I see the topics y'all create and speak on regarding women/relationships, and I've come to the conclusion that are still having growing pains.
Y'all not men yet. Not ready to make a decisions and see it through. Not ready for a mature woman to take you serious. Not ready to give an immature woman direction. Not ready to be head of a household. Not ready to lead or ready to realize that you may not ever get there and will need a strong woman to take hold of that leadership position.
You want women to ask you out and pay for you too eat. Probably want them to propose to you...
Speak on it.
Are you a Grown Man yet?