If Your Best/Favorite Friend Needed A Place To Stay...

blackrain

Es-Bee wrote: »

it aint about being paranoid, its about "the setup"

this situation t/s described is just a setup, could all be innocent at first but its easy for sexual tension to build amongst opposite sexes due to human nature, people knowing intimate details about each other

think about people that have affairs, a high % of those affairs take place amongst co-workers, becuz those people spend most of they day with each other and share things amongst each other that's personal

nobody is denying this...but ya'll acting like you can't control that...like you can't control who you fuck and when you fuck them...just because the pussy is there does not mean you have to chase it or that you have to take it when offered...

damnkp

my wife's friend came to visit from VA.. and as soon as my wife left for work this bitch came into the room where i was laying and stood over me... with a half shirt with no bra on.. giving me the eye of the devil. i thought about it for like 3 seconds and got the fuck up and left the house..without even brushin my teeth. but i never told my wife.and she considers her a good friend

Mr. AJ

No.

because some years ago, me and the woman I was with at the time had her friends stay with her for a month here..
another friend for a week there...
another for a few weeks because they were moving into new apartments and their places weren't ready for rental. Anyways..

I fucked them all... multiple times, I worked morning shifts.. my woman worked 3rd/night shifts so we only seen eachother a for short amount of time each day.

These women would walk through the house dressed in provocative night wear etc etc.

Always asking for dvd's, If I can I do something for them, If I could help with something, little conversations here and there.

I eventually gave in to all the signs of rubbing up against me braless, or wearing only panties and t-shirt keeping me in their presence,
coming into the bathroom while i shower claiming it was an accident, didn't know anyone was in there...

yall know the deal

If my homie needed a place to stay with me and my woman = NO

blackrain

damnkp wrote: »

my wife's friend came to visit from VA.. and as soon as my wife left for work this bitch came into the room where i was laying and stood over me... with a half shirt with no bra on.. giving me the eye of the devil. i thought about it for like 3 seconds and got the fuck up and left the house..without even brushin my teeth. but i never told my wife.and she considers her a good friend

oh shit...it can be done

damnkp

Mr. AJ wrote: »

No.

because some years ago, me and the woman I was with at the time had her friends stay with her for a month here..
another friend for a week there...
another for a few weeks because they were moving into new apartments and their places weren't ready for rental. Anyways..

I fucked them all... multiple times, I worked morning shifts.. my woman worked 3rd/night shifts so we only seen eachother a for short amount of time each day.

These women would walk through the house dressed in provocative night wear etc etc.

Always asking for dvd's, If I can I do something for them, If I could help with something, little conversations here and there.

I eventually gave in to all the signs of rubbing up against me braless, or wearing only panties and t-shirt keeping me in their presence,
coming into the bathroom while i shower claiming it was an accident, didn't know anyone was in there...

yall know the deal

If my homie needed a place to stay with me and my woman = NO

if your not married i say it's all fair game

mryounggun

Of course I would. SMH.

damnkp

blackrain wrote: »

oh shit...it can be done

that's what i'm sayin..shit was crucial

twinzmom

Mr. AJ wrote: »

No.

If my homie needed a place to stay with me and my woman = NO

Do you think your girl would do those things you just spoke of?

blackrain

here's what I don't get though...forget your woman...how can ya'll niggas call somebody your boy, damn near your brother, and you know he'd try to fuck your woman...that's not somebody that's your friend...that's just a nigga you've known for a long time

mryounggun

I've had two friends come stay with me and my girl for a couple months. One was male and one was female. Shit is only a problem if you let it be. No robocops in my crib.

DRO

blackrain wrote: »

so it's not possible at all to simply not fuck your girl's friend?

mikko_ wrote: »

that's what baffles me, we're not animals. We can control our urges, i've had plenty of friends with attractive mates. Hell, my friend i told you all about with the paternity shit's husband is gorgeous. But it would never cross my mind, not in a million years.
So if my bf and my man are capable of doing some fucked up shit like that i would prefer to know.

its possible.. But we are all humans.. And no matter how full you are, if some ones comes around you will some of the best smellin, best lookking food, you gone want a lil taste.. Its just human nature...

So basically, dont set ya self up for the bullshyt, ...thats like a nigga askin for one potatoe chip and him not wantin more...

damnkp

blackrain wrote: »

here's what I don't get though...forget your woman...how can ya'll niggas call somebody your boy, damn near your brother, and you know he'd try to fuck your woman...that's not somebody that's your friend...that's just a nigga you've known for a long time

every nigga is human and can easily be tempted into doing regrettable shit from time to time...especially for pussy

goat334

kat2180 wrote: »

Another thought..what if it comes down to a case of he said, she said?

Now you gotta decide if your bf is telling the truth or your man...too much stress.

It don't matter if they already fucked.

But I know what you're talking about though, that's tough.

DRO

blackrain wrote: »

so it's not possible at all to simply not fuck your girl's friend?

damnkp wrote: »

every nigga is human and can easily be tempted into doing regrettable shit from time to time...especially for pussy

thats what im tryin 2 tell these niggas....

PaperChasin

Yes.. if my girl already told me prev that she doesnt find him attractive and etc.

No.. if she told me the opposite.

Currently, my girl told me she happens to find my best friend to be a decent looking guy.. so in that case, that nigga sleepin in the subway.

nex gin

kat2180 wrote: »

Exactly...I've seen a female fuck her sisters man of 5 years after being allowed to stay at their home to get her shit together. I don't put ANYTHING past humans, even best friends.

Unfortunately that's real shit. Some people are grimier than you think. You can never truly know someone 100%. Even if not that...you still have the strain of having someone else occupy your living space for however long. It would really depend on the specifics of the situation. Shit might be cool for a while, but let some time go by....you and your s/o can't walk around your house in your drawls and be comfortable. Them being there could put a damper on your sex life because you can't be as free to do what you want w/ others in the house. You have to deal w/ their living habits. Of course you want to help out your bestie but at the same time there are some realistic concerns that have to be considered.

DRO

PaperChasin wrote: »

yes.. If my girl already told me prev that she doesnt find him attractive and etc.

No.. If she told me the opposite.

Currently, my girl told me she happens to find my best friend to be a decent looking guy.. So in that case, that nigga sleepin in the subway.

hahah.. Bruh.. Ugly aint got nothing to do with a nigga sex game, dick size and tounge game....

The BAPHOMET

blackrain wrote: »

nobody is denying this...but ya'll acting like you can't control that...like you can't control who you fuck and when you fuck them...just because the pussy is there does not mean you have to chase it or that you have to take it when offered...

it got nothing to do with control, sometimes shit just happens, I know you heard the saying

so why heighten the chances for shit to happen

DRO

nex gin wrote: »

unfortunately that's real shit. Some people are grimier than you think. You can never truly know someone 100%. Even if not that...you still have the strain of having someone else occupy your living space for however long. It would really depend on the specifics of the situation. Shit might be cool for a while, but let some time go by....you and your s/o can't walk around your house in your drawls and be comfortable. Them being there could put a damper on your sex life because you can't be as free to do what you want w/ others in the house. You have to deal w/ their living habits. Of course you want to help out your bestie but at the same time there are some realistic concerns that have to be considered.

yeah u got a point.. U cant fuk how you want when u got folks in the house... Nigga cant walk around in they drawz.. Nigga cant fart.. None of that

mryounggun

Niggas don't trust their best friends or their old lady...but stay friends with the nigga and stay in the relationship. SMH.

PaperChasin

PUPU_IZ_DRO wrote: »

hahah.. Bruh.. Ugly aint got nothing to do with a nigga sex game, dick size and tounge game....

Lol.. true, but she has to find him attractive before she even becomes intrigued to wanna find out those things.

Aztec_Kang

he gonna dick down your bitch gauranteed. tell that friend to stay with his family.

blackrain

damnkp wrote: »

every nigga is human and can easily be tempted into doing regrettable shit from time to time...especially for pussy

and every human can practice self control....and if pussy is enough to make you either say fuck your homie or fuck your woman/relationship...then neither meant that much to you from jump

blackrain

Es-Bee wrote: »

it got nothing to do with control, sometimes shit just happens, I know you heard the saying

so why heighten the chances for shit to happen

it has everything to do with self control...unless you know people whose dick and pussy work w/o them knowing....

PaperChasin

mryounggun wrote: »

Niggas don't trust their best friends or their old lady...but stay friends with the nigga and stay in the relationship. SMH.

Cant trust nothin man, your friend could snitch, your car could break down, or your gun could jam.