Serious thread. Want some opinions.
So, ive been married 3 or 4 years... i think 3. Have a 5 year old and a 4 year old.
Just like many, i'm just trying to make it, and have a good family life. Anyway, as
some know, i do go thru the struggles many folk have in marriage. Had a long talk
the other night with wifey, and she hit me with some shit that has me confused. Yall
help a nigga out.
During the conversation, i basically asked what she would do if she found out i had another
kid, from stepping out on her. I asked if she would stay with me, and if she would allow me
to have the kid as apart of my kids with her's life. She said she would.
So, i'm not really believing that, but, imma keep pressing the limits, might as well find out her thoughts.
So, i said, well, what if i had a mistress, you down with that?
She said she wouldnt like it, but, would try to accept it.....
At THAT, i went ahead and interjected: Hey, dont say you'd be down, and go cop some
revenge/side dick. I aint with that. Either be with me, or not. I know it would be a double standard,
but, "you dont get a nigga back like that". She answered that she'd never be with another man if we
were still together...........

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At this point, im thinking i'm getting trolled. I reinterated that these were hypothetical questions.....
So, i went full "Big Love" with it.
I was like...... well, would you be down with me having a mistress that lives in the crib with us?
You know they do shit like that in Spain???? What if we had a kid?
Long pause.
She was like...... Well, I wouldnt share my bed with another woman, if that's what you thinking.
But you are a great man, and i'd put up with things i shouldnt, just to be in your life. I cant go back
to other men. I'd hope you wouldnt put me in that position, but i can't say id walk away. I asked what
about your family, what they'd think of you? She said fuck them. SHe also said, if i ever had another kid,
she'd want them under my roof, so all my kids could grow up together.
Am i right in thinking she bullshittin?
Or should i take this as a free pass to have a side piece and not hide it?
Try to keep the insults to the minimum and the insights to the max.
I dont have an in state side piece lined up, nor do i have any kids coming,
nor do i plan to move in another chick. Im just trying to find out what the fuck
is wrong with her lol.
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6 · Wack Feelings Nosign 6Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Those were my two initial thoughts.
Or maybe she truly doesn't give a fuck. *shrugs*
Couldn't be me I know that.
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3 · Wack 1Feelings Nosign 3Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Even tho, she has always hinted that she dont consider me gettin head on the side cheating..
But yeah, im thinking its a trap
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·but, when i was seriously looking for a way out,
i hacked every mode of communication she had
and kept track for 3 months. nothing.
Texts, calls, facebook, email. (yeah that shit was weak,
but i was looking for a way out)
So i dont think she cheating. Plus the performance a nigga put on
last night... yeah, she aint gettin it nowhere else lol.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Maybe she doesn't care cause she's like let somebody else suck that dudes dick..shit.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·I clicked feelings accordingly
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1 · 1Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT 2LOL ·@kat i aint full of myself.
im asking cuz her answers confused me.
If i were full of myself, i'd expect answers like that.
And by the way, i know its your default mode to "bring a nigga ego down"
but save that shit. Long as i aint coming in here trying to bring you down,
miss me with that shit.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·it's what I do
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·It was just the flip side of what you said yourself, never get too comfortable cause you never know.
Honestly I can't call it, who knows what she's thinking. She is white and from around that Midwest area so maybe she's down with that Big Love shit.
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1 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT 1LOL ·if so then u need to do like ur hairline and fallback on them questions...u bout to get caught.
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3 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign 1Ether GOAT 2LOL ·Cheatin is a violation of trust. So basically what your wife is tellin you is
if you want some other pussy be direct. DOnt be a bitch about it hidin
other hoes on the side havin kids and makin a fool out of her.
Your wife s'posed to be your ace coon boon, at the same time though.
I dont trust white folks and white bitches are included in that demograph.
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1 · Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·"Why did I get Married 3: An IC saga"
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3 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT 3LOL ·You should've just quoted me bruh
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Nigga I took the time to click this thread and to read that long ass OP [L?]
Imma say what I came to say [Mr. Brown voice]
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3 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT 3LOL ·Yeah... so... we gonna act like she wasnt thinking niggas, but typed dudes?
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·That was probably her thought process.
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