Half on the bills or It's all on him....

BackInWhiteBackInWhite Posts: 23,591 ✭✭✭✭✭
You in a committed relationship
Y'all decide to move in together
Y'all goin Dutch on the bills or should the man take care of all that?
Men, women, wassup?
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  • BackInWhiteBackInWhite Posts: 23,591 ✭✭✭✭✭
    What if she got a job too?
    You gon make her quit?
  • DupacDupac Retired PurgatoryPosts: 67,775 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2016
    Best way to keep a woman happy is to make sure she feels needed....

    As long as she feels her contribution to the house hold bills are absolutely essential, her self worth will soar...

    The quickest way to make her feel like you don't need her is to set it up to where her money isn't needed,

    A woman is much more likely to seek outside the relationship when she feels unneeded
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  • caddo mancaddo man Failure is success in progress! Posts: 21,071 ✭✭✭✭✭
    You in a committed relationship
    Y'all decide to move in together
    Y'all goin Dutch on the bills or should the man take care of all that?
    Men, women, wassup?

    Never move in with a chick until she has on that ring. So many mfer in some BS because of this. Cant kick the bitch out because you stuck with the bills or you dont feel like going thru the moving process.

    Then you still have people that are married and going Dutch with two separate accts. WE are married. Bills get paid first with both of our money. You need to learn some restraint if I cant trust you with money.
    topoftheworldgoldenja
  • Negro_CaesarNegro_Caesar Fuck Bitches Get Money Posts: 5,940 ✭✭✭✭✭
  • Rubato GarciaRubato Garcia Posts: 4,758 ✭✭✭✭✭
    We split rent but I pay all the utilities, etc...
    MsSouthern
  • caddo mancaddo man Failure is success in progress! Posts: 21,071 ✭✭✭✭✭
    How many of you all are shacking up (not married)?

    The reason I ask is, have you ever wanted to break up but knew it would be a burden financially?
    deadeyemiamivice305Valentinez A. Kaiserdamnkp
  • MissKMissK #Lurkerlivesmatter FuckyouIcontribute Behind a DeskPosts: 4,101 ✭✭✭✭✭
    @AP21

    Been there done that, left me still reeling from it as far as having a man control the wallet. So he can have an account, I can have one and then one for household expenses. It doesn't have to be totally 50/50...as long as the basics are paid
    AP21Ajackson17MsSoutherndeadeye
  • MsSouthernMsSouthern Oh la laaaa Posts: 20,362 Regulator
    35/65 Split At The Nawledge Palace.....Yup I Ain't Shit


    Cosign
  • caddo mancaddo man Failure is success in progress! Posts: 21,071 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Damn yall separate your money though?
  • D.D.S.D.D.S. Posts: 6,899 ✭✭✭✭✭
    u already know, dutch b

    tired of them memes and fugazi facebook niggas talm bout only men pay all the bills

    its rough out here!

    EXACTLY. Splitting the bills doesn't make you less of a man. This topic STAYS coming up on Twitter, too lol smh
  • MARIO_DROMARIO_DRO Posts: 14,253 ✭✭✭✭✭
    caddo man wrote: »
    Damn yall separate your money though?

    WE DO... WE NEED TO COMBINE... BUT I DONT KNOW HOW THATS GONE WORK, CAUSE I MIGHT OVER SPEND FR...
  • yellowtapesportyellowtapesport Posts: 4,304 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I would actually volunteer to pay all the bills.

    It's a strategy that has served me well in the past. Let me explain. When you pay all the bills, you not only "pay the cost to be the boss", you get at a minimum 3-4 fuck ups (ie. cheat passes) when you get sloppy with your game.

    Plus you get a clean crib, home-cooked meals, sloppy toppy when playing PS4 (bitch ain't doing nothing else) and you get to have a legitimate excuse for being "gone all the time" (bitch I'm at work.....Cause I'm the only one WORKING).

    Plus her friends constantly tell her "girl, you got a good man." In my opinion, the upsides, far outweigh the downsides.

    This....but
    DWO wrote: »
    Best way to keep a woman happy is to make sure she feels needed....

    As long as she feels her contribution to the house hold bills are absolutely essential, her self worth will soar...

    The quickest way to make her feel like you don't need her is to set it up to where her money isn't needed,

    A woman is much more likely to seek outside the relationship when she feels unneeded

    THIS makes more sense the older and more experienced i get
    felliwondatupacfan12
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