fellas do u understand when a woman is tryna2 turn you off or do u think she is slow

Real LadyReal Lady Posts: 1,878
edited December 2011 in Growing Pains
u see a pretty woman at the bar by herself, you ask her whats she's drinking (and she tells u)...U ask can u buy her a drink, then she say o.k.. then u ask her what she is doing tonite, and she says nothing...so u ask her do she wanna go to your crib and she say no....so you get upset and offer her some money to go back to your crib and she act like she don't hear u, then start singing and dancing back on the floor trying to loose u in the crowd..


In this scenario do u think this woman is slow? or do You think she can't hear u? or do you think she's trying to turn u off?

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  • amenhotepivamenhotepiv Posts: 7,234 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
    uhmm
    when i go to the club or bar I dont get mad if the girl isnt feeling me
    just move on
    and i dont follow no one
  • deeroc22deeroc22 Posts: 4,569
    edited September 2011
    Real Lady wrote: »
    ....so you get upset and offer her some money to go back to your crib and she act like she don't hear u,

    who does that?
  • Real LadyReal Lady Posts: 1,878
    edited September 2011
    uhmm
    when i go to the club or bar I dont get mad if the girl isnt feeling me
    just move on
    and i dont follow no one

    thats good, that mean u are in your right mind.. You can't speak for every other male.. Some men think when a woman is dressed up, it's for them..

    some men think every woman is theres..not all of u are the same...maybe thats what men need to realize....

    I like the male unity, but I don't think ya'll separate yourselves.. when women call out foul deeds done by men, all men get upset...if you are a good man it don't apply to u.
  • Real LadyReal Lady Posts: 1,878
    edited September 2011
    deeroc22 wrote: »
    who does that?


    shit Mexicans do that shit all the time....I sometimes go 2 the sit in bar by myself. Mexicans will offer u a drink then offer u to go right back to their crib immediately after buying a drink..

    Mexicans approach me all the time.. :
  • a.manna.mann Posts: 17,374 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
    nah, you not slow

    but shouldn't be letting dudes buy you drinks
    in that sitaution tho
  • Niggas backNiggas back Posts: 2,259
    edited September 2011
    Real Lady wrote: »

    shit Mexicans do that shit all the time....I sometimes go 2 the sit in bar by myself. Mexicans will offer u a drink then offer u to go right back to their crib immediately after buying a drink..

    Mexicans approach me all the time.. :
    Cuz ur not good lookin'.. Its not rockets science
  • im_luxim_lux Posts: 2,419
    edited September 2011
    Real Lady wrote: »

    shit Mexicans do that shit all the time....I sometimes go 2 the sit in bar by myself. Mexicans will offer u a drink then offer u to go right back to their crib immediately after buying a drink..

    Mexicans approach me all the time.. :

    Are you like super fat? Or dirty? Cause mexicans usually only approach the ones they see as being easy.
  • Niggas backNiggas back Posts: 2,259
    edited September 2011
    im_lux wrote: »
    Are you like super fat? Or dirty? Cause mexicans usually only approach the ones they see as being easy.

    Lmao! Exactly
  • Real LadyReal Lady Posts: 1,878
    edited September 2011
    or do people think its always cat chases mouse and love taps?


    one of my greatest fears is to get killed by a obsessive man...

    I am aware that some men hate women, and they aim after attractive women because they think we are stuck up.. some men plot on turning these type of women out, because they believe this is humbling a stuck up woman..

    I am often judged as stuck up when I am not, and I feel that some men have evil intentions for trying to get with me.. In some cases I feel it's just someone who wants to bring me down, someone who wants to destroy me, because they are not over a x that mistreated them..

    eventho a lot of men come at me, I fear most of them...thats why i don't get how ppl get me confused with "easy".. I think because I can be friendly they get it confused. A lot of times I am friendly so that the man wont become angry from rejection.. I like to keep peace..

    However when I have persisted male enemies, people think it's love taps, they think we are in love because we are beefing...

    I keep telling people, when I am in love with someone, I don't run around telling everyone that they are after me.

    I don't play games like that. A man that don't understand no, have a potential of a rapist, and I will kill him, before he rapes me...I have never been raped and I am afraid of men with rapist behavior. it's not normal 2 me.

    When I say no it' do sent mean yes, and yes do not mean no. I mean exactly what I say...& I know when I love someone.


    when I start telling other men about a over persisting male, it's because I want protection from him, I am afraid of men with this nature. & male family members have kept them away from me, so I never been raped and I don't want 2 be... I will kill.:mad:
    akomax
  • 7figz7figz Ig'nant Posts: 11,148 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
    I think a woman who accepts a drink from man she has no interest in ..... has earned the title of "bitch".
  • CapitalCCapitalC Posts: 2,056
    edited September 2011
    Real Lady wrote: »
    u see a pretty woman at the bar by herself, you ask her whats she's drinking (and she tells u)...U ask can u buy her a drink, then she say o.k.. then u ask her what she is doing tonite, and she says nothing...so u ask her do she wanna go to your crib and she say no....so you get upset and offer her some money to go back to your crib and she act like she don't hear u, then start singing and dancing back on the floor trying to loose u in the crowd..


    In this scenario do u think this woman is slow? or do You think she can't hear u? or do you think she's trying to turn u off?

    Shawty you're the worst....WTF kinda shit is this...
    You're the Britta of the IC...
  • PicoPico Posts: 32,000 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
    7fIG wrote: »
    I think a woman who accepts a drink from man she has no interest in ..... has earned the title of "bitch".

    i agree.........
  • amenhotepivamenhotepiv Posts: 7,234 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
    a.mann wrote: »
    nah, you not slow

    but shouldn't be letting dudes buy you drinksin that sitaution tho

    with much emphasis.....dont do it
    now if dude is horny he in predator mode
    so he cant be reasoned with
  • amenhotepivamenhotepiv Posts: 7,234 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
    Real Lady wrote: »
    or do people think its always cat chases mouse and love taps?


    one of my greatest fears is to get killed by a obsessive man...

    I am aware that some men hate women, and they aim after attractive women because they think we are stuck up.. some men plot on turning these type of women out, because they believe this is humbling a stuck up woman..

    I am often judged as stuck up when I am not, and I feel that some men have evil intentions for trying to get with me.. In some cases I feel it's just someone who wants to bring me down, someone who wants to destroy me, because they are not over a x that mistreated them..

    eventho a lot of men come at me, I fear most of them...thats why i don't get how ppl get me confused with "easy".. I think because I can be friendly they get it confused. A lot of times I am friendly so that the man wont become angry from rejection.. I like to keep peace..

    However when I have persisted male enemies, people think it's love taps, they think we are in love because we are beefing...

    I keep telling people, when I am in love with someone, I don't run around telling everyone that they are after me.

    I don't play games like that. A man that don't understand no, have a potential of a rapist, and I will kill him, before he rapes me...I have never been raped and I am afraid of men with rapist behavior. it's not normal 2 me.

    When I say no it' do sent mean yes, and yes do not mean no. I mean exactly what I say...& I know when I love someone.


    when I start telling other men about a over persisting male, it's because I want protection from him, I am afraid of men with this nature. & male family members have kept them away from me, so I never been raped and I don't want 2 be... I will kill.:mad:

    sis
    u not emotionally available right now and u shouldnt go out alone in these days
    get hooked up through friends or family
  • CapitalCCapitalC Posts: 2,056
    edited September 2011
    If you wanna keep it reall 100, pretty girls (who are used to being pretty)
    1. don't go to bars alone...they don't have to....
    2. don't accept drinks from ugly/bamma ass niggas who obviously tryna go smack at them...
    3. When the nigga says something as disrespectful as the guy said to you, they not gonna act like they didn't hear him, they gonna laugh him with her pretty ass friends...

    I'm not saying t/s ugly but that story sucks balls
  • Hyde ParkeHyde Parke Posts: 2,573
    edited September 2011
    baby girl you got some issues. you think to much, mainly about the wrong thangs
  • a.manna.mann Posts: 17,374 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
    on second thought

    maybe you are slow
  • Platinum FalconPlatinum Falcon Posts: 28
    edited September 2011
    Real Lady wrote: »
    or do people think its always cat chases mouse and love taps?


    [B]one of my greatest fears is to get killed by a obsessive man...

    I am aware that some men hate women, and they aim after attractive women because they think we are stuck up.. some men plot on turning these type of women out, because they believe this is humbling a stuck up woman..

    I am often judged as stuck up when I am not, and I feel that some men have evil intentions for trying to get with me.. In some cases I feel it's just someone who wants to bring me down, someone who wants to destroy me, because they are not over a x that mistreated them..

    eventho a lot of men come at me, I fear most of them...thats why i don't get how ppl get me confused with "easy".. I think because I can be friendly they get it confused. A lot of times I am friendly so that the man wont become angry from rejection.. I like to keep peace..

    However when I have persisted male enemies, people think it's love taps, they think we are in love because we are beefing...

    I keep telling people, when I am in love with someone, I don't run around telling everyone that they are after me.

    I don't play games like that. A man that don't understand no, have a potential of a rapist, and I will kill him, before he rapes me...I have never been raped and I am afraid of men with rapist behavior. it's not normal 2 me.

    When I say no it' do sent mean yes, and yes do not mean no. I mean exactly what I say...& I know when I love someone.


    when I start telling other men about a over persisting male, it's because I want protection from him, I am afraid of men with this nature. & male family members have kept them away from me, so I never been raped and I don't want 2 be... I will kill.:mad:[/B]


    What about a man that's not obsessive. You sound like you the buisness GTFOHWTS, don't make youself a target.
  • buntibunti Posts: 4
    edited November 2011
    fellas do u understand when a woman is tryna2 turn you off or do u think she is slow .Happy to be here all life and bring prosperity in all matters so never forget a best outcomes a good image and maintain a standard so carry on struggle.
  • MadbeatsMadbeats Posts: 544
    edited December 2011
    Smh, not sure about this.
  • bankrupt ballerbankrupt baller Posts: 12,920 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2011
    ether-i-am wrote: »
    Yous a scary bitch.

    lol.........
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