theBlackbeard
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Cuz we are all trying to win at the moment. Growing up in romanceless homes got this generation unable to be intimate. At least that's me and most people my age. We love in the moment, and our feelings are gone as quickly as the moment came. We don't know how to love in the romantic sense of the word. I can tell somebody I love them, leave them and go tell another chick I love her and wouldn't be a lie. Why? Because its true, free spirited. It's not about being a hoe, a bitch, a dog, to me it's just spreading love. The only way I know how.
They need to realize love is hardwork and hardwork should be seen as a good thing and not as a bad thing and with time, things do get old, but building something takes a lot of effort before the fruits come to ripe.
but i will say this: realize where you are. what i mean is this...i assume you're young as is most of the people that post here, and most of the people that youre around...cats in their early 20s aint thinking about love...and honestly you shouldnt be. you should be enjoying your life and establishing yourself.
but i promise you: most of these cats will be singing a different tune when youre pushing 40...you not gonna be going to the club every weekend to smash...you gonna want somebody you can chill with at home. somebody you can build something with....
Because so many relationships don't have compromise anymore. I see so many couples break up because one feels they are doing too much in the relationship to make the other person happy and don't get the same effort in return. But that shit shouldn't feel like work either way*shrugs*
I never said that "spreading love" meant having rauncy, sweaty, African style sex with whom ever I come across. There is some truth in what Ether said tho.
It's not that it's all I've accepted but it's all that hasn't hurt me. Attachments are hard. To be attached, I have to first be vulnerable enough to trust. That's not easy.....but you make sense with the whole date, get to know one another and over time I can see my guard bring let down over time. That works with luck, but trust issues and shit......
Is love really what you make it or....... (it's hard to find word to fully express love).....is the relationship what you make it.
Do we even make love? The shit just seems to unexpectedly happens.
yes...it is what you make it. people have unrealistic expectations. its not like some movie. i love my wife to death...that doesnt mean that loving her isnt work sometimes and im sure she would say the same about me.
being in love became bad when people started being more selfish and thinking of themselves and not consequences of their actions. i.e. cheating. thus started a vicious cycle of niggas not bein shit and females not bein shit
people gotta learn to love themselves 1st in order to love anyone else and besides at this point in time it seems that people are just on some me, me , me shit i mean its people out there that don't even love their own kids much less try to love the opposite sex and i think the view on love is that it makes you weak i think
African slave style sex consists of being having sex to a degree in which both (sometimes multiple) parties begin to sweat as if they are covered in oils. These raises the erousal of said parties, and they raise the level of activity, Lifting, squating. This style of sex was invented by african slaves. Yall seen baby boy and the character Melvin was "old nigga squat fucking" Tyrese's mom (tragic) That's African slave style sex.
Some people truly beleive in having blissful love with a kindred spirit, who am I to tell them different. Most understand that love is hard, and you better be worth the trouble. All in how you perceive it.
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6 • Wack Feelings Nosign 6Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •That's the only way you've accepted to know how.
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1 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT 1LOL •I explained clearly that one should take the time to know one another, date, before engaging in sexual activity.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •i don't know how to explain what love feels like to me, other than total adoration.
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2 • Wack Feelings Nosign 2Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •but i will say this: realize where you are. what i mean is this...i assume you're young as is most of the people that post here, and most of the people that youre around...cats in their early 20s aint thinking about love...and honestly you shouldnt be. you should be enjoying your life and establishing yourself.
but i promise you: most of these cats will be singing a different tune when youre pushing 40...you not gonna be going to the club every weekend to smash...you gonna want somebody you can chill with at home. somebody you can build something with....
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Do we even make love? The shit just seems to unexpectedly happens.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •It's not that it's all I've accepted but it's all that hasn't hurt me. Attachments are hard. To be attached, I have to first be vulnerable enough to trust. That's not easy.....but you make sense with the whole date, get to know one another and over time I can see my guard bring let down over time. That works with luck, but trust issues and shit......
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •yes...it is what you make it. people have unrealistic expectations. its not like some movie. i love my wife to death...that doesnt mean that loving her isnt work sometimes and im sure she would say the same about me.
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0 • Wack 1Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •There is no such thing as soul mates. That was made up to get peoples hopes up. In other words, they are being set up to fail.
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