_outallreasoned_out Posts: 2,697
    edited April 2010
    Simma II wrote: »
    Lol! Dude calls all the females "hoes" and they still come in and explain how and what kind of dishes they prepare for their man.
    Hilarious. Random. I know.

    I was thinking the same thing.
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  • jackthemackjackthemack Posts: 11,498
    edited April 2010
    Lmao I say hoes as a term of endearment they know this
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  • Du_DuDu_Du Posts: 32,943
    edited April 2010
    THEsweetheart92 wrote: »
    ohh emm gee.lol

    by point is... it's not mandatory
    i'm sure it would be nice to take out food for him all the time...
    but shit is not mandatory.
    it's not mandatory? ur not getting it are you??

    look at it like school... do you want to do just mandatory and get a C on your relationship..

    or do you want to work hard, go above and beyond, and work for that A?


    because if you're only doing what's mandatory ur only going to get that back.. and what's the point of a C relationship??
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  • Nthngis4vrNthngis4vr Posts: 2,171
    edited April 2010
    haute wrote: »
    OMG! my mom too, she changes the dining set and linen with seasons LOL

    she even has matching teapots to correspond with linen lol

    our moms are the same in that regard

    That's cute :)
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  • hummingbirdhummingbird Posts: 2,341
    edited April 2010
    Simma II wrote: »
    Lol! Dude calls all the females "hoes" and they still come in and explain how and what kind of dishes they prepare for their man.
    Hilarious. Random. I know.

    lol we dont pay that shit no mind because its Dink.

    Now had someone like you or D used that word in the thread title we'd do a double take for sure.
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  • lady_clady_c Posts: 201
    edited April 2010
    Simma II wrote: »
    Lol! Dude calls all the females "hoes" and they still come in and explain how and what kind of dishes they prepare for their man.
    Hilarious. Random. I know.

    sheeeeit dudes call females hoes and bitches here so much theyre almost synonomous (sp) at this point. shits so watered down it gets ignored.
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  • Simma IISimma II Posts: 787
    edited April 2010
    hummingbird wrote: »
    lol we dont pay that shit no mind because its Dink.

    Now had someone like you or D used that word in the thread title we'd do a double take for sure.

    Lol, I'll keep that in mind
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  • Conscious_NkechiConscious_Nkechi Posts: 257
    edited April 2010
    THEsweetheart92 wrote: »

    [/b]and it depends who is fixing him a plate.. but nobody should have to.[/B]

    This is where you have it confused and quite twisted.
    Where has anyone that does this for their man say they HAVE to do this? None of us had made it seem like a tedious chore that is expected, we do this because we WANT to. It is our desire to take a mere moment of our time to do for our man without the feeling of expectation hanging over our heads.

    We are very well aware that a man has the capability of standing on his own two feet and taking care of himself and this is why they are in most our lives, because they are able to do so all while giving us women the room to do for them without screaming out "independence". This does not make a man lazy or incompetent, this makes him a man of a woman who allows him to be a man and one who allows her to be a woman. If in her eyes she feels to do for him out of a genuine place from her heart, then she should do so without being labeled "old fashioned" and dependent of gender roles.
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  • Du_DuDu_Du Posts: 32,943
    edited April 2010
    hummingbird wrote: »
    This^^^

    Like say, I know my man doesnt like any kind of bean near his mashed potatoes. And he like his corn over his rice. THose are things I know about him because we bond and these are things he's told me in our conversations.

    I dont want another woman to get to know my man on that kind of level. THose arent thing you just run into a party with food and announce. Those are things I know about him because we are a couple.
    lmao...this just brought tears to my eyes...

    i already know my lady gonna make bomb plate.. i'm playing cards and i hear her in the background like
    "no..he doesnt' eat macaroni and cheese...give me the mashed potatoes.....no mom...no gravy...okay u know what.. just step back..i got this"

    i just smile...
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  • ccluvsauccluvsau Posts: 1,851
    edited April 2010
    ccluvsau wrote: »
    I'm hungry. :(

    Me too :( .
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  • Du_DuDu_Du Posts: 32,943
    edited April 2010
    hummingbird wrote: »
    lol we dont pay that shit no mind because its Dink.

    Now had someone like you or D used that word in the thread title we'd do a double take for sure.
    lmao....too funny...
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