One night wit the one who blew your mind. Plus competing against your S/O's sexual past...

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  • DWODWO Posts: 41,638
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 17,724
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    ok ask yourself this...

    even if you THINK you're not the best... do you WANT to be the best??


    i think everybody should AT THE VERY LEAST WANT to be the best.....and yea if i was told i wasn't..it'd hurt a little.. but it would make me only want to try harder......


    i still wanna learn how to do that tantric sex shit one day.. i heard that shit is out of this world.....

    I would never ask a question like that knowing he's been with a bunch of Women before me. As long as I know that he would rather sex me then any of those other Women I'm happy.

    There is always someone that is better than you at something and that person might have just so happen to fuck your Wife in the past.....some Men are just naturally better at sex then others.

    Just because there's somebody better than you at something doesn't mean your desire to be the best gets killed off. I think it's safe to say even though you may be able to accept know you're not (hypothetically), you still have the WANT/DESIRE to please your husband in a way no woman has done before. That's what @Du_Du is talking about
  • S2JS2J Posts: 13,353
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    bullshit....

    why would i not want to be told something that would only motivate me to work harder?


    yea it would be a hit... but that would only do good for us in the long run...


    haven't you ever heard the term what you're not willing to do the next person is?


    i'm not the type to leave anything uncovered.. if there's something i can do better, tell me and i will.....i think some of yall just too lazy to improve or maybe yall ego is too big to think you NEED to improve..


    i'm just looking at it from this perspective.. if we together forever...don't we owe it to ourselves to do more for eachother sexually than any one else ever has in the past....if i'm not the best today..give me time and i promise i will be.....

    i just don't understand this acceptance of mediocrity for yourself..

    how can you not want to be the best they ever had?

    It doesn't matter how hard you "work" du...another dude might just be better....lol. It is what it is, I just don't think you're being realistic about the subject. You're not always going to be the best in every aspect...it shouldn't be that serious.

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    What kind of MONSTER ARE YOU!
  • DWODWO Posts: 41,638
    so when yall buying lingerie, and letting him bust in yall asses, swallowing his seed, or nutting on yall forhead, and doing your best to fufill any other freaky fantasy your man has... you not trying to give him your best???

    you just doing it cuz it's like whatever?


    naw i can't buy that.. i think everyone wanna be the best.. yall just to scared to ask in fear that you're not....in reality that displays the frailer ego....

    me personally i'd be willing to take that blow to my ego as as motivation to do better...

  • KatKat Posts: 31,198
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 17,724
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    lmao @ asking that shit.

    Let's not get carried away...he says anything BUT me and he ain't getting pussy for a month.

    Lol...but didn't you say you don't care about being the best fuck he's had?

    What I don't know doesn't hurt me.

    Honestly, I don't care but damn I'm not trying to have it confirmed.

    We talk about past lovers and stuff but there's a fine line...don't say anything you can't take back.

    Then you care, you just know you can't handle the truth not being you and that's the difference. If you didn't care then there'd be no fucks given on your part if he listed 3 other chicks before you but you said you'd cut the pussy off.

    There is really no point once you reach a certain age, to ask your partner if you were the best.....it's just like asking how many people they've been with before you. 9 times out of 10 you're not going to get an honest answer.

    I agree asking the question after a certain point is pointless, which is why personally I've never nor would I ever ask it even though I've been asked in the past by a couple women I dated or dealt with. That still doesn't mean that for the woman I marry I don't want our sex lives to be better than anything both of us have had before. Sure it may not happen, but you still want it to happen
  • Ms.ScorpMs.Scorp Posts: 3,387
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    You're acting like it's a competition or something....lmao!!

    It's really not about pleasing her, it's about your ego, which is why you probably don't get an honest answer when you're asked that question.

    I'm sure you've had Women in the past that might have been more skilled at fucking or sucking you, but you would still take your Wife over them because of the love and bond you have.....that's what it all comes down to in the end.
  • KaiKai Posts: 21,047
    edited February 2013
    the one with a bounty on his head.

    i'd give his location to the rcmp so i could collect on my reward
  • DWODWO Posts: 41,638
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

    they got toys for that... we grown ups... if my dick ain't big enough, then fuck it we going down to the sex shop, and we gonna buy some shit thats's going to reach them spots... we gonna take that shit home......and we getting fucking freaky..

    stop playing with me kat....i ain't no freshman....


    you better lube that shit the fuck up and get your wet wet on.....
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 17,724
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

    @Du_Du she just agreed with your point...happy nigga? lol
  • DWODWO Posts: 41,638
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    You're acting like it's a competition or something....lmao!!

    It's really not about pleasing her, it's about your ego, which is why you probably don't get an honest answer when you're asked that question.

    I'm sure you've had Women in the past that might have been more skilled at fucking or sucking you, but you would still take your Wife over them because of the love and bond you have.....that's what it all comes down to in the end.

    i'm like a coach, anything that i feel like can be done better.. i put it in to play.....


    use your hands more... make your mouth wetter.. hear, drink some water....



    stop playing.. we give eachother instruction all the time......i want them orgasms back to back like a championship...
  • DWODWO Posts: 41,638
    blackrain wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

    @Du_Du she just agreed with your point...happy nigga? lol
    naw nigga i ain't never happy... i'm convinced katt lazy in the bed room now...



  • Ms.ScorpMs.Scorp Posts: 3,387
    blackrain wrote: »
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    lmao @ asking that shit.

    Let's not get carried away...he says anything BUT me and he ain't getting pussy for a month.

    Lol...but didn't you say you don't care about being the best fuck he's had?

    What I don't know doesn't hurt me.

    Honestly, I don't care but damn I'm not trying to have it confirmed.

    We talk about past lovers and stuff but there's a fine line...don't say anything you can't take back.

    Then you care, you just know you can't handle the truth not being you and that's the difference. If you didn't care then there'd be no fucks given on your part if he listed 3 other chicks before you but you said you'd cut the pussy off.

    There is really no point once you reach a certain age, to ask your partner if you were the best.....it's just like asking how many people they've been with before you. 9 times out of 10 you're not going to get an honest answer.

    I agree asking the question after a certain point is pointless, which is why personally I've never nor would I ever ask it even though I've been asked in the past by a couple women I dated or dealt with. That still doesn't mean that for the woman I marry I don't want our sex lives to be better than anything both of us have had before. Sure it may not happen, but you still want it to happen

    It will be better regardless because she is your Wife and ya'll have a bond that you haven't had with anyone else.
    I would make love to my Husband before I fucked a dude that made me squirt a million times.
  • DWODWO Posts: 41,638
    kimi teach your husband how to make you squirt....yall owe that to eachother...
  • Ms.ScorpMs.Scorp Posts: 3,387
    Du_Du wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

    @Du_Du she just agreed with your point...happy nigga? lol
    naw nigga i ain't never happy... i'm convinced katt lazy in the bed room now...



    No Du...you are Kang Dangalang...the best your Wife and any other Woman has ever had!

    *pats on head condescendingly*
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 17,724
    edited February 2013
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    lmao @ asking that shit.

    Let's not get carried away...he says anything BUT me and he ain't getting pussy for a month.

    Lol...but didn't you say you don't care about being the best fuck he's had?

    What I don't know doesn't hurt me.

    Honestly, I don't care but damn I'm not trying to have it confirmed.

    We talk about past lovers and stuff but there's a fine line...don't say anything you can't take back.

    Then you care, you just know you can't handle the truth not being you and that's the difference. If you didn't care then there'd be no fucks given on your part if he listed 3 other chicks before you but you said you'd cut the pussy off.

    There is really no point once you reach a certain age, to ask your partner if you were the best.....it's just like asking how many people they've been with before you. 9 times out of 10 you're not going to get an honest answer.

    I agree asking the question after a certain point is pointless, which is why personally I've never nor would I ever ask it even though I've been asked in the past by a couple women I dated or dealt with. That still doesn't mean that for the woman I marry I don't want our sex lives to be better than anything both of us have had before. Sure it may not happen, but you still want it to happen

    It will be better regardless because she is your Wife and ya'll have a bond that you haven't had with anyone else.
    I would make love to my Husband before I fucked a dude that made me squirt a million times.

    The emotional level will of course make it better. We talking on the straight physical level of pleasure though. Think about it like this...how would you feel if you were married to a man you never made nut from head. Then find out a chick in his past before you was swallowing his seed left and right because she knew how to make him nut from head. Sure, your sex life may be better, but you mean to tell me on NO level at all would you feel like "That bitch can't do it better than me" and want to make him try and nut from head? The want it all that's being talked about not the actual ability to do it.
  • Ms.ScorpMs.Scorp Posts: 3,387
    blackrain wrote: »
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    lmao @ asking that shit.

    Let's not get carried away...he says anything BUT me and he ain't getting pussy for a month.

    Lol...but didn't you say you don't care about being the best fuck he's had?

    What I don't know doesn't hurt me.

    Honestly, I don't care but damn I'm not trying to have it confirmed.

    We talk about past lovers and stuff but there's a fine line...don't say anything you can't take back.

    Then you care, you just know you can't handle the truth not being you and that's the difference. If you didn't care then there'd be no fucks given on your part if he listed 3 other chicks before you but you said you'd cut the pussy off.

    There is really no point once you reach a certain age, to ask your partner if you were the best.....it's just like asking how many people they've been with before you. 9 times out of 10 you're not going to get an honest answer.

    I agree asking the question after a certain point is pointless, which is why personally I've never nor would I ever ask it even though I've been asked in the past by a couple women I dated or dealt with. That still doesn't mean that for the woman I marry I don't want our sex lives to be better than anything both of us have had before. Sure it may not happen, but you still want it to happen

    It will be better regardless because she is your Wife and ya'll have a bond that you haven't had with anyone else.
    I would make love to my Husband before I fucked a dude that made me squirt a million times.

    The emotional level will of course make it better. We talking on the straight physical level of pleasure though. Think about it like this...how would you feel if you were married to a man you never made nut from head. Then find out a chick in his past before you was swallowing his seed left and right because she knew how to make him nut from head. Sure, your sex life may be better, but you mean to tell me on NO level at all would you feel like "That bitch can't do it better than me" and want to make him try and nut from head?

    My ego is just not that wrapped up to where I'm asking him those type of questions. We've been married 8 years and I've never asked him about his sex life with Women before me, I handle my business in the bedroom and I know he is sexually fulfilled.

    I'm not about to wear myself out trying to compete with chicks from his past...it's just stupid. Like I said, I think it's a male ego thing because it's not that serious to me.
  • KatKat Posts: 31,198
    Du_Du wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

    @Du_Du she just agreed with your point...happy nigga? lol
    naw nigga i ain't never happy... i'm convinced katt lazy in the bed room now...



    Boy please..we do just fine.

    Everybody has lazy days (ever got a blow job without giving her any dick????), but I'm far from lazy in bed.

  • KaiKai Posts: 21,047
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

    @Du_Du she just agreed with your point...happy nigga? lol
    naw nigga i ain't never happy... i'm convinced katt lazy in the bed room now...



    No Du...you are Kang Dangalang...the best your Wife and any other Woman has ever had!

    *pats on head condescendingly*

    my husband is "king dangalang," but that's probably because he's only the 2nd person i've slept with, so don't have much in the way of experience with different partners. so short of her being a virgin or you being like the 2nd or 3rd person she's slept with, there's no way to know if you're the best she's ever had
  • Ms.ScorpMs.Scorp Posts: 3,387
    edited February 2013
    Du_Du wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Du_Du wrote: »
    so you saying you don't want to give your man...your husband.........the best sexual experiences of his life???

    i just don't get that....


    i could never say i don't want to give my wife the best sexual experiences of her life......i'm just not built like that....


    i want to do more for her than she ever dreamed possible...

    and as a man i feel like i'm supposed to want to be able to do that for her......

    and i feel like as a woman you should want to do that for your man aswell

    and if it hasn't got there yet...then get there......that's how people get cheated on... losing the spark and what not...going through the motions....

    i just can't get with that thought process......


    i want to be the best....and i'm willing to put the work in to do so .....


    I didn't want to go here but you're forcing my hand dubear.

    Sometimes it just ain't anything you can do about it, no matter how much work you put in..

    In my case, dude just had a BIG dick. He was touching spots that had never been touched and that's what caused me to squirt.

    Now that's not to say I can't orgasm or have great sex with the next man, but sometimes it just boils down to the tool you were given.

    Same for a female. I could bust my ass in the bedroom, but that still doesn't mean that a chick before me didn't have the tighter, wetter, better pussy.

    That's just reality...and he best have enough sense to let me live in my bubble of blissful ignorance.

    @Du_Du she just agreed with your point...happy nigga? lol
    naw nigga i ain't never happy... i'm convinced katt lazy in the bed room now...



    Boy please..we do just fine.

    Everybody has lazy days (ever got a blow job without giving her any dick????), but I'm far from lazy in bed.

    Like I said before...the male ego is a fragile thing, got dudes gassed up that they were the best, getting lied to and shit. Competing in an imaginary competition with the Men before him ;))
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 17,724
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    lmao @ asking that shit.

    Let's not get carried away...he says anything BUT me and he ain't getting pussy for a month.

    Lol...but didn't you say you don't care about being the best fuck he's had?

    What I don't know doesn't hurt me.

    Honestly, I don't care but damn I'm not trying to have it confirmed.

    We talk about past lovers and stuff but there's a fine line...don't say anything you can't take back.

    Then you care, you just know you can't handle the truth not being you and that's the difference. If you didn't care then there'd be no fucks given on your part if he listed 3 other chicks before you but you said you'd cut the pussy off.

    There is really no point once you reach a certain age, to ask your partner if you were the best.....it's just like asking how many people they've been with before you. 9 times out of 10 you're not going to get an honest answer.

    I agree asking the question after a certain point is pointless, which is why personally I've never nor would I ever ask it even though I've been asked in the past by a couple women I dated or dealt with. That still doesn't mean that for the woman I marry I don't want our sex lives to be better than anything both of us have had before. Sure it may not happen, but you still want it to happen

    It will be better regardless because she is your Wife and ya'll have a bond that you haven't had with anyone else.
    I would make love to my Husband before I fucked a dude that made me squirt a million times.

    The emotional level will of course make it better. We talking on the straight physical level of pleasure though. Think about it like this...how would you feel if you were married to a man you never made nut from head. Then find out a chick in his past before you was swallowing his seed left and right because she knew how to make him nut from head. Sure, your sex life may be better, but you mean to tell me on NO level at all would you feel like "That bitch can't do it better than me" and want to make him try and nut from head?

    My ego is just not that wrapped up to where I'm asking him those type of questions. We've been married 8 years and I've never asked him about his sex life with Women before me, I handle my business in the bedroom and I know he is sexually fulfilled.

    I'm not about to wear myself out trying to compete with chicks from his past...it's just stupid. Like I said, I think it's a male ego thing because it's not that serious to me.

    @Ms.Scorp The bold is exactly it...you handle your business because you want him to be satisfied. And all me and Du are saying that is that "want" for some extends to wanting to be the best sexual experience their s/o or spouse has. It's not a man or woman thing, it's a "I want to be the best for the person I love at everything"...and that's supposed to be normal and NOT limited to your sex life like some have been wrongly saying in this thread.
  • Ms.ScorpMs.Scorp Posts: 3,387
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    lmao @ asking that shit.

    Let's not get carried away...he says anything BUT me and he ain't getting pussy for a month.

    Lol...but didn't you say you don't care about being the best fuck he's had?

    What I don't know doesn't hurt me.

    Honestly, I don't care but damn I'm not trying to have it confirmed.

    We talk about past lovers and stuff but there's a fine line...don't say anything you can't take back.

    Then you care, you just know you can't handle the truth not being you and that's the difference. If you didn't care then there'd be no fucks given on your part if he listed 3 other chicks before you but you said you'd cut the pussy off.

    There is really no point once you reach a certain age, to ask your partner if you were the best.....it's just like asking how many people they've been with before you. 9 times out of 10 you're not going to get an honest answer.

    I agree asking the question after a certain point is pointless, which is why personally I've never nor would I ever ask it even though I've been asked in the past by a couple women I dated or dealt with. That still doesn't mean that for the woman I marry I don't want our sex lives to be better than anything both of us have had before. Sure it may not happen, but you still want it to happen

    It will be better regardless because she is your Wife and ya'll have a bond that you haven't had with anyone else.
    I would make love to my Husband before I fucked a dude that made me squirt a million times.

    The emotional level will of course make it better. We talking on the straight physical level of pleasure though. Think about it like this...how would you feel if you were married to a man you never made nut from head. Then find out a chick in his past before you was swallowing his seed left and right because she knew how to make him nut from head. Sure, your sex life may be better, but you mean to tell me on NO level at all would you feel like "That bitch can't do it better than me" and want to make him try and nut from head?

    My ego is just not that wrapped up to where I'm asking him those type of questions. We've been married 8 years and I've never asked him about his sex life with Women before me, I handle my business in the bedroom and I know he is sexually fulfilled.

    I'm not about to wear myself out trying to compete with chicks from his past...it's just stupid. Like I said, I think it's a male ego thing because it's not that serious to me.

    @Ms.Scorp The bold is exactly it...you handle your business because you want him to be satisfied. And all me and Du are saying that is that "want" for some extends to wanting to be the best sexual experience their s/o or spouse has. It's not a man or woman thing, it's a "I want to be the best for the person I love at everything"...and that's supposed to be normal and NOT limited to your sex life like some have been wrongly saying in this thread.

    But ya'll want it more for the sake of competition and that's just silly. You can't handle someone being better than you and in my opinion that's not something to concern yourself with. Marriage is about so many more things then being the best sexual partner.

    Like Kai said, unless she's only had a few other Men, you never really know if she's telling you the truth when she says your the best, so it's best not to worry about it.
  • KatKat Posts: 31,198
    So basically it's not even about pleasing HER at this point, it's about beating some unknown dude.

    smh...men and their competitive natures.
  • Ms.ScorpMs.Scorp Posts: 3,387
    So basically it's not even about pleasing HER at this point, it's about beating some unknown dude.

    smh...men and their competitive natures.

    Yeah Girl, it's a contest to beat the phantom dudes from her past :))
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