Question for the ladies

alvarez_313

What's up with the selective hearing\memory thing? This chick at work started talking to me and we had a fun conversation.. During that light hearted conversation she dropped a lil question to see my relationship status.. She said something like "man I bet your wife is always laughing with you around" and I was like "yeah I'm silly like that all the time".. So we've been talking for several days now, nothing romantic just jokes and crap to make the day go by faster.. So yesterday she asks "when are you inviting me over for dinner?" and I'm like "huh? ummm...".. So today she asks if I wanna go for drinks after work one day, I say yeah that's cool.. Then she says "just to be clear. are you married or in a relationship?" so I remind her that I already said yeah.. Now she's acting like I never told her.. The fuck is that about? And why would she care anyway seeing as NONE of our conversations have hinted on dating, fucking, hooking up or anything like that?

MsSouthern

Well she was obviously feeling you.

Now she's just trying to save face cause you shot her down

She probably knew you were married the whole time .....

.IRS.

I don't think she interpreted "yeah I'm silly like that all the time" as "I have a wife".

MzGrahamBitches

She's fishing..watch yourself.

Ajackson17

Watch yourself brotha

ROZAYTABERNACLE

She's tryna trip you, and then have you fall in her pussy. lol she want that dih

MzGrahamBitches

You don't wear a ring?

Rosebudd B'Dose

I don't wear a ring...

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

MzGrahamBitches

Mmhmm..enough said.

lol

Top Cat

She a hoe..fuck her

Iheart~Cali

Why would you agree to go have drinks with another woman? That's a major no-no.

Stopitfive

Gallivanting...

Lil Loca

A mess.

Stopitfive

I love that spic tramp...

freshb651

this nigga dumb

Plap Star

"if you gon fuck that hoe, then gon head and get some head too, and gon head and fuck her friends too" - Webbie

.IRS.

Lil Loca wrote: »

A mess.

I love the look on her face/in her eyes, its priceless.

Stopitfive

Dark skinned Latinas >>>

alvarez_313

Skyler White wrote: »

Iheart~Cali wrote: »

Why would you agree to go have drinks with another woman? That's a major no-no.

I was thinking the same thing.
your wife cool with you gallivanting with a female coworker?
sounds like you've been throwing her signals for a while now

I've gone and had drinks etc with a LOT of people here, I work in a political environment so that's not irregular. I wear my ring everyday without fail. I can see the point that maybe I could've been more clear about having a wife, I guess since it's not my intention to fuck with her like that I didn't pay it much mind at the time. Thanx yall make some good points.. I'm gonna tell her we can't kick it on anything besides work cause this morning I woke up to a text informing me that she sleeps in short shorts and a tank top... We aren't on the same page..

MzGrahamBitches

wtf..bitch needs to fall all the way back. Trifling ass.

MzGrahamBitches

I mean why would she even feel like it would be appropriate to send a co-worker something like that unless she felt it hade been taken to that level.

You aren't fibbing about your own actions are you? Something isn't right here.

alvarez_313

No @mzgrahambitches I'm tellin the story just as it's happening.. Another thing I found strange was about ten minutes ago I get a message from her saying "thanks for being honest, I just like to know what I'm getting myself into".. WTF is she getting herself into? I swear you just can't be nice to some muhfukkas... I literally have said NOTHING romantically or any sexual innuendo to her.. This is not a case of her being led on.. I'm bout to disable all her shit lol (I.T. Gawd).. Nah but real talk I'm just gonna not talk, email nor text anymore unless it's about her job duties.. Nip this in the bud..

MzGrahamBitches

Um, you need to do more than ignore her, you need to set her fast ass straight.

alvarez_313

True true.. I'mma try this new thing I learned called tact lol.. I'm gonna say something like "listen. I ain't fuckin with you like that. Understand? Have a good day" (that's the tact part).. It always amazes me how people create existences in their own mind which becomes their reality..

MzGrahamBitches

I mean that was really forward of her..who is to say your wife doesn't check your phone? She could have got you in a world of trouble over nothing.

But I agree, almost makes it easier to just stick to yourself when it comes to the opposite sex.

Plap Star

or you could just get some head