Just tell her the truth, forget all that" ima go on another date cuz I enjoy her conversation" that's bullshit. Just keep it real instead of leading her on. Or get over your phobia of other people's kids. She could be your soulmate.
You either take her with the kids and put your own rules/principle outta mind
or
you follow your code and dump her
you can't have both...but don't lie to yourself kid. No matter how good she is for you mentally, if you can't handle the fact she got kids, that's going to disrupt the relationship later on.
And think about it...it will be further down the line; a foundation might be built. So casualties can be high and costly.
If she got her shit together though like you said, then you don't have to worry about taking care of the kids.
And more than likely, she isn't going to be your final stop in the game so get them experience points if you want
It's funny how dudes say "she's on top of her shit", trying to validate it. Who cares, if you don't wanna be involved with her kids, just only fuck and that's it!
This reminds me of this chic Tiffany on that show tough love
Chic got 3 kids and dont wanna tell any dude she go out on a date with that she got kids
But come to find out chic married and on a reality show for dating lol and got kicked off
Like ya husband of 1 yr wasnt gonna see it smh
@god it must be done, sadly i know smfh @kat I didnt want to smash so its ok women with kids who are in the mid early 20s arent that hot to me.
theres a 2nd date because she asked me and i didnt want to be a asshole to her, theres absolutely nothing else wrong with her that i know. we've been talking for about two weeks. Never said i was going to be instant dad but at the same time, i dont want her to at any point in time to think that i would be ok with taking care of someone elses kids ever in my life point blank period. call me selfish i dont give to shits, it was your choice to not take the proper steps to prevent having a child in highschool. I'ma go out with her enjoy her company once more then cease to talk to her or atleast put her in the friends position because like i said i enjoy our conversations.
the bolded sound like some shit a chic would say.
it sounds to me like you may have known this chic for a coupla weeks, but ain't no way you talked to her for a coupla weeks and didn't know she had a 3 & 5yr old. that's the 1st thing a female that has her shit together gon' tell a nigga. besides, if you talked to her, i know you would've heard them lil crumb snatchas in the background. 3 & 5 too? c'mon son. this shit ain't makin no sense.
This reminds me of this chic Tiffany on that show tough love
Chic got 3 kids and dont wanna tell any dude she go out on a date with that she got kids
But come to find out chic married and on a reality show for dating lol and got kicked off Like ya husband of 1 yr wasnt gonna see it smh
lmao she had the nerve to say "WHY DOES THAT MATTER?!"
This reminds me of this chic Tiffany on that show tough love
Chic got 3 kids and dont wanna tell any dude she go out on a date with that she got kids
But come to find out chic married and on a reality show for dating lol and got kicked off Like ya husband of 1 yr wasnt gonna see it smh
lmao she had the nerve to say "WHY DOES THAT MATTER?!"
Lmao right!!! Bitch is delusional
It matters cuz u married!!!!
it should go without saying that getting into a relationship with someone who has a child(ren) means you're probably gonna have to be involved with the kids in some fashion. and only you know if that's something you'd wanna deal with or not. if you know for sure that you don't want any hand in raising someone else's kids, i'd recommend against dating anyone with kids
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Man up and lock that pussy down my nigga.. You got a chick with experience.. Don't pass that shit up
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1 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign 1Ether GOAT LOL ·You either take her with the kids and put your own rules/principle outta mind
or
you follow your code and dump her
you can't have both...but don't lie to yourself kid. No matter how good she is for you mentally, if you can't handle the fact she got kids, that's going to disrupt the relationship later on.
And think about it...it will be further down the line; a foundation might be built. So casualties can be high and costly.
If she got her shit together though like you said, then you don't have to worry about taking care of the kids.
And more than likely, she isn't going to be your final stop in the game so get them experience points if you want
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·For a simple issue
Just be polite and ignore her later
In other news the fourth season of the boondocks have been announced
And I'm pumped
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-1 · 1Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·What kind of question is that?
Of course she didnt. But the nigga said she's on top of her shit. Meaning she's probably looking for a partner.
With that said, you being a father to her children should things get there is implied.
What's he gonna do: Marry the broad and never interact with her children 'til they move out??
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0 · 1Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Honestly, it shoulda came up alot sooner. Meaning, you should have asked.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Chic got 3 kids and dont wanna tell any dude she go out on a date with that she got kids
But come to find out chic married and on a reality show for dating lol and got kicked off
Like ya husband of 1 yr wasnt gonna see it smh
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·That chic has issues way too deep
How u gonna leave ya 15 month old??
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·the bolded sound like some shit a chic would say.
it sounds to me like you may have known this chic for a coupla weeks, but ain't no way you talked to her for a coupla weeks and didn't know she had a 3 & 5yr old. that's the 1st thing a female that has her shit together gon' tell a nigga. besides, if you talked to her, i know you would've heard them lil crumb snatchas in the background. 3 & 5 too? c'mon son. this shit ain't makin no sense.
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1 · Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Lmao right!!! Bitch is delusional
It matters cuz u married!!!!
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·it should go without saying that getting into a relationship with someone who has a child(ren) means you're probably gonna have to be involved with the kids in some fashion. and only you know if that's something you'd wanna deal with or not. if you know for sure that you don't want any hand in raising someone else's kids, i'd recommend against dating anyone with kids
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·I think she said waits a year before she introduces her man to her kids.
'Could be wrong though.
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