Dilemma

DWODWO ♪♫♪I was down 40, now I'm up 50. Posts: 49,031 Regulator
So i Go to the bank on Thursday and make a payment on my bank credit card over the counter...cash payment......

now mind you, I expect that shit to be posted immediately..or atleast by Monday morning....

Get to monday...shit not posted
tuesday shit still not posted
Today shit STILL not posted.....so i call these bitches......come to find out because me and my wife share a checking account at that bank, they posted the payment to HER credit card instead of mines....



now I gotta get her to fax over a letter to them telling them that they have her permission to move the money... which pissed me off cuz i'm like wait, we have a shared account, and I'm her husband and i still can't do the shit myself? I hate this dumb shit... but i'm like iight..whatever....


so i text her the business....


then as I was about to hit send I thought about it....

"Do I really have to make her do this?"

I mean i give her a couple dollars here n there for her bills all the time.....shit that's the point of working 2 jobs.....I get paid Thursday and Friday this week, so it's not like I can't make another payment, should I play it off on some

"Merry Christmas babe, i paid your credit card this month"

or do I tell her to give me my money back???

shit kinda got me me confused on the best way to play this
ChicityMeta_Consciousblacktux
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  • KatKat Posts: 36,109 ✭✭✭✭✭
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?
  • DWODWO ♪♫♪ I was down 40, now I'm up 50. Posts: 49,031 Regulator
    edited December 2012
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?

    it's only $100

    we both have our own separate bills...she has her credit cards, i have mines

    I normally double and triple up on my payments, while she likes to pay the minimum or maybe a tad bit more... i feel like i'm bailing her out cuz her bill was only like $35 and i just dropped $100 on that shit.....

    @ tommy..yea i'm cheap as a bitch..guilty as fucking charged

  • DWODWO ♪♫♪ I was down 40, now I'm up 50. Posts: 49,031 Regulator
    a.mann wrote: »
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?

    IMO it works out better that way

    they both have their own financial responsibility to the household
    even momma





    nice shot....
    a.mannAjackson17
  • KatKat Posts: 36,109 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I think you should just let it ride..she'll be grateful and none the wiser that you were only a thoughtful and generous husband by mistake.

  • DWODWO ♪♫♪ I was down 40, now I'm up 50. Posts: 49,031 Regulator
    naw fuck that i just changed the text...


    "when you leave work pick up a pint of captain morgan, a case of sam addams, and a sub from greek village....keep the change, you're welcome"
    Dirty Sanchezblack caesarTheRicanKing
  • 7figz7figz Ig'nant Posts: 11,079 ✭✭✭✭✭
    What she gonna say if you tell her you need your money back ?
  • YoungGoldieYoungGoldie AKA RAKEEM ALLAH Posts: 13,328 Regulator
    Hold up nigga, yall sharing checking accounts?

    tumblr_mchb7ezwGv1qdn14l.gif


    Thats where u messed up fam..
  • DWODWO ♪♫♪ I was down 40, now I'm up 50. Posts: 49,031 Regulator
    Hold up nigga, yall sharing checking accounts?

    tumblr_mchb7ezwGv1qdn14l.gif


    Thats where u messed up fam..

    i got 3 checking accounts and a savings, we only share 1 of them...

    i play smart
    YoungGoldieAjackson17TheRicanKing
  • DWODWO ♪♫♪ I was down 40, now I'm up 50. Posts: 49,031 Regulator
    7fIG wrote: »
    What she gonna say if you tell her you need your money back ?

    she ain't gonna say shit but "okay"


    lmao...
    Dr.Chemix
  • KatKat Posts: 36,109 ✭✭✭✭✭
    a.mann wrote: »
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?

    IMO it works out better that way

    they both have their own financial responsibility to the household
    even momma

    What's the point of being married?

    Your financial responsibility should be to contribute the joint account that's paying the bills. Her debt is his debt at this point and vice versa, right? I mean that's part of what you sign up for when you take those vows.
    DWOa.mannMeta_ConsciousDirty Sanchezblack caesarJusDre313
  • 7figz7figz Ig'nant Posts: 11,079 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2012
    a.mann wrote: »
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?

    IMO it works out better that way

    they both have their own financial responsibility to the household
    even momma

    What's the point of being married?

    Sex.
    a.mann wrote: »
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?

    IMO it works out better that way

    they both have their own financial responsibility to the household
    even momma

    Her debt is his debt at this point and vice versa, right? I mean that's part of what you sign up for when you take those vows.

    Wow. It's a wonder more men aren't lining up at the door for this shit when you make it sound that good.
    DWObull6599TheRicanKing
  • Dr.ChemixDr.Chemix Posts: 11,411 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Well damn. First marriage talk now joint bank account nightmares by @Du_Du.

    I would wrap my arms round my woman's waist, nestle my face into her neck to smell her fragrance and say "mmmm baby, im going to need you to come off that yard real quick"
    DWOKatMeta_Consciousblakfyahking
  • KatKat Posts: 36,109 ✭✭✭✭✭
    7fIG wrote: »
    a.mann wrote: »
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?

    IMO it works out better that way

    they both have their own financial responsibility to the household
    even momma

    What's the point of being married?

    Sex.
    a.mann wrote: »
    How much we talking?

    Ya'll are married and pay bills separately?

    IMO it works out better that way

    they both have their own financial responsibility to the household
    even momma

    Her debt is his debt at this point and vice versa, right? I mean that's part of what you sign up for when you take those vows.

    Wow. It's a wonder men aren't lining up at the door for this shit.

    That's the truth though, isn't it? Legally speaking, doesn't her debt become your debt when you get married?

    But you're right @Du, if that system works for you guys then no need to fix it. I was just a little thrown off by your thought process. If a bill is due, it gets paid regardless of whose it is, and I'm not even married.
    Meta_ConsciousDirty Sanchez
  • DWODWO ♪♫♪ I was down 40, now I'm up 50. Posts: 49,031 Regulator
    communication is key...

    we share a lot, and we'll help each other out if need be....

    but her bills are her bills and my bills are my bills.....that was made an understanding very early... things like that need to be properly addressed and not just assumed....

    but she gonna have to take that card to the liquor store before she walk in the house tonight i tell you that..
    Dr.Chemix
  • a.manna.mann Posts: 17,231 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2012
    What's the point of being married?

    Your financial responsibility should be to contribute the joint account that's paying the bills. Her debt is his debt at this point and vice versa, right? I mean that's part of what you sign up for when you take those vows.


    you sounding real naive right about now Kat

    Du explained perfectly

    how you handle the financials can make or break a marriage/relationship , the statistics speak in our favor on this one

    spit the bills, cuz when everyone's paying their fare share, it leaves less stress on one particular person
    which can and have lead to resentment in a relationship

    and if you can't make a payment or may be a lil short for the month
    you can just asked your s/o to cover you

    ^^^^^^^
    that's "the point" of being married









    DWO
  • KatKat Posts: 36,109 ✭✭✭✭✭
    lmao..it goes both ways though. I've paid a couple car payments cause it was due and my payday.
    Meta_Conscious
  • The ProdigalsonThe Prodigalson Posts: 8,450 ✭✭✭✭✭
    That's why I don't do credit cards. If I ain't got the money it wasn't for me.
    blacktuxDWOKat
  • MrSoutCityMrSoutCity Posts: 2,365 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Cheap ass nigga Du Du
    KatDWOJusDre313
  • Meta_ConsciousMeta_Conscious Posts: 24,908 ✭✭✭✭✭
    participial person...
    Du be talking tough on the IC, but I bet his wife beats him...
    a.mannDWO7figzbull6599
  • blacktuxblacktux Posts: 3,120 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I have one credit card with a couple stacks on it that i make use of.

    Du, its only 100 let that shit fly.

    LOL@kat..
    DWO
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