Should a married person be able to have sex with their s/o whenever they want ?

Michael_Malice

Yeah. That's kind of the whole point of getting married. So you can roll over and take a piece of pussy anytime you want. A wife can't be raped by her husband and vice versa.

MansaMusa67

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Never??

What if you feel shitty?

Fuck that....

A good nut will make you temporarily forget about all that shit...

Yroc

Other than for physical/medical reasons why wouldn't they want to? If you went to work everyday but were to say you know what fuck these bills, I ain't gon pay 'em cause I don't feel like it or I'm pissed off at you, do you think your s/o would have a problem that? Same shit.

deadeye

kai_valya wrote: »

uhhhh, yeah. that's sorta the whole point imo


seriously tho, hubby and i agreed a long time ago, that neither of us would turn down the other.

How old is your sister...and does she share your same views?

MsSouthern

I do not believe in witholding sex or denying sex from your hubby ... but I don't think sex on command is something either person has to give in to

kai_valya

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Never??

What if you feel shitty?

not sure if this was directed to me, but i'll answer anyway. tbh, my sex drive is higher than his, and his is pretty high already. ideally, we'd have sex everyday, or twice a day if i had my way. but schedules don't always permit that. so whenever he wants sex, i'm usually already way ahead of him.

we've been having sex for almost 8 years, and i haven't gotten bored yet

vboy513 wrote: »

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Never??

What if you feel shitty?

Fuck that....

A good nut will make you temporarily forget about all that shit...

this is true. sex has been shown to have many physiological benefits, especially when it comes to pain and stress relief. so instead of taking that tylenol pill for your headache, take some dick lol

The Lonious Monk

Let's be honest. There really ain't a reason for a chick to hold. Even if she doesn't feel well or isn't into, all she has to do is agree to quickie in that case. Most dudes with self control and all of the ones without it can bust in 5 mins if they have to. lol

Michael_Malice

That is correct. The only reason you shouldn't be allowed to have sex when married is when Auntee Flow is in town. Unless you are into that kind of thing. Doesnt matter if you are sick or feeling shitty. Just lay there and take the dick. That's all you gotta do. It's many positions you could use so either mate doesn't have to do any work. You can watch a movie, do a crossword puzzle whatever. Just lay there and take that dick for awhile. It's too easy.

7figz

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Ya'll are out of your minds.

So marriage is forever but we're not allowed to say not tonight every now and again?

Forever??

Yeah okay.

It's not like they're not going to be reasonable about it - I mean this is the person you chose to marry, right ?

MsSouthern

lay there and take the dick for awhile????


wtf

Michael_Malice

Especially if you got kids. You gotta get that shit whenever you can. Ain't no telling when you might have another chance so ain't no "No" in the equation.

kai_valya

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

I guess...forever is a long time though.

Wait till you have kids, young thang.

lol, i hope that doesn't change things too much

nex gin

Hells yeah....I gotta get it from somewhere.
@Kai....I would give you 10 GOAT for your response if I could.

7figz

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

7fIG wrote: »

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Ya'll are out of your minds.

So marriage is forever but we're not allowed to say not tonight every now and again?

Forever??

Yeah okay.

It's not like they're not going to be reasonable about it - I mean this is the person you chose to marry, right ?

Of course. Me saying no now and again doesn't mean I don't want you or don't care about your feelings, but this is still my body and if my body is saying no then it's a no go...deal with it.

But thus far I've only turned the bf down on heavy flow days..and even then I've buckled.

Wow, a whole other thread @ the bolded.

BK Product

SMH @ some of you cave niggas.

Michael_Malice

Some of you ladies never getting married with that attitude or will be divorced soon after. Just lay and take the dick and you will have a happy marriage.

kai_valya

nex gin wrote: »

Hells yeah....I gotta get it from somewhere.
@Kai....I would give you 10 GOAT for your response if I could.

thanks hun

The Prodigalson

Funny how men must do everything in their powers to make their woman happy even if the shit is redundant, but it's our job to do so, so that they will feel special. Yet a nigga can't get no cuttie when he want. We know there are exceptions as far as periods and illness.

Amotekun

I don't get it though. If a man got a woman on the regular like that there should few occasions that she just not genuinely interested. When I have a regular girl, I'm in her head, I know what turns her on whether it be words, or a kiss on the back of the neck, the way I may touch or hold her, caress her in a certain way, or even just a look.

Duns slackin in the sex game if
1) gotta beg for pussy
2) don't know how to turn your woman on after being with her for a minute

A woman has like 30 things on her mind at once, including sex but it's not as focused as a man's attention is on sex. If a man is in his girl's head then turning her on so that she wants it just as bad as he does is not a difficult task as it is made out to be.

7figz

@kai_valya

Props for not being on some selfish shit wit' ya man.

mindright

Nah, there's never a "no"

only time there should be a no is, if she's sick, tending to the baby or she's dead tired (even still, she can just lay there LMAO)..or some serious family issues, or she's flowing

but nah, if your married, there should never be a "NO" unless the conditions mentioned above. Whats the point of getting married if u can't get it when u want it?? Same chick hollerin "No" is the same chick who can't understand why her man would cheat on her. Real Talk.

It should be like that for men and women...

MsSouthern

Michael_Malice wrote: »

Some of you ladies never getting married with that attitude or will be divorced soon after. Just lay and take the dick and you will have a happy marriage.

wow your sex life sounds AWESOME


lol

MsSouthern

The Prodigalson wrote: »

Funny how men must do everything in their powers to make their woman happy even if the shit is redundant, but it's our job to do so, so that they will feel special. Yet a nigga can't get no cuttie when he want. We know there are exceptions as far as periods and illness.

ok well then I can agree with you but all that lay there and take it or jack him off real quick bs is stupid

DreadsRIGHT

Like ya man said, i would rather go watch crystal clear or cherokee d'ass than get some uninspired pussy/head.

Michael_Malice

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