When did Being in LOVE become bad?

BossBoo

people should learn to love themselves first..

im jus sayin..

God-I_Am_Ether

theBlackbeard
3:33PM Posts: 22
Cuz we are all trying to win at the moment. Growing up in romanceless homes got this generation unable to be intimate. At least that's me and most people my age. We love in the moment, and our feelings are gone as quickly as the moment came. We don't know how to love in the romantic sense of the word. I can tell somebody I love them, leave them and go tell another chick I love her and wouldn't be a lie. Why? Because its true, free spirited. It's not about being a hoe, a bitch, a dog, to me it's just spreading love. The only way I know how.

That's the only way you've accepted to know how.

Stopitfive

Lol@spreading love... And aids... Hippy...

God-I_Am_Ether

^^^^^ see. He thinks love is sex.

I explained clearly that one should take the time to know one another, date, before engaging in sexual activity.

BlackGerald

But I don’t know if I believe in love to be honest
Cuz every girl love the headliners

Ajackson17

They need to realize love is hardwork and hardwork should be seen as a good thing and not as a bad thing and with time, things do get old, but building something takes a lot of effort before the fruits come to ripe.

God-I_Am_Ether

Even a break up from someone you love can be a rewarding less within yourself and it's an aid in maturing.

kai_valya

love really is what you make it. it can be healthy and productive or it can be unhealthy and a hindrance.

i don't know how to explain what love feels like to me, other than total adoration.

Louis Cipher

didnt read all the responses

but i will say this: realize where you are. what i mean is this...i assume you're young as is most of the people that post here, and most of the people that youre around...cats in their early 20s aint thinking about love...and honestly you shouldnt be. you should be enjoying your life and establishing yourself.

but i promise you: most of these cats will be singing a different tune when youre pushing 40...you not gonna be going to the club every weekend to smash...you gonna want somebody you can chill with at home. somebody you can build something with....

God-I_Am_Ether

Is love really what you make it or....... (it's hard to find word to fully express love).....is the relationship what you make it.

Do we even make love? The shit just seems to unexpectedly happens.

Stopitfive

So u can't enjoy your life and b in love?

God-I_Am_Ether

Love is enjoyment!!!

J-GUTTA

Because so many relationships don't have compromise anymore. I see so many couples break up because one feels they are doing too much in the relationship to make the other person happy and don't get the same effort in return. But that shit shouldn't feel like work either way*shrugs*

theBlackbeard

I never said that "spreading love" meant having rauncy, sweaty, African style sex with whom ever I come across. There is some truth in what Ether said tho.

It's not that it's all I've accepted but it's all that hasn't hurt me. Attachments are hard. To be attached, I have to first be vulnerable enough to trust. That's not easy.....but you make sense with the whole date, get to know one another and over time I can see my guard bring let down over time. That works with luck, but trust issues and shit......

Louis Cipher

God-I_Am_Ether wrote: »

Is love really what you make it or....... (it's hard to find word to fully express love).....is the relationship what you make it.

Do we even make love? The shit just seems to unexpectedly happens.

yes...it is what you make it. people have unrealistic expectations. its not like some movie. i love my wife to death...that doesnt mean that loving her isnt work sometimes and im sure she would say the same about me.

Louis Cipher

Stopitfive wrote: »

So u can't enjoy your life and b in love?

sure you can...

Stopitfive

African style sex?

King Erauno

being in love became bad when people started being more selfish and thinking of themselves and not consequences of their actions. i.e. cheating. thus started a vicious cycle of niggas not bein shit and females not bein shit

kai_valya

Stopitfive wrote: »

African style sex?

lol, and that involves what exactly?

God-I_Am_Ether

I too am interested in this African style sex.

representingda203

people gotta learn to love themselves 1st in order to love anyone else and besides at this point in time it seems that people are just on some me, me , me shit i mean its people out there that don't even love their own kids much less try to love the opposite sex and i think the view on love is that it makes you weak i think

theBlackbeard

African slave style sex consists of being having sex to a degree in which both (sometimes multiple) parties begin to sweat as if they are covered in oils. These raises the erousal of said parties, and they raise the level of activity, Lifting, squating. This style of sex was invented by african slaves. Yall seen baby boy and the character Melvin was "old nigga squat fucking" Tyrese's mom (tragic) That's African slave style sex.

black caesar

Love never loved anybody.

black caesar

God-I_Am_Ether wrote: »

Soul mates aren't found.

There is no such thing as soul mates. That was made up to get peoples hopes up. In other words, they are being set up to fail.

theBlackbeard

Some people truly beleive in having blissful love with a kindred spirit, who am I to tell them different. Most understand that love is hard, and you better be worth the trouble. All in how you perceive it.