Why Do Alot Of Females Want To Holla At You As Soon As You Get A Wifey?

Busta Carmichael Busta Carmichael Posts: 8,089 ✭✭✭✭✭
shits been boggling my mind since i was a youngin son

Can anyone of you ladies explain why you only approach men or why he is suddenly more desirable once he gets a gf? (btw i'm in college)

this prolly does not apply to you old ass niggas with kids
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  • I'm a young ass nigga with a gf but without kids so i know what you're talking 'bout.

    I figure it's like when you want something you can't have, you want it more + they know there's something about you that gets you a wifey cuz if you've been single for two years, they prolly see you as a loser.

    That's just how i see it. Now let's wait for a lady with a more valid opinion. lol
    Busta Carmichael deadeye_Goldie_s_a_m_r_i_o
  • DNB1DNB1 Lifes a bitch and then you die...thats why we get high, cause u never know..... Posts: 16,140 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Human nature... Wanting something that ain't urs...
  • Ajackson17Ajackson17 On the shoulders of Giants and Elders in history UniversePosts: 18,841 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Well, it's more of a female thing, but these young cats don't respect the game like they use to.

    Women just simply think you must be interesting and they can also smell that you have a girlfriend or what not. So you having a girl must mean there is something special about you.
  • caddo mancaddo man Failure is success in progress! Posts: 17,648 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Move this shit to Growing pains.
    gnsKatDWOb@squ1@t redux
  • King EraunoKing Erauno Posts: 6,571 ✭✭✭✭✭
    its like a 6th sense. i forgot what its called but people in general give off a vibe when they have someone and alot of females pick that shit up and are attracted to it. sort of like an i dont need you vibe..which attracts women.

    aka you young niggas, dont act needy and they'll come in flocks
    Young StefILL_Anvers
  • PicoPico STFUPosts: 36,321 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Everybody wants what someone else has.
    Judah BackYoung StefBlack_Samson
  • Will MunnyWill Munny I eat pussy on the 1st date. Posts: 25,959 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Promiscuous women love drama.
    Bookwormtexas409Busta Carmichael Rubato Garcia
  • DWODWO †‡§☻☺♥♦♣♠♂♀☼✔♋✎✄☯ツ ♛♛♛♛♛KING SHIT ♛♛♛♛♛Posts: 57,388 Regulator
    edited December 2012
    cuz they freaks....

    they figure any nigga with a wife must be fucking her good, or at the least was fucking her good in the beginning to get her wifed up in the first place....cuz the only way they themselves getting wifed up, is if they getting fucked good....

    and they all wanna get fucked good...so the nigga with the girl is the most logical choice
    Busta Carmichael Disciplined InSight
  • texas409texas409 Posts: 16,423 ✭✭✭✭✭
    cause a lot of them think ass backwards
  • 700700 Praying 5 times a day to catch a plug Plap City, FLAPosts: 12,710 ✭✭✭✭✭
    you kno how these hoes be
  • PurrPurr Evil Chuck Season. Jumpman jumpman Jumpman dat girl up to something!!!Posts: 31,437 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Lady_Zee wrote: »
    It's women's damn insecurities getting in the way again.

    I think stealing another woman's man makes some women feel better about themselves, quite sad really.


    That's why bitches land in the hospital trying to figure out, "Why him?"
    Lady_ZeeYoung Stef
  • DoUwant2go2HeavenDoUwant2go2Heaven Lover of Jesus Christ and a Minister of reconcilation! Do you know Him? 5777 Babylon the GreatPosts: 7,935 ✭✭✭✭✭
    All of humanity violates the 10th commandment.

    "You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."Exodus 20:17

    Coveting leads mankind to do terrible things in order to attain what doesn't belong to us. Theft, adultery, hate, murder, lying, etc. will be the ultimate consequences when people act upon their lusts.

    Thank God for Jesus Christ though, who came to set us free from the curse of sin. God gives believers the Holy Spirit in order to defeat the works of the world, the flesh, and the devil. Thus, sin has no more power over any believer in Jesus Christ because we walk in the spirit and not after the flesh! Hallelujah!
    UnderMiSensiAjackson17Judah BackILL_AnversLouis CipherKing EraunoDisciplined InSight
  • KatKat You just do you..Imma do me :* Posts: 43,450 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Same reason the first response after telling a dude you have a man is, "You can't have friends?"

    Because people not in your relationship don't give a shit about your relationship.
    Young Stef
  • Busta Carmichael Busta Carmichael Posts: 8,089 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I think this is more of a female thing tho. Because i get turned off from a girl if she says she has a man. Girls however are unloyal to their friends and want more drama. never have i been to a party/club and a bitch goes like "yea my boyfriend about to pick me up" have i continued mackin. lame fuck niggas do that. however every single female will do that
  • Busta Carmichael Busta Carmichael Posts: 8,089 ✭✭✭✭✭
    a girl does not become more attractive when she has a man or a bunch of dudes trying to mack. this is the huge difference between men and women.
    BARON_$AMEDIb@squ1@t reduxAggyAFDr. Stitch
  • KatKat You just do you..Imma do me :* Posts: 43,450 ✭✭✭✭✭

    A girl may not become more attractive relationship wise, but plenty of dudes eyes light up when told you're taken.

    They're hoping you're the one that doesn't mind a Boyfriend #2 type situation, which is a win-win for them of course.

  • Busta Carmichael Busta Carmichael Posts: 8,089 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2012

    A girl may not become more attractive relationship wise, but plenty of dudes eyes light up when told you're taken.

    They're hoping you're the one that doesn't mind a Boyfriend #2 type situation, which is a win-win for them of course.

    where they do that at? this type of bitchassness has not been witnessed by me or anyone of my comrades. For the most part when a chick says she's taken we think "well fuck u then bitch!"
  • KatKat You just do you..Imma do me :* Posts: 43,450 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I'm sure there are other men out there like you and your friends, but I assure you for every one like you there are 2 more that don't give a shit..lol.

    Case in point, my daughter's father currently texting me about having lunch knowing I gotta man.
    Young StefBARON_$AMEDILouis Cipherb@squ1@t reduxbull6599
  • leftcoastkevleftcoastkev Chaos and Contradictions. Posts: 4,263 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2012
    It you ain't no chic magnet before you got the 1 on your arm it's because it's never about you fam, it's about a bitches thirst to compete and beat the next bitch at something. And if they see you with the one on your arm publically displaying the mannerisms of a gentleman with it, it's a wrap, they gon want that.

    Don't no bitch want a dude that no bitch want, and chics see you with a broad and get curious about you. Chics compare everything, especially themselves to the next one.

    It can be about you somewhat, but not about you to the degree you believe, so it's best to keep your ego out of issues with chics.
    goldenjaYoung Stef
  • Es-BeeEs-Bee 2nd coming Posts: 2,258 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2012
    its cuz you are finally getting pussy, so instead of being depressed and down like you were cuz you wasnt getting pussy, now you're upbeat....chicks take notice of your new aura, not cuz you got a girl
    Young StefShuffingtonTheRicanKing
  • Tommy_MilfhittaTommy_Milfhitta Posts: 1,608 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I know wat T/S talkin bout. I sum tyms find myself in situations wen I'm on a date/hanging out with my female friends in public/out clubbing with my fuckbuddies etc... It is during these times wen I attract the most girls.

    Crazy thing is the very same bishes that are showing a nigga interest will be the same ones that'll just put up a front wen a nigga ridin dolo or chillin with the homies...weird phenomenon this
  • NoCompetitionNoCompetition Posts: 2,723 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2012
    Lady_Zee wrote: »
    The difference in men and women in this instance is; Men are going to go after the woman regardless if she has a man or not, her relationship status is irrelevent.
    Whereas women suddenly show interest in men that they'd never have given the time of day to before when they find out that he's in a relationship. This is mainly to make themselves feel better, like they are 'better' than his wifey.

    This is actually a turn off for me. Makes me leave her alone. Dont want some loser's seconds when he aint with her. Those type dudes will accept anything. Quality dudes with options make the rules and unless you like following a loser on 1 broad (disgusting) you will not accept this set up. Dudes who accept anything will have results in life that reflect that.
    Busta Carmichael BARON_$AMEDI
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