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BabyBugattiBabyBugatti Posts: 9,156 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited November 2012 in The Powder Room
my boo and i have been arguing lately, it has alot to do with me not being submissive enough, like when he tells me to do shit,i dont do it. a. cos his not my dad, b. who made him the boss of me.
and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos like wtf who made u god.
He says im always trying to take control and im always trying to be the man in our relationship (sooo not true)
But i get it, men like to feel like men..but why i gotta sacrifice myself and my leadership for this shit.
Ionno what im gon do, as its starting to become as issue, i think part of it is that im scared of looking like a fool just doing whatever he says..idk man maybe when i 'fall in love' with him itll be differentand ill WANT to do what he says
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  • deadeyedeadeye Old Nigga Extraordinaire In my basement fapping to chunky fat Kat pics.Posts: 12,827 ✭✭✭✭✭
    And it begins
    buttuh_bhauteBookwormSion
  • deadeyedeadeye Old Nigga Extraordinaire In my basement fapping to chunky fat Kat pics.Posts: 12,827 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2012
    my boo and i have been arguing lately, it has alot to do with me not being submissive enough, like when he tells me to do shit,i dont do it. a. cos his not my dad, b. who made him the boss of me.
    and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos

    If what he tells you to do makes sense then you shouldn't have a problem doing it.

    Unless it's not about what he says but how he says it.

    You must not respect him :-(

    What kinda shit has he told you to do?

  • BabyBugattiBabyBugatti Posts: 9,156 ✭✭✭✭✭
    darxwell.bruh.

    @deadeye ionno just regular shit, i dont know how to fucking explain it!
    Ill be like sam do not change the channel i like the show in that teacher tone and he wont changeit, but other way round id change it in a heart beat.

    weveknow each other 8months, datingofficially 2 months
    BodhiDarcSkies
  • deadeyedeadeye Old Nigga Extraordinaire In my basement fapping to chunky fat Kat pics.Posts: 12,827 ✭✭✭✭✭
    'Don't know what to tell you based on that.

    On one hand it sounds like it might not be that serious...on the other hand it could be something that might be a problem down the line.

    Arguing a lot when you're only 2 months into the relationship isn't a good sign though.
  • BabyBugattiBabyBugatti Posts: 9,156 ✭✭✭✭✭
    neither of us going anywhere though lol
  • BabyBugattiBabyBugatti Posts: 9,156 ✭✭✭✭✭
    i say that shit with too much confidence lol
  • bbwthick23bbwthick23 Posts: 955 ✭✭✭
    I need a better example than turn the channel to analyze this
  • ptnutzptnutz Posts: 1,625 ✭✭✭✭✭
    and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos like wtf who made u god.

    He says im always trying to take control and im always trying to be the man in our relationship (sooo not true)

    This is why dudes nowadays are all about getting ass and not trying to be in a serious relationship with young (aka immature) women.
    dallas' 4 evaSionStoneColdMikeyValentinez A. Kaiser
  • Ajackson17Ajackson17 God King Posts: 16,872 ✭✭✭✭✭
    my boo and i have been arguing lately, it has alot to do with me not being submissive enough, like when he tells me to do shit,i dont do it. a. cos his not my dad, b. who made him the boss of me.
    and its like the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders cos like wtf who made u god.
    He says im always trying to take control and im always trying to be the man in our relationship (sooo not true)
    But i get it, men like to feel like men..but why i gotta sacrifice myself and my leadership for this shit.
    Ionno what im gon do, as its starting to become as issue, i think part of it is that im scared of looking like a fool just doing whatever he says..idk man maybe when i 'fall in love' with him itll be differentand ill WANT to do what he says

    You don't need that dude trying to make you submit to his every whim. I'll be in England soon and you'll know what's its like to have a real man.
    bkkbully
  • MissKMissK Antisocial Pessimist Posts: 3,116 ✭✭✭✭✭
    You don't have to sacrifice yourself but you will need to compromise.
    Bookworm
  • BodhiBodhi Posts: 7,637 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2012
    Brain research shows that the brain is not fully developed until around early-mid 20's so it's not really a surprise t/s says things like this:
    the shit he wants me to do makes sense but i just cant follow his orders

    Sounds like startin shit just to be startin shit. That shit gets old real quick in the real world.
    Teenagers forever trying to test their boundaries inside and outside of relationships. One day, he gon man up, I got faith in him.

    T/S, you better stop testing that young man
    ChicitySionStoneColdMikey
  • King EraunoKing Erauno Posts: 6,389 ✭✭✭✭✭
    he aint hittin it right. a woman is submissive due to certain traits of her man aka alpha male, be may beat her ass or he pipin her right. your dude sounds like a bitch.
    BodhiChicity[Deleted User]
  • DWODWO †‡§☻☺♥♦♣♠♂♀☼✔♋✎✄☯ツ ♛♛♛♛♛KING SHIT ♛♛♛♛♛Posts: 53,184 Regulator
    even the strongest women who like to be in control can be checked by a strong enough man...and again it doesn't have to be forced, stressed, or even insisted upon...

    she just finds herself inexplicably at dudes knees.....and no this isn't always a situation where the man takes advantage.. cuz there's no real reason to take advantage of a woman's submission, especially if it's earned through respect....

    you respect her as a woman, she respects you as a man, and submits to your will....shit just falls into place....all that bucking and acting up shit ceases....as long as the man maintains that which must be maintained.. the woman has no reason to act...


    basically...



    if shorty actin up, that nigga be letting her
    ChicitydeadeyeSionSixSickSinsStoneColdMikey
  • dallas' 4 evadallas' 4 eva Dicking down your old lady. Posts: 6,524 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If what he asks you to do makes sense why not do it? You're clearly not the leader you think you are, because even a good leader takes advice and has to follow orders sometimes.
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