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BabyBugatti

my boo and i have been arguing lately, it has alot to do with me not being submissive enough, like when he tells me to do shit,i dont do it. a. cos his not my dad, b. who made him the boss of me.
and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos like wtf who made u god.
He says im always trying to take control and im always trying to be the man in our relationship (sooo not true)
But i get it, men like to feel like men..but why i gotta sacrifice myself and my leadership for this shit.
Ionno what im gon do, as its starting to become as issue, i think part of it is that im scared of looking like a fool just doing whatever he says..idk man maybe when i 'fall in love' with him itll be differentand ill WANT to do what he says

Baybey

lol @ he's not my dad b.

how long have you 2 been dating?

Lil Loca

No disrespect to you, but he sounds insecure and wack.

A nigga who is secure in himself shouldn't have to make you feel weak in order to make himself feel strong.

ROZAYTABERNACLE

shout out my girl donk! yeah that ass is nice!
I never hit a woman even outta spite!
You aint a freak unless you dont use condoms right?
You aint about that life! You aint about that life!
Ass hangin out dem shorts, its about to be a SUGE KNIGHT!

a flat ass thats the shit I dont like!
a submissive bitch thats the shit I dont like!
AmbitiousOne thats the shit I dont like!

deadeye

And it begins

Darxwell

First of all, I see you say you were arguing. Fuck u talking back for woman? He must not be hitting it right. And by "that" I mean your fuckin jaw. NIgga jab aint on point.

How dare you "argue" with this young man after all he's done for you? His plumbing bill must be off the charts with all the weave balls caught in his shower drain. Damn you. It's not your job to make him feel like a man. It's your job to feel like shutting the fuck up out of respect for your man. U dont hear me in here this evenin!

Fuck is wrong wit you young ass hoes? Now u may get away with a lot on account of that ass. BUt gotdamnit...

U know what..look bitch I dont know what's going on wit u and that ho ass nigga but if im ever in England--lets just say...fuck your rape laws.

deadeye

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

my boo and i have been arguing lately, it has alot to do with me not being submissive enough, like when he tells me to do shit,i dont do it. a. cos his not my dad, b. who made him the boss of me.
and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos

If what he tells you to do makes sense then you shouldn't have a problem doing it.

Unless it's not about what he says but how he says it.

You must not respect him

What kinda shit has he told you to do?

BabyBugatti

darxwell.bruh.

@deadeye ionno just regular shit, i dont know how to fucking explain it!
Ill be like sam do not change the channel i like the show in that teacher tone and he wont changeit, but other way round id change it in a heart beat.

weveknow each other 8months, datingofficially 2 months

deadeye

'Don't know what to tell you based on that.

On one hand it sounds like it might not be that serious...on the other hand it could be something that might be a problem down the line.

Arguing a lot when you're only 2 months into the relationship isn't a good sign though.

BabyBugatti

neither of us going anywhere though lol

deadeye

young love

BabyBugatti

i say that shit with too much confidence lol

KNiGHTS

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

darxwell.bruh.

@deadeye ionno just regular shit, i dont know how to fucking explain it!
Ill be like sam do not change the channel i like the show in that teacher tone and he wont changeit, but other way round id change it in a heart beat.

weveknow each other 8months, datingofficially 2 months

Sounds like you got some authority issues if you're that petty. If dude isn't asking you to eat his ass or do some out of this world raunchy shit, you're completely at fault for the arguments UNLESS he's one of those people that try to exert subtle power by asking/telling you to do shit all the time on the low.

"Haha! That's funny... give me the remote please. Word? I agree. Can I get something to drink? You see what just happened on TV? Can you give me some chips?"

If he's not bugging you with requests like that and he's constantly doing for you, you're going to be rocking a forever alone gif unless you deal with straight suckers. No real dude is going to put up with a selfish broad forever, and it's not because you're not making him feel like less of a man. You're treating him like a thing.

Also, if not changing the channel is the best example you could come up with as too much of a sacrifice of who you are as a person, you don't need a relationship.

bbwthick23

I need a better example than turn the channel to analyze this

major pain

young women just sayin 'no' off principle. doesnt even matter both of you realize he's right...

keep it up and i promise he will end up like this.

ptnutz

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos like wtf who made u god.

He says im always trying to take control and im always trying to be the man in our relationship (sooo not true)

This is why dudes nowadays are all about getting ass and not trying to be in a serious relationship with young (aka immature) women.

Ajackson17

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

my boo and i have been arguing lately, it has alot to do with me not being submissive enough, like when he tells me to do shit,i dont do it. a. cos his not my dad, b. who made him the boss of me.
and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos like wtf who made u god.
He says im always trying to take control and im always trying to be the man in our relationship (sooo not true)
But i get it, men like to feel like men..but why i gotta sacrifice myself and my leadership for this shit.
Ionno what im gon do, as its starting to become as issue, i think part of it is that im scared of looking like a fool just doing whatever he says..idk man maybe when i 'fall in love' with him itll be differentand ill WANT to do what he says

You don't need that dude trying to make you submit to his every whim. I'll be in England soon and you'll know what's its like to have a real man.

Chicity

I don't wanna tell Ms. S how to do her job but growing pains is ---->

MissK

You don't have to sacrifice yourself but you will need to compromise.

Lil Loca

KNiGHTS wrote: »

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

darxwell.bruh.

@deadeye ionno just regular shit, i dont know how to fucking explain it!
Ill be like sam do not change the channel i like the show in that teacher tone and he wont changeit, but other way round id change it in a heart beat.

weveknow each other 8months, datingofficially 2 months

Sounds like you got some authority issues if you're that petty. If dude isn't asking you to eat his ass or do some out of this world raunchy shit, you're completely at fault for the arguments UNLESS he's one of those people that try to exert subtle power by asking/telling you to do shit all the time on the low.

"Haha! That's funny... give me the remote please. Word? I agree. Can I get something to drink? You see what just happened on TV? Can you give me some chips?"

If he's not bugging you with requests like that and he's constantly doing for you, you're going to be rocking a forever alone gif unless you deal with straight suckers. No real dude is going to put up with a selfish broad forever, and it's not because you're not making him feel like less of a man. You're treating him like a thing.

Also, if not changing the channel is the best example you could come up with as too much of a sacrifice of who you are as a person, you don't need a relationship.

How does not wanting to do everything he says equivalent to having an authority issue? Her boyfriend is supposed to be an equal partner, not an authority figure in the first place.

Also, she didn't say anything about how he constantly does for her. It really just sounds like the case of an insecure nigga who thinks he has to be the boss of his girl.

a.mann

this girl's troll game is impeccable....lol

AP12

you still gone get him that jean jacket Moreno?

HAF BAYKED

smh....young chick post.....

she'll get her mind right after she runs her first 2 baby daddies off with that shit

Du_Du

a lotta women have issues with being submissive..
there's only 2 futures for them...

1. being single forever

2. being with a bitch ass nigga



i know a lotta women don't want to hear it, but when you in the presence of a real man, becoming submissive to that man is a natural occurrence..

funny thing is....it don't have to be forced or stressed....it's just one of those things that works itself out....

Oceanic

Brain research shows that the brain is not fully developed until around early-mid 20's so it's not really a surprise t/s says things like this:

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders

Sounds like startin shit just to be startin shit. That shit gets old real quick in the real world.
Teenagers forever trying to test their boundaries inside and outside of relationships. One day, he gon man up, I got faith in him.

T/S, you better stop testing that young man

Oceanic

I used to be like ol boy though. I let this one chick walk all over me cuz I was in that puppy love stage; I ain't know shit. I was a young'n like threadstarter. Then one day, I had a revelation



and I was all of the sudden on a higher level of consciousness. I could see more clearly. It was like a veil had been lifted. I was like bitch get the fuck out of my face! I've been a man about his motherfuckin business ever since.