question for the fellas about cheating

Du_Du

didn't want to derail shorty thread....

basically i wanna ask....if your boy cheats on his girl....and you don't cheat on yours.....


do you still hang out with him???


i ask because i stopped hanging around a lotta my homeboys that cheat on their girls real heavy once i started getting really serious in my own relationship...

now this wasn't outta no pressure from her, but it was simply because i could see that they didn't give a fuck about what they were doing when they were out, and i couldn't adapt that kind of mindset...

i felt more and more awkward....


we hit up a sports bar, and them niggaz is obviously trying to holla at some chicks, and i'm laid back just being chill...i felt like i was fucking up the flow...it got to the point where i either hang out with dudes who keep it 100% faithful... or hang out with some of my boys who just don't be thirty at all when they go out....

Gnawledgeable

If they doing stuff behind their girl's back, imagine what they could do to you.

afrobanditt

still hang. he's gonna be my friend no matter what.

I wonder about people that cheat though, it seems like too much trouble to me. I'd rather stay single and have the freedom to smash whoever I wanted.

Makaveli Joker

Your homies relationship aint your business, be a man. You know who worries about another niggas relationship? bitches.

Elzo69Revolutions

My boy is my boy..how he treats his women is none of my concern.....

YoungGoldie

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Your homies relationship aint your business, be a man. You know who worries about another niggas relationship? bitches.

Du_Du

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

The Prodigalson

Well most of my homies ain't married so I really don't care what they do. As long as they don't try to influence you into some shit.

Makaveli Joker

Why you gotta be bitchmade and get personal about him lying to his wife and cheating on her? Thats not your business! Niggas is acting like bitches these days

Alkindus

LMAO had to goat da joka

the fuck you worrying about?

Du_Du

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Your homies relationship aint your business, be a man. You know who worries about another niggas relationship? bitches.

i'm not worried about their relationships, it's just a awkward feeling...

if you out with your boys, and they're on the prowl...and you're with them....it's pretty much commonplace to contribute to the group effort....

and what i'm saying is that ain't my thing no more, so i really feel like the odd man out sometimes

a.mann

long as I don't see him laying hands on her, if he choses to cheat on his lady ,that's on him

Elzo69Revolutions

Haul Judos wrote: »

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Your homies relationship aint your business, be a man. You know who worries about another niggas relationship? bitches.

i'm not worried about their relationships, it's just a awkward feeling...

if you out with your boys, and they're on the prowl...and you're with them....it's pretty much commonplace to contribute to the group effort....

and what i'm saying is that ain't my thing no more, so i really feel like the odd man out sometimes

play the wing man if need be then go on bout your business...

Du_Du

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Why you gotta be bitchmade and get personal about him lying to his wife and cheating on her? Thats not your business! Niggas is acting like bitches these days

how is that bitchmade?

loyalty is loyalty....

a nigga that's willing to lie over something petty like pussy is a nigga that's ready to lie about anything

YoungGoldie

Haul Judos wrote: »

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Your homies relationship aint your business, be a man. You know who worries about another niggas relationship? bitches.

i'm not worried about their relationships, it's just a awkward feeling...

if you out with your boys, and they're on the prowl...and you're with them....it's pretty much commonplace to contribute to the group effort....

and what i'm saying is that ain't my thing no more, so i really feel like the odd man out sometimes

U cant talk to a bitch without fukking her?

John_Blazini

they still my boys.... I dont care about them cheating... if they dont take care of their kids... i cant fuck with em...

7figz

Haul Judos wrote: »

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Your homies relationship aint your business, be a man. You know who worries about another niggas relationship? bitches.

i'm not worried about their relationships, it's just a awkward feeling...

if you out with your boys, and they're on the prowl...and you're with them....it's pretty much commonplace to contribute to the group effort....

and what i'm saying is that ain't my thing no more, so i really feel like the odd man out sometimes

Sounds kind of weak-minded. If you ain't a "cheater" then you probably won't cheat. It's understandable if you said that you stopped putting yourself in the situation to resist temptation but that doesn't mean you have to stop hanging with them completely unless all y'all did was going on the hunt for females.

taeboo

I know this question was for the fellas, but I feel where Du is coming from.

For me being around your friend's s/o when you know the dirt they're doing is the most awkward. Like how can you watch someone be all lovey dovey with their boyfriend/husband when you know a couple nights before she left with another dude when it was girl's night out....

Makaveli Joker

Whether this nigga wants to lie to his wife and fuck other bitches should be no concern of you. What you afraid he gonna do to you? Lie to you and kick it with someone else behind your back? Your his boy, maybe he dont love his wife no more. But that is his concern, not yours.

Du_Du

a.mann wrote: »

long as I don't see him laying hands on her, if he choses to cheat on his lady ,that's on him

while that's true, you are going to talk to certain shit with your boys....like if you just trying to relate on certain shit... you already know that's not something yall can relate on because yall obviously share different views on the subject.....

for example, we were joking around and talking about different things in that other thread...and i guess you get people who can realte because they're also in positions of making sure home is taken care of....but for a nigga who don't give a fuck about home.....

they cant relate....and it all reality, prolly don't wanna hear that shit....

and that can put a strain on shit if you can't relate to one of your closest friends abdout one of the most major things going on in your life....

Elzo69Reloaded wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Your homies relationship aint your business, be a man. You know who worries about another niggas relationship? bitches.

i'm not worried about their relationships, it's just a awkward feeling...

if you out with your boys, and they're on the prowl...and you're with them....it's pretty much commonplace to contribute to the group effort....

and what i'm saying is that ain't my thing no more, so i really feel like the odd man out sometimes

play the wing man if need be then go on bout your business...

it can be fun... but it will get old eventually....

a.mann

Haul Judos wrote: »

The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »

Why you gotta be bitchmade and get personal about him lying to his wife and cheating on her? Thats not your business! Niggas is acting like bitches these days

how is that bitchmade?

loyalty is loyalty....

a nigga that's willing to lie over something petty like pussy is a nigga that's ready to lie about anything

so I guess you'll hold him accountable for "cheating" on his taxes also
with this "logic"

BlackThor356

bruh, i promise you your wife has a couple friends who cheat on they niggas on the regular and she still prolly kick wit wit dem...

numbaz...80's baby

I don't

I gotta patnah that cheats on his girl, she gets mad, ask me about it, cheats on him, he gets mad, they fight, break up, fuck, and repeat the same process. On God, this has been going on for about three years str8." I got tired of lying for him. I'm a grown ass man. I dont need to lie about shit except being happy to be at work. I stop kickn it with him. I dont need to deal his problems. Got my own woman to deal with.

Cain1

Shit all my niggas is out there do there thing. I don't feel know certain way about it cause they're my boys. Like John Blazini if them niggas aren't taking care of their kids then we have problems just off being men.

apreachernamedweebay

Your sounding real bitchmade t/s. "OMG girl,she talking to that dude while her man at home, she such a hoe, uh-uh, we cant hang aorund her anymore."

I've never heard the male version of that hoodrat quote until the o/p.

Man up son.

Du_Du

either i'm not clearly explaining this, or yall not getting what i'm saying.....

what you do in your relationship, is your business.....i don't directly care or get involved for the most part....


however those things might have a minor impact on certain aspects of our friendship if we're really close.....


how can i talk to my homeboy about different things i'm going through to take care of home, if he doesn't give a fuck about taking care of home?? he can't relate....that's not a priority to him....so to him...he's looking at it like some sucker shit...

"fuck home...come out with us and get some new bitches"

i mean i know my boys.....they in that whatever happens, happens mode all the time...and my priorities have changed, so sometimes i find it more awkward than usual when hanging out with them..