Is it possible to be a friend to a female that you have direct contact with on a day to day basis? Especially if that female is attractive and fits your criteria for gf/wifey?
Ladies can you be friends with a guy that you find attractive? Can you just be friend zoned without any care at all?
For myself there has to be a valid reason why I haven't smashed or trying to smash a female before she be moved into my friend list.