The rising counterculture of being an adult without kids.

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  • pralimspralims The real daddys second cousin of the devils neice that dates the brother of the owner of AHH. Posts: 13,999 ✭✭✭✭✭
    if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

    but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

    you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

    too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.
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  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 18,242 Regulator
    pralims wrote: »
    if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

    but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

    you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

    too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

    For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).
    fuc_i_look_likeFreeman......TheBoyRognsYoung Stefbootsy_jenkins
  • pralimspralims The real daddys second cousin of the devils neice that dates the brother of the owner of AHH. Posts: 13,999 ✭✭✭✭✭
    blackrain wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

    but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

    you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

    too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

    For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).

    im not saying force them...and i understand what you mean about not forcing people to grow up.

    but maybe thats the problem. some people dont want to grow up. it should be a few people here and there....but this shit is rampant. too many people see the fun in not being a parent and dont understand the long term effects of what they are doing.
    most dont want to see because they want to have fun, but they dont understand that you can have a family and have fun. niggas think fun stops at a certain age an they dont wanna fit into that category.

    I also know people that dont want to have kids because of what they see other people go thru...without knowing both sides of the story. but yet they still go out to fukk chicks even though they see they homie gettin they tires slashed and shit.

    while i dont fault people for not wanting kids....i just say have a good reason. i cant say whats a good reason.
    maybe you know you aint shit...ok
    but because you dont want to spend your money on someone else, so you can trick at the club...thats a problem.

    but thats just me.

    fuc_i_look_like
  • pralimspralims The real daddys second cousin of the devils neice that dates the brother of the owner of AHH. Posts: 13,999 ✭✭✭✭✭
    pralims wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

    but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

    you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

    too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

    What? Says who?

    human and animal alike are put her to evolve.

    animals learn and adapt but they learn from instinct and being taught. the elders teach them to hunt so they can survive and they they their young to hunt to survive. Humans teach our young to survive.

    why have all this knowledge and not spread it to someone you raised?
    why let someone else benefit, or why not let your bloodline benefit?

    Shit, why not have a bloodline?

    i know alot of chicks that wished they had kids...now that they are old an lonely or watching someone elses kids visit them on mothers day an shit.

    i know alot of dude that wish they were better father...but none that wish they had kids...lol

    Yea I get the whole evolution thing but Its a fact that every person on this planet wasn't put here to have children.

    You're a cot damn dummy if you force a child in todays world without having the necessary means to help them grow up. That's part of Americas problem now. No?

    i never said force them to have kids....i see where you coming from with that.

    i dont honestly think people think about what it is to raise a kid in this economy. they just dont want to dip into they personal money.

    its more about wanting to live the life they see on TV.
    Freeman......
  • pralimspralims The real daddys second cousin of the devils neice that dates the brother of the owner of AHH. Posts: 13,999 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Too many ppl claim they about that life.


    There's nothing more precious and valuable than to have sumbody love you that you love back and both of yall r in love. The only way you could ever reach a higher plateu is to have child(ren).


    Either that or you're standing next to tha God itself. But I betchu even God gets lonely and pretty bored

    unconditional love it the best....if your raising your kids right.
    Noodles McGrowciousYoung Stefmoyo
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 18,242 Regulator
    pralims wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

    but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

    you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

    too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

    For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).

    im not saying force them...and i understand what you mean about not forcing people to grow up.

    but maybe thats the problem. some people dont want to grow up. it should be a few people here and there....but this shit is rampant. too many people see the fun in not being a parent and dont understand the long term effects of what they are doing.
    most dont want to see because they want to have fun, but they dont understand that you can have a family and have fun. niggas think fun stops at a certain age an they dont wanna fit into that category.

    I also know people that dont want to have kids because of what they see other people go thru...without knowing both sides of the story. but yet they still go out to fukk chicks even though they see they homie gettin they tires slashed and shit.

    while i dont fault people for not wanting kids....i just say have a good reason. i cant say whats a good reason.
    maybe you know you aint shit...ok
    but because you dont want to spend your money on someone else, so you can trick at the club...thats a problem.

    but thats just me.

    If somebody told me they don't want kids because they'd rather spend their money tricking at the club I say good, that's the type of person that doesn't need to be responsible for another human life. Why would you want somebody with that mentality responsible for raising a person in this world? Clearly their priorities and values are fucked up and those will just get passed along to their kids most likely creating another ain't shit person in the world. Sometimes being selfish can be a good thing, and in the instance of raising a kid if someone is too selfish to care about anyone other than themselves, they're better off not having a kid and being honest with themselves and everyone else about that being the reason.
    Freeman......
  • NoCompetitionNoCompetition Posts: 2,426 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2013
    I think the economy has a big part to play. It wouldnt just be dippin into my money, it would be requiring money i dont have. But I never really wanted kids even when i was a kid. I realize some people do. Not my place to speak on them. Thats their business. Not my path. Like i see why this is growing because Im one of them.
    Wild Self
  • pralimspralims The real daddys second cousin of the devils neice that dates the brother of the owner of AHH. Posts: 13,999 ✭✭✭✭✭
    blackrain wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

    but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

    you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

    too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

    For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).

    im not saying force them...and i understand what you mean about not forcing people to grow up.

    but maybe thats the problem. some people dont want to grow up. it should be a few people here and there....but this shit is rampant. too many people see the fun in not being a parent and dont understand the long term effects of what they are doing.
    most dont want to see because they want to have fun, but they dont understand that you can have a family and have fun. niggas think fun stops at a certain age an they dont wanna fit into that category.

    I also know people that dont want to have kids because of what they see other people go thru...without knowing both sides of the story. but yet they still go out to fukk chicks even though they see they homie gettin they tires slashed and shit.

    while i dont fault people for not wanting kids....i just say have a good reason. i cant say whats a good reason.
    maybe you know you aint shit...ok
    but because you dont want to spend your money on someone else, so you can trick at the club...thats a problem.

    but thats just me.

    If somebody told me they don't want kids because they'd rather spend their money tricking at the club I say good, that's the type of person that doesn't need to be responsible for another human life. Why would you want somebody with that mentality responsible for raising a person in this world? Clearly their priorities and values are fucked up and those will just get passed along to their kids most likely creating another ain't shit person in the world. Sometimes being selfish can be a good thing, and in the instance of raising a kid if someone is too selfish to care about anyone other than themselves, they're better off not having a kid and being honest with themselves and everyone else about that being the reason.

    i think your missing my point. we agree but i just think niggas need to grow up at some point. no im not saying to have kids...selfish is a good thing at times,its just everyone wants to be selfish now because the selfish niggas make it seem fun.

    keep it real...look at reality TV
    Noodles McGrowcious
  • pralimspralims The real daddys second cousin of the devils neice that dates the brother of the owner of AHH. Posts: 13,999 ✭✭✭✭✭
    pralims wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

    but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

    you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

    too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

    What? Says who?

    human and animal alike are put her to evolve.

    animals learn and adapt but they learn from instinct and being taught. the elders teach them to hunt so they can survive and they they their young to hunt to survive. Humans teach our young to survive.

    why have all this knowledge and not spread it to someone you raised?
    why let someone else benefit, or why not let your bloodline benefit?

    Shit, why not have a bloodline?

    i know alot of chicks that wished they had kids...now that they are old an lonely or watching someone elses kids visit them on mothers day an shit.

    i know alot of dude that wish they were better father...but none that wish they had kids...lol
    Fuck outta here bruh.

    Not all members of a species reproduce; they weren't "put here" to do anything.

    i hear what you saying....i do.

    but lets keep it real, niggas say all that then as soon as they get with a fine ass chick what they trying to do to keep them around?

    impregnate them. they dont care about money an shit then. they have kids off the looks of the chick.

    take a nice stroll over to illpix and see how many niggas always say the would go in chicks raw and the chick would have their child just because of the way the chick looks.

    i know its the internets and all an niggas talk shit in posts but it helps my point

    not saying you said it, but im just saying
    Noodles McGrowciousNoCanadiansEH?Wild SelfYoung StefMister B.
  • taebootaeboo Posts: 4,218 ✭✭✭✭✭
    pralims wrote: »
    the economy has nothing to do with your child really.

    because when you think about it...

    the more money you have the more you will want.
    the less you have the less you will be able to purchase.

    you are never really financially ready to have kids.

    if you was a millionaire you will spend a shit load of money to send you kids to private school, fly nannies with you on vacations and shit.

    if you dont have the money and you had kids, you'd work your job and bring your ass home to cook dinner. if you living in the projects you should not want you child to wear gucci.

    too many people get raising your child and giving them the best confused with expensive clothes and sneakers and big screen tvs.

    giving them the best is about you giving them your best. period

    Beat me to it. Kids don't think about all that extra stuff until we teach them what to value. I'm all for wanting to give your kid the world, but they don't need all those extras....
    Skyler WhiteLEMZWYN_LANISTER
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