Fellas: Would you admit that your still BECOMING a Man?

LPast

I see the topics y'all create and speak on regarding women/relationships, and I've come to the conclusion that are still having growing pains.

Y'all not men yet. Not ready to make a decisions and see it through. Not ready for a mature woman to take you serious. Not ready to give an immature woman direction. Not ready to be head of a household. Not ready to lead or ready to realize that you may not ever get there and will need a strong woman to take hold of that leadership position.

You want women to ask you out and pay for you too eat. Probably want them to propose to you...

Speak on it.


Are you a Grown Man yet?

Chicity

I'll expect to still becoming a Man even on my deathbed

Manhood isn't a plateau or a peak, it's something that must be contanstly worked on.

Same as Adulthood imo

dallas' 4 eva

Yeah I am. I'm only 23, but I bear all the responsibilities and many of hers. No problem doing it cause I have her utmost respect for that, and she doesn't add anything to my plate.

MzGrahamBitches

If you bear many of her responsibilities then how is she not adding anything to your plate?

icecoldstew

Im there but Id definitely want a woman to propose to me. That shit would be GOAT and I might laugh.

dallas' 4 eva

MzGrahamBitches wrote: »

If you bear many of her responsibilities then how is she not adding anything to your plate?

That's my job as a man as a provider and protector. I bear my responsibilities and hers because that's how I was raised. When I say doesn't add anything to my plate I mean she doesn't bring any uneccesary problems along that aren't that crucial.

Matt-

don't ask me shit like this, b. Imma grown ass man dawg

Ajackson17

Being a grown man is a process and there is a certain level in where others can proudly say you are a man. You do not need everything, but bearing your responsibility and doing everything to make sure priorities are taken care of is that the point of being a man. Also, having morals, ethics, practice what you preach and doing everything you promsied to do and keeping it. Working and making money legally and without pain. Something to think about.

Matt-

once you think you've reached a point in your life where you think you no longer need to progress or do better as a person, then you are doomed to fail. i just read the thread title so i don't even know if this post applies. but i post what i want. imma grown ass kid swear i should be locked up for stupid shit that i did.

MzGrahamBitches

Most men are grown ass kids.

it's only when they start feeling death looming at the door that the try to make amends for all their trifling behavior and live right.

Shuffington

Yes... Im a grown ass kid.... Its great not having any real responsibilities outside of a Mortgage.
F*ck it! Im bout to move across the country

Chicity

MzGrahamBitches wrote: »

Most men are grown ass kids.

it's only when they start feeling death looming at the door that the try to make amends for all their trifling behavior and live right.

Daddy or baby daddy issues?

Matt-

MzGrahamBitches wrote: »

Most men are grown ass kids.

it's only when they start feeling death looming at the door that the try to make amends for all their trifling behavior and live right.

lol. thats a pretty broad generalization. and how much experience have you had with me who feel death looming?

Little JJ

I won't consider myself a man until I make my first million.

Oceanic

I'm in a constant state of "becoming", no matter where I am in my life. I will never stop "becoming" until the day I die.

KingJamal

Im still growing and maturing everyday

gns

I've always felt I had more growing up to do, despite doing or having done most of the things ts mentioned(head of household, mature women, guiding these young hoes).

Thats my mind set though regardless of age, and no matter how I think of myself in the maturity department I would never accept treatment from someone unbecoming of a man though.
Regardless of how I see myself u dont treat me like a man its gonna be a probelm...i might beat yo ass like a kid.

Chicity

thanks for a being a good sport and not wacking me Kat : )

gns

Background on the beef?

CeLLaR-DooR

You learn til you die...

CeLLaR-DooR

I'm a man now...Wil be a different man tomorrow...and the day after...and so on...

Chicity

no beef

MrLunatik1979

there is always room to grow as a man, but that doesn't always mean you are still becoming a man. But reading shit on here and you have to think alot of these dudes have a whole lot of room to grow as not only men but human beings

DROSAIN_BOLT

MEN.. A WOMEN ARE FOREVER LEARNING...

ADVICE CAN ALWAYS BE GIVEN AND RECEIVED... NO ONE PERSON HAS BEEN THROUGH EVERY POSSIBLE SITUATION.. SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO HEAR WHAT OTHERS THINK BEFORE YOU MAKE A RASH DECISION

YoungGoldie

Ive been a man for a while now, but Im still working on becoming the man i wanna be...

Lou Cypher

Well i got the penis.

Still got some growing up to do.

Not with my penis. but mentally and stuff.