Speaking of Christmas,
A lot of Christian (and generally theist) parents raise their children to believe in Santa Claus (along with a host of other fictional holiday/event characters such as the easter bunny, tooth fairy, etc.), later admitting or revealing to them that the characters and associated stories are false. Meanwhile, they support continued belief in a god, of whom the child most likely held on the same level as any other character or story from childhood. What seperates one from the other; say, a god from Santa? Do you think that encouraging your child to believe in imaginary characters such as Santa Claus affects the child's belief in a god in the future?
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •I think finding out Santa ISN'T real might teach a child not to just blindly believe in anything you're told, but to research and come to your own conclusion whatever that may be.
If we want to get all serious about it.
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1 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •What would you say to your child if she asked you,
"If Santa Claus is not real, does that mean god is not real? What makes god real and santa false??"
Big immortal bearded men who "watch you", observe your actions and keep tally of your good and bad deeds so that if you are good, they will bless you with a.) gifts; b.) salvation. Sounds similar.
We're all (for the most part) adults here. This thread was originally intended for Religion and Race but I need some posts to kick it off and it's a grown topic.
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1 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Last time I checked folk...The sun shines on the just and unjust
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •God and the sun ain't the same thing, jack.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Santa Claus (and the rest of the child characters) are all fake, we KNOW that eventually. I think it's harmless fun for a child to believe in such things, as its not a life altering belief.
If you look @ Santa and God, they're similar. Both are "all-knowing", both are immortal, both have magical powers. The thing that separates them is one of them is known to be not real, the other is known to be real.
Adults believe in a god because I believe most of them want to think and know there's something greater, some grand being that can save everyone from their troubles. The fairy tales of Santa, the Easter Bunny etc don't offer anything that caters to adults while god does. God offers a guilt free feeling, love, forgiveness, eternal life etc.. This is what adults go for because they're taught that the things they do are "sinful".
Another opinion is all believers are very weak minded, they feel they need those things and therefore make up a god in their mind. I think a "placebo effect" kicks in, anything that happens is "gods plan", and they won't believe otherwise.
I don't think it affects the child's future though, I know people who have never believed in that kind of stuff but still believed in a god. The belief of god is more heavy, especially when you're raised in a religious household. So that's the affect for the future, not an early belief in the fairy tales.
Although, later the belief can be affected if the person thinks of god as Santa, tooth fairy or boogeyman. They can look at it and think "Santa wasn't real, so maybe god isn't either, but won't look at it as "oh Santa existed so god must too".
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •So the unjust don't receive their (daily necessities) just the same as the just?
Who controls this on a 'daily' basis...if the unjust is so bad..why do they receive 'most' of the things as the just
The quote you posted about Santa is that the unjust doesn't get "nothing" and the just gets rewards...
Those too statements about Santa and GOD don't run together folk
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1 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •The point I was making is that according to the stories, both god and santa reward the just (heaven, blessings, etc./gifts respectively) and punish the unjust (hell, plagues, etc./coal, no gifts, etc.). It doesn't get much more complicated than that.
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1 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •*but its not the reasons
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Santa and god are pretty similar, they share similar attributes.
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1 • Wack Feelings 1Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •I agree with this but I try not to underestimate a child's ability to reason.
For instance, a kid asked one of my old friends recently why black people are dark skinned and she said "god made us that way" and the kid said "you can do better than that"
I think this train of thought ^^ could come quicker than people assume.
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1 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Exactly and one of the most elementary lessons of childhood is to connect similar, shapes, objects, or concepts. I wouldn't put it past a child to, once find out that fictional characters are not real, doubt the veracity of the Bible/Quran/Torah stories.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •My son is 6, his reasoning skills are a lot better. When I said that, he said, "so that means he probably isn't real", I shrugged and he said, "if he isn't, then the other ones aren't either". (He's almost made the same kid of reasoning w god)
So some people can reason, it's just that most won't. One reason is god is more "important" and holds a deeper meaning. Most of them will actually fear their reasoning, they'll get their doubts then question gods existence, which ends up making them feel guilty then they fear gods "wrath" and "hell".
I know a lot of 'tunnel vision' people, they won't hear or look at it any other way, those people irk me because they're being ignorant as fuck.
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-1 • 1Wack 2Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •This is what I'm talking about right here cuz a lot of Christian parents teach their children bible stories like Eve and the serpent..Jonah and the Whale..David and Goliath..Jesus and the disciples..God's existence.. right alongside the Tooth Fairy and Santa Claus without really making a distinction between one and the other until later when they want their child to stop believing in one and continue believing in the other. But for what reason???
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Is it a dumbass question or is it that you can't understand the question? I didn't ask you whether all people believed in Santa Claus or not. Re read the op and reply again, this time with an intelligent response.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •God had more meaning and more to offer than a belief in the other things, I think this is why parents hold dear to it and make sure their children do too. Most Christian parents I do know, don't allow their children to believe in such things anyways.
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3 • Wack Feelings Nosign 2Cosign Ether 1GOAT LOL •I, like many people, grew up with this image in my house:
^ nobody can prove Jesus looked like that, nobody can prove he exists or existed, he is the same as all the other child-friendly characters you are taught to believe in.
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