Why Do Alot Of Females Want To Holla At You As Soon As You Get A Wifey?

Busta Carmichael

shits been boggling my mind since i was a youngin son

Can anyone of you ladies explain why you only approach men or why he is suddenly more desirable once he gets a gf? (btw i'm in college)

this prolly does not apply to you old ass niggas with kids

ILL_Anvers

I'm a young ass nigga with a gf but without kids so i know what you're talking 'bout.

I figure it's like when you want something you can't have, you want it more + they know there's something about you that gets you a wifey cuz if you've been single for two years, they prolly see you as a loser.

That's just how i see it. Now let's wait for a lady with a more valid opinion. lol

numbaz...80's baby

Somebody should move this here to growing pains.


It's simple there guy. It could be 4 or more different reasons.

1) Most women don't want you if nobody else want you. They might think something is wrong with you(Gay, has an std, broke, "little guy" or just flat out lame).

2) If you're married or in a relationship, there's a curiosity factor that makes them interested to see why you're so appealing to other women.

3) It also can be that some women want what they can't have or not supposed to have. It's a desire, self esteem issue or a competition within themselves. Kind of the same with men when they try to pull the baddest bitch in the club knowing her man is there.

4) Last but not least, the trophy. This kind of coincides with reason number 1. It's the same with a man that wants to marry that Beyonce type broad. They simply just want someone that every women wants to be with so they can show off their man.

fuc_i_look_like

This ain't just a female thing, ppl in general do this shit.

DNB1

Human nature... Wanting something that ain't urs...

Ajackson17

Well, it's more of a female thing, but these young cats don't respect the game like they use to.

Women just simply think you must be interesting and they can also smell that you have a girlfriend or what not. So you having a girl must mean there is something special about you.

caddo man

Move this shit to Growing pains.

King Erauno

its like a 6th sense. i forgot what its called but people in general give off a vibe when they have someone and alot of females pick that shit up and are attracted to it. sort of like an i dont need you vibe..which attracts women.

aka you young niggas, dont act needy and they'll come in flocks

WeeZee

It's women's damn insecurities getting in the way again.

I think stealing another woman's man makes some women feel better about themselves, quite sad really.

Pico Roscoe

Everybody wants what someone else has.

Will Munny

Promiscuous women love drama.

kai_valya

i think some of it may have to do with how a man is once he's in a relationship. like the women actually see that you're capable of commitment, you're capable of being a caring mate, and these are things they can't see when you're single

they're still homewreckers tho lol

Du_Du

cuz they freaks....


they figure any nigga with a wife must be fucking her good, or at the least was fucking her good in the beginning to get her wifed up in the first place....cuz the only way they themselves getting wifed up, is if they getting fucked good....

and they all wanna get fucked good...so the nigga with the girl is the most logical choice

texas409

cause a lot of them think ass backwards

Plap Star

you kno how these hoes be

lechic

Lady_Zee wrote: »

It's women's damn insecurities getting in the way again.

I think stealing another woman's man makes some women feel better about themselves, quite sad really.

Word.

That's why bitches land in the hospital trying to figure out, "Why him?"

fortyacres&amule

just like the orc, the female is a cunning, vindictive, unhappy creature

just like lord sauron from lord of the rings it will bring us all into the darkness and bind us there if we let it

DoUwant2go2Heaven?

All of humanity violates the 10th commandment.

"You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."Exodus 20:17

Coveting leads mankind to do terrible things in order to attain what doesn't belong to us. Theft, adultery, hate, murder, lying, etc. will be the ultimate consequences when people act upon their lusts.

Thank God for Jesus Christ though, who came to set us free from the curse of sin. God gives believers the Holy Spirit in order to defeat the works of the world, the flesh, and the devil. Thus, sin has no more power over any believer in Jesus Christ because we walk in the spirit and not after the flesh! Hallelujah!

MzGrahamBitches

Same reason the first response after telling a dude you have a man is, "You can't have friends?"

Because people not in your relationship don't give a shit about your relationship.

Busta Carmichael

I think this is more of a female thing tho. Because i get turned off from a girl if she says she has a man. Girls however are unloyal to their friends and want more drama. never have i been to a party/club and a bitch goes like "yea my boyfriend about to pick me up" have i continued mackin. lame fuck niggas do that. however every single female will do that

Busta Carmichael

a girl does not become more attractive when she has a man or a bunch of dudes trying to mack. this is the huge difference between men and women.

MzGrahamBitches

Seriously?

A girl may not become more attractive relationship wise, but plenty of dudes eyes light up when told you're taken.

They're hoping you're the one that doesn't mind a Boyfriend #2 type situation, which is a win-win for them of course.

Busta Carmichael

MzGrahamBitches wrote: »

Seriously?

A girl may not become more attractive relationship wise, but plenty of dudes eyes light up when told you're taken.

They're hoping you're the one that doesn't mind a Boyfriend #2 type situation, which is a win-win for them of course.

where they do that at? this type of bitchassness has not been witnessed by me or anyone of my comrades. For the most part when a chick says she's taken we think "well fuck u then bitch!"

MzGrahamBitches

I'm sure there are other men out there like you and your friends, but I assure you for every one like you there are 2 more that don't give a shit..lol.

Case in point, my daughter's father currently texting me about having lunch knowing I gotta man.

WeeZee

The difference in men and women in this instance is; Men are going to go after the woman regardless if she has a man or not, her relationship status is irrelevent.
Whereas women suddenly show interest in men that they'd never have given the time of day to before when they find out that he's in a relationship. This is mainly to make themselves feel better, like they are 'better' than his wifey.

leftcoastkev

It you ain't no chic magnet before you got the 1 on your arm it's because it's never about you fam, it's about a bitches thirst to compete and beat the next bitch at something. And if they see you with the one on your arm publically displaying the mannerisms of a gentleman with it, it's a wrap, they gon want that.

Don't no bitch want a dude that no bitch want, and chics see you with a broad and get curious about you. Chics compare everything, especially themselves to the next one.

It can be about you somewhat, but not about you to the degree you believe, so it's best to keep your ego out of issues with chics.