Quit or Commit

goat334

Plap Star wrote: »

im trying to keep her but not settle down like that

Something gotta give - Big Boi

NYCeeCee

goat334 wrote: »

Not always the case.

What's not always the case?

Edit: Oh, I see that.

I still stand by my statement. What hlf went through is not common, at all. I'm a woman. I have women friends. I know how this generally works. LOL

goat334

NYCeeCee wrote: »

What's not always the case?

Edit: Oh, I see that.

I still stand by my statement. What hlf went through is not common, at all. I'm a woman. I have women friends. I know how this generally works. LOL

Not saying you.
So you still want the dick that you couldn't have even though you have some dick that's yours now?

Plop Star

NYCeeCee wrote: »

btw, no one should ever be forced into a relationship/commitment. Do it when YOU are ready. It doesn't really matter how great she is (which it sounds like she is), you'll end up doing something that committed people shouldn't be doing. Why? Because it's not in you yet (nh?) You did it for selfish reasons.

Been there. Done that.

my reasons exactly..............i like the way you think

Plop Star

goat334 wrote: »

Something gotta give - Big Boi

lol..................

Jamaica

Plap Star wrote: »

i dont wanna do neither tho

you want to have your cake and eat it too. i can (sorta) see where she is coming from. but you gotta sacrifice one way or the other. either you sacrifice your beliefs and wife her, or you sacrifice and just dont mess with her no more. the ball is really in your court.

goat334

Plap Star wrote: »

my reasons exactly..............i like the way you think

I agree you should never do something you're not ready for. Just take the time to seriously think about it, think about the future without thinking with your dick.

kai_valya

4 years go by anbd she's just now letting it be known she wants a relationship now? what's wrong with some chicks, you didn't seek a commitment for four years, now you really think your gonna get one? i think if you really wanted to be with her, you would've made it happen by now

NYCeeCee

goat334 wrote: »

Not saying you.
So you still want the dick that you couldn't have even though you have some dick that's yours now?

I'm happy and overjoyed with the one I have. LOL

Plop Star

jamacia wrote: »

you want to have your cake and eat it too. i can (sorta) see where she is coming from. but you gotta sacrifice one way or the other. either you sacrifice your beliefs and wife her, or you sacrifice and just dont mess with her no more. the ball is really in your court.

if i stop messing wit her..................imma be mad as shit at myself
if i wife her...............imma cheat on her, and be mad as shit at myself when she catch me

this shit is almost a lose lose

NYCeeCee

kai_valya wrote: »

4 years go by anbd she's just now letting it be known she wants a relationship now? what's wrong with some chicks, you didn't seek a commitment for four years, now you really think your gonna get one? i think if you really wanted to be with her, you would've made it happen by now

yes, ma'am

icecoldstew

NYCeeCee wrote: »

What's not always the case?

Edit: Oh, I see that.

I still stand by my statement. What hlf went through is not common, at all. I'm a woman. I have women friends. I know how this generally works. LOL

True Im sure its not common but it did happen and I know for a fact im not the only one. Just an option of what could happen not guaranteed lol

Plap Star wrote: »

if i stop messing wit her..................imma be mad as shit at myself
if i wife her...............imma cheat on her, and be mad as shit at myself when she catch me

this shit is almost a lose lose

LOL well.......

Plop Star

kai_valya wrote: »

4 years go by anbd she's just now letting it be known she wants a relationship now? what's wrong with some chicks, you didn't seek a commitment for four years, now you really think your gonna get one? i think if you really wanted to be with her, you would've made it happen by now

thats what im sayin

but you kno how these hoes be..............


btw

WE LOVE YOU KAI!!!!!!!!

kat2180

Plap Star wrote: »

i dont wanna do neither tho

Smh...greedy ass.

Jamaica

Plap Star wrote: »

if i stop messing wit her..................imma be mad as shit at myself
if i wife her...............imma cheat on her, and be mad as shit at myself when she catch me

this shit is almost a lose lose

you dont want to be forced in a relationship and be unhappy. so to me it's best to just chill and play the field until youre ready to commit. you may lose her in the process but thats life.

gns

Plap Star wrote: »

i dont care about that shit as long as i can still fuck.................

Plap Star wrote: »

relationships come with bullshit......period

Plap Star wrote: »

yea it might if she does get pregnant by some nigga.............cause it definately wont be me

u mightve been the trillest nigga on this site if it wasnt for that one slip up.

goat334

NYCeeCee wrote: »

I'm happy and overjoyed with the one I have. LOL

That LOL made it ' I plead the 5th'

kai_valya

Plap Star wrote: »

thats what im sayin

but you kno how these hoes be..............


btw

WE LOVE YOU KAI!!!!!!!!

plappy baby! i bet i could make you commit in no time tho

NYCeeCee

goat334 wrote: »

That LOL made it ' I plead the 5th'

No, the "LOL" is because it was a funny question. The reason why I can speak on this subject is because my story is a combination of hlf and Plap's.

darkone360

Plap Star wrote: »

So this crazy bitch i been fucking with for four years just texts me a couple minutes ago talkin bout.......

she tired of playing guessing games

she tired of our inconsistent love affair (her words)

Ive ruined the city for her with our memories

so then this bitch gives me a ultimatem...............

either quit it or commit it...on that relationship bullshit


and on fb she talkin bout she ready to be a mother and shit..............she must be crazy


but in the end she cool as fuck and a nurse but i aint bout that relationship shit..........

i think we cool just being friends.but she sees otherwise.............

woe is me...wat shall i do

give this hefa a few days, if that. you'll be back to hittin it. been there. she having a moment. therefore, it will pass. hell, if she was THAT concerned wit a relationship, then where all that talk 4 YEARS ago?

icecoldstew

NYCeeCee wrote: »

No, the "LOL" is because it was a funny question. The reason why I can speak on this subject is because my story is a combination of hlf and Plap's.

See there.....lol

Plop Star

jamacia wrote: »

you dont want to be forced in a relationship and be unhappy. so to me it's best to just chill and play the field until youre ready to commit. you may lose her in the process but thats life.

yea you have apoint i almost got no choose but to play the field

Plop Star

kat2180 wrote: »

Smh...greedy ass.

lol wat................

Plop Star

gns wrote: »

u mightve been the trillest nigga on this site if it wasnt for that one slip up.

lol that wasnt a slip up.............it was just for jokes, i bullshit all day in donkey

Plop Star

chicitylepio wrote: »

Writen like a nigga who aint ready to commit

Don't do it, reconsider
Read some liter
Chure on the subject
If u sure, fuck it.- Wise words from a decent man (3 stacks)

lol 3 stacks make a nigga think in times like these