Folks that are married or in an LTR, how do you resist the urge for some strange?

desertrain10

blakfyahking wrote: »

desertrain10 wrote: »

blakfyahking wrote: »

desertrain10 wrote: »

blakfyahking wrote: »

bignorm wrote: »

I'll be honest, its all about situation management.

^^^^ real shit.......this is all a faithful marriage is about

unless you one of those types who would have limited options anyway




and LMAO @ kat

I love her as a poster haha

@fellas

i get you shouldn't put ur self in certain situations... and things aren't always black and white

but i don't get why is it so hard for a grown man to keep his dick in his pants? ... does pussy have that much power over you that you are willing to lose a good woman ... lol. especially when all i hear from men is a good, loyal woman is hard to find... so is it pussy is all power or are most men literally settling down?

the reason why it's hard is cause a lot of females get way too comfortable in a relationship

and the main reason why a lot of cats stay in relationships is one of several reasons:

1) wifey stays on point
2) wifey guilt trips the nigga
3) cuzzo can't do better than wifey
4) cuzzo is in a slump
5) cuzzo is brainwashed by moms/disney movies/or is a simp


obviously the best reason is #1........but realistically that takes a lot of effort

the other numbers are most common, and a lot of chicks refuse to admit that they aren't doing #1 :shrugs

lol. its so funny how people still like to skirt around the subject of self accountability.... or how they come up w/ these elaborate excuses to deflect from the fact that they were still in the wrong and lacked any resemblance of self control...

but accountable to who tho?

another grown adult?


how come there is no recourse for when a man isn't getting what he wants, and a female is allowed to make excuses?

a woman gets cheated on.......mofos feel sorry for her

a man gets cheated on.........mofos tell him to boss the fuck up LOL


females rarely analyze what incentives are available that would make a reasonable man with choices choose to be in a monogamous relationship

SMH @ thinking companionship and marginal doses of pussy from time to time sufficiently compensates a nigga for passing up new pussy

and too many men fail to man up and admit to themselves that monogamy isn't for them... lol. or that relationships take work and are not always perfect...

and while i don't want to hurt anyone or lose out on a good thing, really for it me fidelity is about having self integrity... being honest with myself and others....and doing the right thing...

if i put in years of time, energy, money into another human being best believe that person has proven to be worthy of such before the fact more times than not...

but if he starts to slip or turns out not to be the person i fell in love the answer is not to cheat...that's counterproductive... and really what does it fix? i'mma at least try to work on things or bounce... why stick around?

cool amp

kai_valya wrote: »

well, i don't really have an urge to resist.

principles aside, there's no one i want more than him, in every way. so even tho i may notice an attractive man, or i get hit on, the thought of straying isn't even in the realm of possibilities

damn man, this is the internet. youre anonymous. that means youre free, bytch. you dont have tote around that politically correct bag of bullshyt on the internet. adam and eve were superhumans living in paradise, and that black bytch still couldnt resist temptation! so why in the fukk is a mortal muthafukka like yourself trying to sell us these wolf tickets? rebuttal?

this bytch tryin' to say she dont want for nothing more than a regular degular ass nygga. i wanna see this muthafukka spin her way outta this one.

Cain1

Lol @ resist!

kai_valya

cool amp wrote: »

kai_valya wrote: »

well, i don't really have an urge to resist.

principles aside, there's no one i want more than him, in every way. so even tho i may notice an attractive man, or i get hit on, the thought of straying isn't even in the realm of possibilities

damn man, this is the internet. youre anonymous. that means youre free, bytch. you dont have tote around that politically correct bag of bullshyt on the internet. adam and eve were superhumans living in paradise, and that black bytch still couldnt resist temptation! so why in the fukk is a mortal muthafukka like yourself trying to sell us these wolf tickets? rebuttal?

this bytch tryin' to say she dont want for nothing more than a regular degular ass nygga. i wanna see this muthafukka spin her way outta this one.

lol, i'm not even sure what you're trying to say. i'm not the only one who had the same stance in this thread. but you pick out my post to try and start shit. you must've really wanted me to reply to you. well your wish has been granted, happy now?

Ms.Scorp

lol @ Kai...homeboy is pissed!

I think as Humans, most of us have those desires, it's just about self control. You have to love and value the person your with enough to resist those urges, but it is easy?

Not always, but if you have someone great it's worth it.

kai_valya

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

lol @ Kai...homeboy is pissed!

I think as Humans, most of us have those desires, it's just about self control. You have to love and value the person your with enough to resist those urges, but it is easy?

Not always, but if you have someone great it's worth it.

hey, how was your vacation?

and lol, dude's just made that no woman finds him attractive enough to keep their eyes from straying. oh the plight that is being an ugly man

@cool amp you can prove me wrong, but i doubt that's gonna happen

Louis Cipher

life is all about choice...

you are as you choose to be. if you dont want to cheat...dont.

it doesnt require pages and pages of arguing...and name-calling

Ms.Scorp

kai_valya wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

lol @ Kai...homeboy is pissed!

I think as Humans, most of us have those desires, it's just about self control. You have to love and value the person your with enough to resist those urges, but it is easy?

Not always, but if you have someone great it's worth it.

hey, how was your vacation?

and lol, dude's just made that no woman finds him attractive enough to keep their eyes from straying. oh the plight that is being an ugly man

@cool amp you can prove me wrong, but i doubt that's gonna happen

Girl I'm still on it for 2 more weeks, I forgot my password for my other account and made it with one of those disposable e-mails so I had to make this one.....smh.

Laying around the house doing NOTHING is the best feeling in the World

kai_valya

IntellectualViolence wrote: »

@cool amp tried to go in... but there are harlots who cannot imagine that a woman can resist strange penis and think Kai is full of shit because she claims to be a civilized human who isn't ruled by her vagina... they scared to go in though...

you, stop trying to instigate. i agree with your post otherwise tho.

a kleptomaniac can not comprehend that other people aren't constantly fighting the urge to steal shit, same with addicts, abusive people, and so on and so forth. people see things through their own experiences and it's hard for them to imagine that others may operate with a different mindset.

a.mann

so slut can't imagine how other females refuse to ride the train?

NYCeeCee

I guess the thread is all off topic now?

blakfyahking

desertrain10 wrote: »

blakfyahking wrote: »

desertrain10 wrote: »

blakfyahking wrote: »

desertrain10 wrote: »

blakfyahking wrote: »

bignorm wrote: »

I'll be honest, its all about situation management.

^^^^ real shit.......this is all a faithful marriage is about

unless you one of those types who would have limited options anyway




and LMAO @ kat

I love her as a poster haha

@fellas

i get you shouldn't put ur self in certain situations... and things aren't always black and white

but i don't get why is it so hard for a grown man to keep his dick in his pants? ... does pussy have that much power over you that you are willing to lose a good woman ... lol. especially when all i hear from men is a good, loyal woman is hard to find... so is it pussy is all power or are most men literally settling down?

the reason why it's hard is cause a lot of females get way too comfortable in a relationship

and the main reason why a lot of cats stay in relationships is one of several reasons:

1) wifey stays on point
2) wifey guilt trips the nigga
3) cuzzo can't do better than wifey
4) cuzzo is in a slump
5) cuzzo is brainwashed by moms/disney movies/or is a simp


obviously the best reason is #1........but realistically that takes a lot of effort

the other numbers are most common, and a lot of chicks refuse to admit that they aren't doing #1 :shrugs

lol. its so funny how people still like to skirt around the subject of self accountability.... or how they come up w/ these elaborate excuses to deflect from the fact that they were still in the wrong and lacked any resemblance of self control...

but accountable to who tho?

another grown adult?


how come there is no recourse for when a man isn't getting what he wants, and a female is allowed to make excuses?

a woman gets cheated on.......mofos feel sorry for her

a man gets cheated on.........mofos tell him to boss the fuck up LOL


females rarely analyze what incentives are available that would make a reasonable man with choices choose to be in a monogamous relationship

SMH @ thinking companionship and marginal doses of pussy from time to time sufficiently compensates a nigga for passing up new pussy

and too many men fail to man up and admit to themselves that monogamy isn't for them... lol. or that relationships take work and are not always perfect...

and while i don't want to hurt anyone or lose out on a good thing, really for it me fidelity is about having self integrity... being honest with myself and others....and doing the right thing...

if i put in years of time, energy, money into another human being best believe that person has proven to be worthy of such before the fact more times than not...

but if he starts to slip or turns out not to be the person i fell in love the answer is not to cheat...that's counterproductive... and really what does it fix? i'mma at least try to work on things or bounce... why stick around?

you living in fantasy world tho babes

cause what you are saying is all good if people stayed exactly the same their whole lives

but unfortunately in reality mofos change in some way everyday................


so yesterday I could've been the most faithful mofo in the world and would die by my "integrity"

but throw in a mortgage, some kids, some real life drama and it ain't so easy to just dump yo ol lady to the side cause she ain't cutting it in the bedroom

so the choice at that point is be miserable and suffer dry spells

or be miserable knowing you had to forfeit your whole lifestyle just cause you wanted to bust a nut one good time



females stay claiming they want honesty, but don't want to accept it when it's presented to them

a relationship is just as much an investment of his time as it is for the woman....................but I ask again, what recourse does cuzzo have when ol girl decides to start slacking on her shit?

MeTaL

Your actions.. Your decisions.. Temptation IS hard to resist.. But having the will power and the self control/restraint to control your variety and urges solely is base upon you.. In the end you still responsible for your urges and controlling them. Nobody in this world is perfect human being.. You as woman or man is going to be in situations where that woman or man is going to try and make themselves available to you knowing damn well you in a relationship and the temptation is going to be STRONG as hell.. But with that.. It's going to be up to you as an individual to simply walk away with your integrity or do it.

a.mann

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

a.mann wrote: »

so slut can't imagine how other females refuse to ride the train?

Stfu...does typing out your ass come naturally for you?

I'm not knocking kai for her opinion, but at the same time, I don't feel I'm wrong for mine either.

It's a beautiful thing that she feels so strongly for the person she's committed her life to, but that's not necessarily the norm. MANY people cheat, many people recognize temptation and act accordingly to remain true to their partner, and then there are those that aren't tempted at all.

Out of love for my man and the promises I've made myself, I purposely avoid situations that may lead to infidelity and that basically boils back down to not having a desire to do him like that.

So stop being so fucking pious you lame.

"kat logic" @ it's finest

a.mann

that rhymes with tag


like in "tag team"

R.D.

Cheating is subjective

a.mann

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Says the them an

MeTaL wrote: »

Your actions.. Your decisions.. Temptation IS hard to resist.. But having the will power and the self control/restraint to control your variety and urges solely is base upon you.. In the end you still responsible for your urges and controlling them. Nobody in this world is perfect human being.. You as woman or man is going to be in situations where that woman or man is going to try and make themselves available to you knowing damn well you in a relationship and the temptation is going to be STRONG as hell.. But with that.. It's going to be up to you as an individual to simply walk away with your integrity or do it.

Exactly..and you can type this and be respected for it, while I'm a whore for even admitting that temptation is out there.

quit whining

no guy here with sense and real world experience, will call you a out right whore