The Saga Continues

bignormbignorm Posts: 5,344 ✭✭✭✭✭
Serious thread. Want some opinions.

So, ive been married 3 or 4 years... i think 3. Have a 5 year old and a 4 year old.
Just like many, i'm just trying to make it, and have a good family life. Anyway, as
some know, i do go thru the struggles many folk have in marriage. Had a long talk
the other night with wifey, and she hit me with some shit that has me confused. Yall
help a nigga out.


During the conversation, i basically asked what she would do if she found out i had another
kid, from stepping out on her. I asked if she would stay with me, and if she would allow me
to have the kid as apart of my kids with her's life. She said she would.
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So, i'm not really believing that, but, imma keep pressing the limits, might as well find out her thoughts.

So, i said, well, what if i had a mistress, you down with that?
She said she wouldnt like it, but, would try to accept it.....
At THAT, i went ahead and interjected: Hey, dont say you'd be down, and go cop some
revenge/side dick. I aint with that. Either be with me, or not. I know it would be a double standard,
but, "you dont get a nigga back like that". She answered that she'd never be with another man if we
were still together...........

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At this point, im thinking i'm getting trolled. I reinterated that these were hypothetical questions.....
So, i went full "Big Love" with it.

I was like...... well, would you be down with me having a mistress that lives in the crib with us?
You know they do shit like that in Spain???? What if we had a kid?

Long pause.

She was like...... Well, I wouldnt share my bed with another woman, if that's what you thinking.
But you are a great man, and i'd put up with things i shouldnt, just to be in your life. I cant go back
to other men. I'd hope you wouldnt put me in that position, but i can't say id walk away. I asked what
about your family, what they'd think of you? She said fuck them. SHe also said, if i ever had another kid,
she'd want them under my roof, so all my kids could grow up together.
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Am i right in thinking she bullshittin?
Or should i take this as a free pass to have a side piece and not hide it?
Try to keep the insults to the minimum and the insights to the max.

I dont have an in state side piece lined up, nor do i have any kids coming,
nor do i plan to move in another chick. Im just trying to find out what the fuck
is wrong with her lol.
Chicity700StewBiblicalAtheist
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  • KatKat Posts: 37,983 ✭✭✭✭✭
    She either cheating already, or she's encouraging you to fuck up so she looks good in divorce court.

    Those were my two initial thoughts.

    Or maybe she truly doesn't give a fuck. *shrugs*

    Couldn't be me I know that.
    700NoirBookwormpurpngold
  • bignormbignorm Posts: 5,344 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Yeah... i was definately agreeing with Ms. Southern's post while the convo was going on.
    Even tho, she has always hinted that she dont consider me gettin head on the side cheating..

    But yeah, im thinking its a trap

  • KatKat Posts: 37,983 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Does she have opportunity to cheat?
  • bignormbignorm Posts: 5,344 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Every breathing person has the opportunity...
    but, when i was seriously looking for a way out,
    i hacked every mode of communication she had
    and kept track for 3 months. nothing.
    Texts, calls, facebook, email. (yeah that shit was weak,
    but i was looking for a way out)

    So i dont think she cheating. Plus the performance a nigga put on
    last night... yeah, she aint gettin it nowhere else lol.
  • KatKat Posts: 37,983 ✭✭✭✭✭
    lol..you are soo full of yourself Norman.

    Maybe she doesn't care cause she's like let somebody else suck that dudes dick..shit.
  • ChicityChicity Posts: 19,401 ✭✭✭✭✭
    *refuses to read TOP

    I clicked feelings accordingly
    KatSleepwalkingInJapanblakfyahking
  • bignormbignorm Posts: 5,344 ✭✭✭✭✭
    smh at that shit Chi.

    @kat i aint full of myself.
    im asking cuz her answers confused me.
    If i were full of myself, i'd expect answers like that.

    And by the way, i know its your default mode to "bring a nigga ego down"
    but save that shit. Long as i aint coming in here trying to bring you down,
    miss me with that shit.
  • ChicityChicity Posts: 19,401 ✭✭✭✭✭
    ehh,
    it's what I do
  • KatKat Posts: 37,983 ✭✭✭✭✭
    smh..nobody is trying to bring you down, although you could use some bringing down every once in awhile.

    It was just the flip side of what you said yourself, never get too comfortable cause you never know.

    Honestly I can't call it, who knows what she's thinking. She is white and from around that Midwest area so maybe she's down with that Big Love shit.
  • NoirNoir ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ love & peace ♡Posts: 27,418 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Nigga be with her or not be with her. These hypothetical questions are very passive aggressive. You're waiting for her to give you a go to cheat. Who wants to lay in the same bed with a liar? If polygamy is your thing, then tell her and give her a choice to stay or leave. Bro. Seriously. You both need couples therapy. Cause I know she has a lot to say but don't want to hurt your feelings.
    playmaker88
  • shit happensshit happens Do She Got Dat ASS? she pathetic as fuck but I don't think that she knows though delusions of grandeurPosts: 8,916 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Hmm get a DNA test on your kids asap. Isn't this the same lady that "trapped" you? I think I recall you stating that you pay all the bills and take care of her? Da fuck? You think she give a fuck about you stepping out? she basically just told you she been fucking the whole hood yes this includes rayray Tyrone junbug manman an nem

  • CopperCopper The WickPosts: 38,454 ✭✭✭✭✭
    dont u already have a sidepiece?
    if so then u need to do like ur hairline and fallback on them questions...u bout to get caught.
    ChicityBookwormtaeboo
  • AmotekunAmotekun Posts: 7,820 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Nigga if you want to live that polyamorous life be direct with it.

    Cheatin is a violation of trust. So basically what your wife is tellin you is
    if you want some other pussy be direct. DOnt be a bitch about it hidin
    other hoes on the side havin kids and makin a fool out of her.

    Your wife s'posed to be your ace coon boon, at the same time though.
    I dont trust white folks and white bitches are included in that demograph.
    Bookworm
  • NoirNoir ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ love & peace ♡Posts: 27,418 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Amotekun wrote: »
    Nigga if you want to live that polyamorous life be direct with it.

    Cheatin is a violation of trust. So basically what your wife is tellin you is
    if you want some other pussy be direct. DOnt be a bitch about it hidin
    other hoes on the side havin kids and makin a fool out of her.

    Your wife s'posed to be your ace coon boon, at the same time though.
    I dont trust white folks and white bitches are included in that demograph.

    You should've just quoted me bruh
  • AmotekunAmotekun Posts: 7,820 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Amotekun wrote: »
    Nigga if you want to live that polyamorous life be direct with it.

    Cheatin is a violation of trust. So basically what your wife is tellin you is
    if you want some other pussy be direct. DOnt be a bitch about it hidin
    other hoes on the side havin kids and makin a fool out of her.

    Your wife s'posed to be your ace coon boon, at the same time though.
    I dont trust white folks and white bitches are included in that demograph.

    You should've just quoted me bruh

    Nigga I took the time to click this thread and to read that long ass OP [L?]
    Imma say what I came to say [Mr. Brown voice]
    NoirChicityBookworm
  • Meta_ConsciousMeta_Conscious Posts: 26,146 ✭✭✭✭✭
    lol..you are soo full of yourself Norman.

    Maybe she doesn't care cause she's like let somebody else suck that dudes dick..shit.

    Yeah... so... we gonna act like she wasnt thinking niggas, but typed dudes?
    bignormReignsKat
  • ChicityChicity Posts: 19,401 ✭✭✭✭✭
    lol @ Mr Browns voice
  • playmaker88playmaker88 You over did it holmes, you in the danger zone, you shouldn't be alone Posts: 51,345 ✭✭✭✭✭
    ahh Niggas...
  • twinzmomtwinzmom Posts: 1,242 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Some women can't leave. Does she work? Can she sustain by herself with the kids if you two were to split?

    That was probably her thought process.
    deadeye
  • hueyhuey Posts: 9,992 ✭✭✭✭✭
    you lose for asking hypotheticals. feelings usually come afterwards
    BookwormMeta_Consciousblakfyahking
  • UPTOWNUPTOWN Posts: 12,995 Regulator
    cuzzin norm while you at it go jump over the gates at the white house with a turban on. and make sure you wearing some sweat pants with arabic writing all across them. dey aint gone shoot you bro, just hollar "dont shoot"
    when the secret service comes.

    LOL
    ChicitybignormStewblakfyahking
  • The ProdigalsonThe Prodigalson Posts: 8,471 ✭✭✭✭✭
    In all that shit I read all I got of it is wasted time and her getting some new dick. Pause.
  • Trollio Trollio Trollololololololololol Posts: 21,461 ✭✭✭✭✭
    move out and dont eat her cooking anymore
    thank me later adultery
    blakfyahking
  • BookwormBookworm Posts: 1,005 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Nothing good will come of those questions. She probably thinking you want to do that and may be giving you rope to hang yourself.
    MissKAmotekun
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