G&S: Do you judge the opposite sex by where they work?

TheEyeronic1

well?


i only ask because it seems as if men are predominantly judged harsher on their occupation than females are.



and dont come in here talking that "society" bullshit. what do YOU think?

nex gin

inb4 the ladies start lying.

TheEyeronic1

the question is spawned from a convo i had at a party the other night about how some of the "baddest" chicks are actually "bum bitches".


u know the type.

AP12

well i'll just say this...i dont know one stripper who has actually paid her way through college...

MsSouthern

as far as a guy I'd date ? or just in general?

TheEyeronic1

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Judge? No.

Take into consideration? Hells yeah.

so if your potential boyfriend was all u wanted him to be, good nigga thru and thru....but come to find out, my nigga works at WALMART, you'd still follow thru?

Ted Bundy

Only if she's earning minimum wage.. Almost as bad as dating a broke bitch..

I'm used to getting treated like royalty.. Can't get presidential treatment from a chick that flips burgers or mans a cash register..

TheEyeronic1

Ms Southern wrote: »

as far as a guy I'd date ? or just in general?

both.

MsSouthern

If we are just friends ... then I could care less where he works.

If we are dating .... places like McD's and 7-11 are a no no ... it's not just about the money ... it's about his future goals

I don't see us on the same page if I'm moving up the corporate ladder at a law firm and he's flipping burgers

1of1

Fuckin everything from the local McDONALD'S bitches with the biggest ass...
To attorney bitches that'll beat a charge fast

TheEyeronic1

Ms Southern wrote: »

If we are just friends ... then I could care less where he works.

If we are dating .... places like McD's and 7-11 are a no no ... it's not just about the money ... it's about his future goals

I don't see us on the same page if I'm moving up the corporate ladder at a law firm and he's flipping burgers

fair enough.


but even on a friendly level...you'd never be like "this is MY friend...why is he working at The Dollar General??"

Tommy_Milfhitta

Well I'm 23 and not many broads are established lyk dat, career wise and shit. I tend to go for chicks btwn 18-25 anyway so aint much career progression happening by that age so I cannot judge. I do however take their prospects and ambitions into consideration...

TheEyeronic1

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

TheEyeronic1 wrote: »

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Judge? No.

Take into consideration? Hells yeah.

so if your potential boyfriend was all u wanted him to be, good nigga thru and thru....but come to find out, my nigga works at WALMART, you'd still follow thru?

Is he the manager at Wal-Mart?

If he works at Wal-Mart then he's not everything I want him to be. I want a man that can afford to have some fun, and if you're working at Wal-Mart money is going to be pretty tight.

fair enough...

MsSouthern

TheEyeronic1 wrote: »

Ms Southern wrote: »

If we are just friends ... then I could care less where he works.

If we are dating .... places like McD's and 7-11 are a no no ... it's not just about the money ... it's about his future goals

I don't see us on the same page if I'm moving up the corporate ladder at a law firm and he's flipping burgers

fair enough.


but even on a friendly level...you'd never be like "this is MY friend...why is he working at The Dollar General??"

No ...I'd more likely have something to say if they didn't have a job


I have friends who's careers range from strippers to garbage men to politicians to night stocker at Target

SixSickSins

No, especially if they're in school.

Will Munny

I actually agree with the double standard. Men should be judged more harshly on where they work, because men are predominantly the providers.

I don't give a shit where my friends work as long as they ain't that broke-ass stick in the mud friend all the time.
I don't give a shit where girls work cause they are girls.

TheEyeronic1

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Why would you give a shit where your friends work?

Them being broke all the time might get old though.

you tell me.


personally, i dont give a shit where my friends work.

SleepwalkingInJapan

no...unless its a strip club

mr.jamrock

I dont care where my homie's work long as I dont have to always worry about covering them where ever we go. I got homies that range from dealers to footlocker to personal bizz owners. As far as who I am dating if she makes way less than I do then i cant date her. Cant build myself if i have to continue to carry the foundation.

TheEyeronic1

mr.jamrock wrote: »

I dont care where my homie's work long as I dont have to always worry about covering them where ever we go. I got homies that range from dealers to footlocker to personal bizz owners. As far as who I am dating if she makes way less than I do then i cant date her. Cant build myself if i have to continue to carry the foundation.

i still meant "friends of the opposite sex", homie.

darkone360

As long as they're legally employed...nope.

7figz

Greedy, lying, gold-digging bitches.

As if a guy couldn't work at McDonalds / Walmart and have future goals ?

I worked in fast food before, now I'm caking.

Would I judge a chick on where she work ? Not necessarily, gotta dig a little deeper to see what they're about.

MsSouthern

how old were you when you worked at McD's

and how old are you now?

7figz

^ Teenager, but even as an adult I had to work my way up.

You could have a shitty job and still have future goals. (ie. Temporary situation)

dallas' 4 eva

Not really. Most people in my age range right now are struggling just to get employed anywhere let alone being picky over where they get employed.

CopperKing

yes I do