ladies how long can you be in a relationship b4 you start to think about marriage?

(UNKNOWN)

I ask because I been with my girl since high school and every summer for the past 6 years after a wedding or she hear about one of our friends gettin married I get the 3rd degree about when im go ask her to marry me.

Sage Wonder

Damn 6 years though.. you might as well lol.

kai_valya

what are you waiting for?

i knew within about a year that i wanted to get married to him. we didn't get married until 3 years into the relationship, but we got engaged after 2 years

MissK

The question really is do you want to marry her?
Six years is a minute..

Sage Wonder

I'm pretty sure 60 seconds is a minute.

MissK

thanks for that clarification.

In Your Moms Room

lol@ making it literal. You smart, dumb mother fucker.

sweetheart93

Six years is a long ass time nigga! Marry that bitch....I mean lady. If we're together for 2+ years and he hasn't mentioned marriage I would start to wonder what games he was trying to play with me.

lechic

One year, we gotten engaged. However, like viva said you are taking too long, boo. Figure it out.

buttuh_b

Don't listen to these people. Just cause you been with shorty for 6 years don't mean you gotta marry her. If you comfortable now you good b.

And I would have to be with a girl probably at least 5 years before I even think about it.

Pico Roscoe

It's time when it's time. If after 4 years I'm still iffy then I'm still iffy

atribecalledgabi

lolwtf is marriage

dallas' 4 eva

Must co-sign ^^.

Jamaica

If you dont know whether you want to marry her after 6 years. Then you might as well just leave her.

(UNKNOWN)

I was saying for the past 6 years she been talking about getting married, We been together for over 14 years. she already knew before we had our 1st kid how I felt about marriage and she was cool with it until now..If everything all good in a relationship why mess with it, and she only trip on it after people keep asking her when she go get married, you and Unknown been together forever.

So after hearing all these people ask her that question when they should be minding they fucking business she want to come at me with ultimatums, and I ain't going for that shit.

Me and my girl are friends with this other couple that we went to school with and they been together just as long as us, they got married 3 years ago and after 6 months they were split up and hate each other guts.

I just think if your ship is good and it been good for a long time don't go fucking with it.

Sage Wonder

14 years and a child together.. you scared of commitment bruh? Do you live together? Why would marriage make anything different that you should seperate?

taeboo

Damn after 14 years you don't feel like she deserves to be your wife??

blackrain

(UNKNOWN) wrote: »

I was saying for the past 6 years she been talking about getting married, We been together for over 14 years. she already knew before we had our 1st kid how I felt about marriage and she was cool with it until now..If everything all good in a relationship why mess with it, and she only trip on it after people keep asking her when she go get married, you and Unknown been together forever.

So after hearing all these people ask her that question when they should be minding they fucking business she want to come at me with ultimatums, and I ain't going for that shit.

Me and my girl are friends with this other couple that we went to school with and they been together just as long as us, they got married 3 years ago and after 6 months they were split up and hate each other guts.

I just think if your ship is good and it been good for a long time don't go fucking with it.

Here's the flaw in using that as an example though..there's nothing that guarantees that couple would have stayed together had they not gotten married either...they may have still broken up after that 6 month period...

Pico Roscoe

Oh, well 14 years is a lil different!

taeboo

blackrain wrote: »

(UNKNOWN) wrote: »

I was saying for the past 6 years she been talking about getting married, We been together for over 14 years. she already knew before we had our 1st kid how I felt about marriage and she was cool with it until now..If everything all good in a relationship why mess with it, and she only trip on it after people keep asking her when she go get married, you and Unknown been together forever.

So after hearing all these people ask her that question when they should be minding they fucking business she want to come at me with ultimatums, and I ain't going for that shit.

Me and my girl are friends with this other couple that we went to school with and they been together just as long as us, they got married 3 years ago and after 6 months they were split up and hate each other guts.

I just think if your ship is good and it been good for a long time don't go fucking with it.

Here's the flaw in using that as an example though..there's nothing that guarantees that couple would have stayed together had they not gotten married either...they may have still broken up after that 6 month period...

Co-sign. Whatever issue that made that relationship end was there before they got married.

sweetheart93

Damn 14 years dude. Why won't you marry her? You planning to leave her? Marriage won't change anything but if it's important to her, why not just do it.

sweetheart93

^^^ That's fucked up. smh.
I would've left after I found out he didn't want to get married but that's just me.

kai_valya

well she did go along with it all these years only to now try and flip the script

atribecalledgabi

taeboo wrote: »

Damn after 14 years you don't feel like she deserves to be your wife??

oh shit i didn't read that part......

EDIT: AND THEY GOT A KID????



gon head & marry her nigga

s_a_m_r_i_o

I would figure within 3 years you can decide. Longer than that, seems like time is wasting.

dallas' 4 eva

Bro 14 years what the fuck? You're not only wasting your life, but hers as well. The fuck kind of shit is this I figured y'all had been together maybe two, but 14 y'all shoulda got married 7 years ago at the least.