dating whilst in a relationship

BabyBugatti

pfft.
Nigga wants to play me? cant make time for me, but can for other shit? excuses upon excuses. ive said it a million times BE REAL WITH ME, if you dont wanna be with me then TELL ME, you twice as big as me, i aint gon beat ur ass.
im trying REAL hard to stay in this shit, i do love him dont get me wrong. i know he cares about me, but now im questioning if theres really love ON HIS SIDE. if you LOVED someone youd' make time to see them right? right.

so i got this. after valentine imma start dating other fucking people, i cant get that affection from you? ill get it from someone else. i wont kiss no one, i wont sex no one. but ill have a good motherfucking time. and when the time comes if need be imma dump yo ass.

im only doing this cos i hope hes ass will fix up while i start dating others because if not id have to dump him right here and now, im tired of this bullshit, but i cant bring myself to do it just yet.

yall think this is triflin? probably is. but you knoooww that saying. if you aint giving your man/woman what they need, someone else will.

BabyBugatti

thats technically cheating. dang LOL

BlackGerald

you and your man are obviously not about that serious relationship life.

most of the IC called this months ago.

BabyBugatti

BlackGerald wrote: »

you and your man are obviously not about that serious relationship life.

most of the IC called this months ago.

dont get it twisteedddddddddddd it hurts me to do this, but it is what it is.

BlackGerald

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

BlackGerald wrote: »

you and your man are obviously not about that serious relationship life.

most of the IC called this months ago.

dont get it twisteedddddddddddd it hurts me to do this, but it is what it is.

why are you hurting yourself to hurt someone else into loving you?

BabyBugatti

well he wont know about me dating others...im only dating while still with him in the hopes that hell figure shit out and we can get back on track but OBVS if things carry on itll show me CLEARLY that i am not a priority and ill do what i need to do. i cant 'anything' anyone into loving me, they gotta do that shit on their on, if that was the case id be giving ultimatums and threats or whatever, but its cool ive stated how feel and he can do whatever he wants with that.

bignorm

If you "date" someone else and they bring you to orgasm, and ya man cant, its a wrap.
also, try giving head more than once a month and see if he acts better.

BabyBugatti

maybe if a muthafucker made time to ACTUALLY see me, hed get more head.
and i wont be fucking anyone, whilst in a relationship.

CashmoneyDux

I feel like someone called this. Who called this again?

BlackGerald

CashmoneyDux wrote: »

I feel like someone called this. Who called this again?

BlackGerald wrote: »

most of the IC.

Go figure

seeing other people while you're in a relationship will only cause more problems. if u think u cant fix the problem now then trust me, this will make sure u never do.
for all u know he might be having some issues so talk to him. find out what the problem is. tell him you're considering a break up since hes not willing to give u the basic needs of a relationship or willing to discuss what is on his mind.

break things off before u start fucking around with other people or you'll just have regrets, especially if it turns out hes not even on bullshit.

then if u gave it all u got trying to work it out and it turns out he is on bullshit, u wont second guess yourself leaving him and it wont have to be sloppy.

deadeye

Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »

well he wont know about me dating others...im only dating while still with him in the hopes that hell figure shit out and we can get back on track

Sounds like dude's looking for a way out.

He wants you to break up with him so that he doesn't have to break up with you.

If I'm wrong though, then he will end things with you if he finds out you've been dating behind his back.

Even if there is no sex involved, some would still consider that cheating.

Go figure

and head more than once a month will probably help a lot too

UPTOWN CONNEXX

CashmoneyDux wrote: »

I feel like someone called this. Who called this again?

***raises hand***

MsSouthern

If you are not happy ...break up with him and move on

Dont cheat on him...

Iceberg Slick

Both of you should stop fronting with the mind games and keep it one hunnid even if aint what both yall want to hear. I hate that shit. Im like leave everything out in the open. Im a rolling stone get used to it. I go for bitches who hella independent anyway. I dont need them wasting my precious time when I got shit to do.

deadeye

@Moreno.Kitamura



Whatever happens, I'll be there for you.



#deadeyecares

freehuey89

lol @ you thinking you're in love. that first post is nothing but drama/chaos entering your life and relationship. if you feel like dating others its time to break it off with dude. what incident warranted this thread though?

deadeye

Does Tim have anything to do with this?

Empress_

So you're going to be deceitful, lie and go behind his back in hopes of fixing your relationship?

Don't do it Mo, be the better person and walk away if working it out isn't an option.

Being so quick to dead things or act irrationally and emotionally charged will only get you in a whole lot of emotional trouble at some point if you don't slow down love. Instant gratification can hurt you a lot in the long run, be careful.

dallas' 4 eva

I must agree that the IC came to a consensus and called this at least two months ago that y'all wasn't about that life. You live and you learn though shit you only what 18/19? I be damned if I would have even entertained a serious committed relationship at that age though real talk.

b00kie

We not dating if we not fucking

Stopitfive

this is a shocking and upsetting revelation... good luck keeping your pussy from falling out, ho...

ROZAYTABERNACLE

Hop on a jet and come to the D, to get this D.

CC_Poncho

So you're gonna hang out with other males in a platonic manner to get back at your man who doesn't wanna hang out with you. Good luck, doubt he'll care though...

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@Moreno.Kitamura

he too cool he can't take u nowhere, leave that dude, be that rude if he that cool......................


save that nubian soft aromic butt for a nigga like me who'd just wanna lay up, eat food, and fuck.

HaHaHa..........