u will never know unless u meet folk in her home town. If u like her dont probe too much lol. plus the older you get the more women ur gonna meet who have fucked a lot and the percentages of u meeting this "good girl" with alow sexual history that u can train goes down unless u go after younger chicks. with that said u can gauge that shit cuz you should know the type of women u mess with based off of character
True to all that. I think as you get older, you have to balance the "not digging too deep" with "weeding out the ho"
Because I dont want to know every detail of a womans past, but at the same time i dont want to marry a woman then find out the Alphas ran a train on her back in 08 and there's a video.
In the end, if you know a womans dirtiest deed it comes down to what YOU are willing to accept as an individual.
You are 100% right...
Its a double standard...
Is it right...(No...but it is what it is)
Side Note: Fellas fuck hoes just dont fall in love with one
If you gonna get in arelationship with a chick...
1)Run a background check
2)Ask questions (Bitches will dry snitch on themselves with the quickness)
3)Grt help from your sisters and female cusins and friends
3)
I mean its not really hard to see if a girl a hoe or not
Her past aint the only indicator
A hoe gonna hoe regardless
Its not like she get trained on one day, and becomes pure the next
The act can only last for so long
So here's the thing, from my experience there are 3 types of "former ho's"
-- The girl that went through a ho phase, but no one forgets (this one has genuinely changed, but her past follows her unless she leaves her community)
-- The girl that CLAIMS she went through a phase, but will ho again if she feels you like her (this one will suck your dick, then go to church)
I mean its not really hard to see if a girl a hoe or not
Her past aint the only indicator
A hoe gonna hoe regardless
Its not like she get trained on one day, and becomes pure the next
The act can only last for so long
it isnt that cut and dry tho. I know chicks in college that used to get ran thru their freshman year (Im talking set out/on tape, trains. just became good girls as upper classman. they ended up being wifed up by niggas when either didnt know or didnt care. females are sneaky and if they dont want u to know something they will hide it. as a man I do my back ground checks but I know it aint full proof. I trust my instincts in judging character tho.
i honestly believe many of dudes will end up passing up on their perfect match cuz of some shit that happen in their chicks sexual pass...
ur probably right. but Im the type that looks at a female I consider a serious relationship like this... would I want this woman to raise my kids? If she fucking everything left and right and has character flaws and no morals then she is not for me. certain women are for just sex not a relationship . It cold/harsh what Im saying but thats how I feel.
ur probably right. but Im the type that looks at a female I consider a serious relationship like this... would I want this woman to raise my kids? If she fucking everything left and right and has character flaws and no morals then she is not for me. certain women are for just sex not a relationship . It cold/harsh what Im saying but thats how I feel.
right, i completely agree, but i can't picture any sensible man falling deep in love with a chick that's still displaying these types of behaviors....
just like i couldn't seriously expect my lady to fall in love with me if i was still stealing cars and robbing people... but we all change, and move on from those types of lifestyles....
i mean i come off as such a nice guy, sometimes it takes a lot for me to explain to my lady the kind of mindset i was in whe i used to do a lotta dumb shit, and i can tell it took a toll on her cuz she's looking at me like she just doesn't see those things in my character...
but she got over it...
and i'm like....well damn if she can look past all that, and just chalk it up to a shady past...i should be able to do the same if she ever told me some shit that she used to do that she doesn't do anymore
right, i completely agree, but i can't picture any sensible man falling deep in love with a chick that's still displaying these types of behaviors....
just like i couldn't seriously expect my lady to fall in love with me if i was still stealing cars and robbing people... but we all change, and move on from those types of lifestyles....
i mean i come off as such a nice guy, sometimes it takes a lot for me to explain to my lady the kind of mindset i was in whe i used to do a lotta dumb shit, and i can tell it took a toll on her cuz she's looking at me like she just doesn't see those things in my character...
but she got over it...
and i'm like....well damn if she can look past all that, and just chalk it up to a shady past...i should be able to do the same if she ever told me some shit that she used to do that she doesn't do anymore
to be real ur right. but my character flaw is that I probably couldnt overcome knowing what she did in the past. cuz from jump if I knew I wouldnt consider dating her. I f I didnt know and she told em after the fact that would always be in my mind and then there is a trust issue. most men are insecure when it comes to that.I will say this tho if its gets to the point where I love her then I probably wont just up and leave cuz u got to love ur mate good and bad (unconditionally). but for the purpose of this thread the shit u do in life has a consequence and me being judgmental and havign trouble finding a mate is a consequence for hoarish behavior
to be real ur right. but my character flaw is that I probably couldnt overcome knowing what she did in the past. cuz from jump if I knew I wouldnt consider dating her. I f I didnt know and she told em after the fact that would always be in my mind and then there is a trust issue. most men are insecure when it comes to that.I will say this tho if its gets to the point where I love her then I probably wont just up and leave cuz u got to love ur mate good and bad (unconditionally). but for the purpose of this thread the shit u do in life has a consequence and me being judgmental and havign trouble finding a mate is a consequence for hoarish behavior
yea i feel u, and i understand....
but i've always been the type to do my dirt, and then clean up and smile like nuffin happened...and i've always liked nice good girls....not the type of chicks that are of that world where i do my dirt...
but i've always been insecure about a "good girl" truly accepting me, and the bullshit in my past....so when i found one that did...i just feel like, there's no too much that i can honestly say i would be a dealbreaker if it's completely in her past....
but i've always been the type to do my dirt, and then clean up and smile like nuffin happened...and i've always liked nice good girls....not the type of chicks that are of that world where i do my dirt...
but i've always been insecure about a "good girl" truly accepting me, and the bullshit in my past....so when i found one that did...i just feel like, there's no too much that i can honestly say i would be a dealbreaker if it's completely in her past....
u feel what i'm saying?
I feel u cuz u dont want to come off or feel like a hypocrite.
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I've had 263 sex partners. Been fuckin since 14 (17 now smh). I got gangbanged in the club by 5 random niggas. My womb is polluted from all the abortions I've had. I've had 6 STDs, 4 in which Doctors couldnt name. I get paid to masterbate online.
Same Female in another Thread:
Stop Bashing Women. Not all women are like that. You need to change your circle. You cant handle us, lame!!!
I feel u cuz u dont want to come off or feel like a hypocrite.
RIGHT....
not to mention when we first started talkign a few ppl in her family that don't fuck with her sisters husband (one of my best friends) were all like
"you know what they say about birds of a feather"
"he be outside with them niggaz all the time"
"you see what happened to your sister and you just gonna bring another thug around your family"
i mean that's the type of shit she had cousins n what telling her about me at first, mind you i'm nothing but polite and respectful to everyone in her family.. but that's what she's hearing...
and when we really got down to talking about each other and pasts..i pretty much told her a lotta of the shit i did and been through...i've even been arrested once since being with her, and she dealt with al the
"i told yo, i told you"
"that nigga ain't shit"
without ever really judging me or being on no bs.....
so i mean if she ever told me ...
o some niggaz ran a train on her like 5 years before we even met....
i'd have no choice but to be like..."don't even sweat that shit....just make sure all ur freaky shit from now on is done with me"
Female in this Thread:
I've had 263 sex partners. Been fuckin since 14 (17 now smh). I got gangbanged in the club by 5 random niggas. My womb is polluted from all the abortions I've had. I've had 6 STDs, 4 in which Doctors couldnt name. I get paid to masterbate online.
Same Female in another Thread:
Stop Bashing Women. Not all women are like that. You need to change your circle. You cant handle us, lame!!!
not to mention when we first started talkign a few ppl in her family that don't fuck with her sisters husband (one of my best friends) were all like
"you know what they say about birds of a feather"
"he be outside with them niggaz all the time"
"you see what happened to your sister and you just gonna bring another thug around your family"
i mean that's the type of shit she had cousins n what telling her about me at first, mind you i'm nothing but polite and respectful to everyone in her family.. but that's what she's hearing...
and when we really got down to talking about each other and pasts..i pretty much told her a lotta of the shit i did and been through...i've even been arrested once since being with her, and she dealt with al the
"i told yo, i told you"
"that nigga ain't shit"
without ever really judging me or being on no bs.....
so i mean if she ever told me ...
o some niggaz ran a train on her like 5 years before we even met....
i'd have no choice but to be like..."don't even sweat that shit....just make sure all ur freaky shit from now on is done with me"
so yall niggs saying if yo wifey revealed that she done got doubled dildoed by a nigga and a female yall would see her differently
yeah. cuz if she my wife by this point we done been together a min and she would just no be telling me= trust/character issues. add in she would be bisexual? I wouldnt want to marry that
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Her past aint the only indicator
A hoe gonna hoe regardless
Its not like she get trained on one day, and becomes pure the next
The act can only last for so long
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •True to all that. I think as you get older, you have to balance the "not digging too deep" with "weeding out the ho"
Because I dont want to know every detail of a womans past, but at the same time i dont want to marry a woman then find out the Alphas ran a train on her back in 08 and there's a video.
In the end, if you know a womans dirtiest deed it comes down to what YOU are willing to accept as an individual.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •You are 100% right...
Its a double standard...
Is it right...(No...but it is what it is)
Side Note: Fellas fuck hoes just dont fall in love with one
If you gonna get in arelationship with a chick...
1)Run a background check
2)Ask questions (Bitches will dry snitch on themselves with the quickness)
3)Grt help from your sisters and female cusins and friends
3)
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •So here's the thing, from my experience there are 3 types of "former ho's"
-- The girl that went through a ho phase, but no one forgets (this one has genuinely changed, but her past follows her unless she leaves her community)
-- The girl that CLAIMS she went through a phase, but will ho again if she feels you like her (this one will suck your dick, then go to church)
-- The girl that will always be a ho
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •it isnt that cut and dry tho. I know chicks in college that used to get ran thru their freshman year (Im talking set out/on tape, trains. just became good girls as upper classman. they ended up being wifed up by niggas when either didnt know or didnt care. females are sneaky and if they dont want u to know something they will hide it. as a man I do my back ground checks but I know it aint full proof. I trust my instincts in judging character tho.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Bring her to your house, give her a few glasses and let her talk.
Just listen, dont say too much. Whatever she tells you, do your best to sound unsurprised. And keep your facial expression as neutral as possible.
She'll tell you pretty much anything.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Would it be fair to say that if it were truly meant to be, she would not have a past that would deter him?
Because the entire concept of a 'perfect match' implies that your S/O is precisely what you want in a mate.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •possibly, cuz i haven't heard my lady tell me anything that seriously grossed me out...
but at this point i'm so deep into it, if she did, i think i'd just have to deal with it...and move to canada
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •ur probably right. but Im the type that looks at a female I consider a serious relationship like this... would I want this woman to raise my kids? If she fucking everything left and right and has character flaws and no morals then she is not for me. certain women are for just sex not a relationship . It cold/harsh what Im saying but thats how I feel.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •right, i completely agree, but i can't picture any sensible man falling deep in love with a chick that's still displaying these types of behaviors....
just like i couldn't seriously expect my lady to fall in love with me if i was still stealing cars and robbing people... but we all change, and move on from those types of lifestyles....
i mean i come off as such a nice guy, sometimes it takes a lot for me to explain to my lady the kind of mindset i was in whe i used to do a lotta dumb shit, and i can tell it took a toll on her cuz she's looking at me like she just doesn't see those things in my character...
but she got over it...
and i'm like....well damn if she can look past all that, and just chalk it up to a shady past...i should be able to do the same if she ever told me some shit that she used to do that she doesn't do anymore
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •to be real ur right. but my character flaw is that I probably couldnt overcome knowing what she did in the past. cuz from jump if I knew I wouldnt consider dating her. I f I didnt know and she told em after the fact that would always be in my mind and then there is a trust issue. most men are insecure when it comes to that.I will say this tho if its gets to the point where I love her then I probably wont just up and leave cuz u got to love ur mate good and bad (unconditionally). but for the purpose of this thread the shit u do in life has a consequence and me being judgmental and havign trouble finding a mate is a consequence for hoarish behavior
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •yea i feel u, and i understand....
but i've always been the type to do my dirt, and then clean up and smile like nuffin happened...and i've always liked nice good girls....not the type of chicks that are of that world where i do my dirt...
but i've always been insecure about a "good girl" truly accepting me, and the bullshit in my past....so when i found one that did...i just feel like, there's no too much that i can honestly say i would be a dealbreaker if it's completely in her past....
u feel what i'm saying?
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •trife hoes
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •I feel u cuz u dont want to come off or feel like a hypocrite.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •I've had 263 sex partners. Been fuckin since 14 (17 now smh). I got gangbanged in the club by 5 random niggas. My womb is polluted from all the abortions I've had. I've had 6 STDs, 4 in which Doctors couldnt name. I get paid to masterbate online.
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Stop Bashing Women. Not all women are like that. You need to change your circle. You cant handle us, lame!!!
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1 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether 1GOAT LOL •RIGHT....
not to mention when we first started talkign a few ppl in her family that don't fuck with her sisters husband (one of my best friends) were all like
"you know what they say about birds of a feather"
"he be outside with them niggaz all the time"
"you see what happened to your sister and you just gonna bring another thug around your family"
i mean that's the type of shit she had cousins n what telling her about me at first, mind you i'm nothing but polite and respectful to everyone in her family.. but that's what she's hearing...
and when we really got down to talking about each other and pasts..i pretty much told her a lotta of the shit i did and been through...i've even been arrested once since being with her, and she dealt with al the
"i told yo, i told you"
"that nigga ain't shit"
without ever really judging me or being on no bs.....
so i mean if she ever told me ...
o some niggaz ran a train on her like 5 years before we even met....
i'd have no choice but to be like..."don't even sweat that shit....just make sure all ur freaky shit from now on is done with me"
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •wait what....
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •I wouldnt be able to do it.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •lol, i feel u....
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •thats what i'm saying, and neither of you would be wrong or right.
its all on the individual. i know personally, everytime i looked at her i would catch images of 5 niggas running a train.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •in teh words of Scarface her womb is polluted lol
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •yeah. cuz if she my wife by this point we done been together a min and she would just no be telling me= trust/character issues. add in she would be bisexual? I wouldnt want to marry that
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