For all my people here that DON'T have children.

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  • SimplyKrysSimplyKrys Posts: 474 ✭✭✭✭
    Kat wrote: »
    Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

    Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

    It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.
    deadeye
  • KatKat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownPosts: 48,008 ✭✭✭✭✭
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

    Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

    It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.

    Your whole life could pass waiting for the perfect time to have a kid, but I agree that you should feel somewhat ready.
    2stepz_aheadblakfyahkinggnsblackrain
  • TrillfateTrillfate "i used to like the Ride more now i like the Race...i used like the Prize more now i like the Chase" Posts: 20,354 ✭✭✭✭✭
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    Trillfate wrote: »
    Society tells u you're supposed to have kids by a certain age but parenthood ain't for everyone

    For real though, I have seen some shitty parents in my day.

    I got turned off by watching jerry and maury in the late 90s...
    deadeyeAjackson17
  • SimplyKrysSimplyKrys Posts: 474 ✭✭✭✭
    Kat wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

    Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

    It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.

    Your whole life could pass waiting for the perfect time to have a kid, but I agree that you should feel somewhat ready.

    My boss was actually telling me there is really no perfect time. If you don't mind me asking, how did you feel when you first found out your little one was coming?
    deadeye
  • NoCompetitionNoCompetition Posts: 3,356 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 21
    This question is for the ones without kids right? If you have em your in another boat. The reasons for not having them, in addition to the world being crazy, and the fact everybody aint trying to take on that job are all valid to the individual.
    Doesnt really bother me at all. In fact its not something I usually think of. I got this and that and trying to stretch a dollar and do this and that. When I think of all the stuff I have to do and money I need and whatnot Im thankful for not having kids thats pretty much it.
    I'll say I love not having kids. the opposite is like, no. Thats just me though. Its a relief and freeing realization.
    BOSSExcellence
  • KatKat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownPosts: 48,008 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Stop catching feelings Stewart. You know if it applies to you or not.
    StewTrillfateMax.BOSSExcellenceAlpha_Ambition texas409deadeyeFigogibor
  • KairoKairo Posts: 685 ✭✭✭✭
    edited March 21
    28 with no kids. I had it in my head when I was in my ealry 20s that 30 would be the age i'd be more willing to/prepared to have kids. I turn 29 in May and unless something radical changes in my life theres no way i'd be in the right place financially, mentally or lifestyle wise to even consider having children. Part of that is attributed to not accomplishing as much at this age as I'd have liked. I don't just mean money/career wise, I love to travel and have done a lot in my life but it just feels like i'm not there yet.

    Hell, ive passed on some great women that have kids out of fear of getting locked down. That and i'm selfish as hell with my time/attention. I love my nieces and nephews I just don't feel like havings kids around all the time.

    I'm looking at 35 as the age i'll think about it again lol.
    deadeye
  • 32DaysOfInfiniti32DaysOfInfiniti Posts: 4,022 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Its not time for them yet, i cant say im happy about it though, it was pretty intentional... Every bitch i ever nutted in I spent that 50 for the Plan B the next morning or that night.

    deadeyeLurkristocrat
  • mrtdbmrtdb Posts: 1,892 ✭✭✭✭✭
    21...so heeeeellllllllllllll yeah
  • BetaBeta Kodi Gang Posts: 53,903 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Beta wrote: »
    I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.

    Niggas kill me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"

    First off, You wasnt going anyways

    Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault

    Foh I'm talking to my brother and he tells me every time he travels it's at least 10 gs cuz it's him, his wife and my nephew....and they travel at least 3 times a yr....I aint ready for that type of output

    The kid ain't stop him from traveling though. Niggas like STEW think those trips to morrocco that he been planning just gonna stop lol
    HundredEyes
  • jonojono Right fist = power, left fist = unity Posts: 28,309 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I don't have any, I'll be 33 in 2-3 weeks. I didn't want any until we had a scare last year. I was good on not being a daddy but now...I'm in the middle about it.

    I'm not stable, and I still got realistic dreams to pursue. I want to give my child(ren) a head start.
  • blakfyahkingblakfyahking The IC's Resident Father Figure Posts: 15,329 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Kat wrote: »
    Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

    Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

    agreed at the bolded

    mofos yelling bout their freedom yet they busy living mediocre lives on purpose haha

    I'm just happy whenever people don't have have kids they truly don't want.......it's a sad thing to see an unwanted/unloved child who didn't ask to be here
    ChiCitydeadeyerip.dilla
  • Bulletproof WalletsBulletproof Wallets Posts: 1,333 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I dont need children to give me purpose or a new outlook on life.
    Shuffingtonfuc_i_look_likehuey
  • StewStew Rap Music Is My Religion We run this spot like a Chinese sweatshopPosts: 47,394 Regulator
    edited March 21
    Beta wrote: »
    Beta wrote: »
    I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.

    Niggas kill me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"

    First off, You wasnt going anyways

    Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault

    Foh I'm talking to my brother and he tells me every time he travels it's at least 10 gs cuz it's him, his wife and my nephew....and they travel at least 3 times a yr....I aint ready for that type of output

    The kid ain't stop him from traveling though. Niggas like STEW think those trips to morrocco that he been planning just gonna stop lol

    And how do you know this again? Or u just taking a wild guess at what my life would turn into.
  • Like WaterLike Water Integrity 1st Posts: 4,507 ✭✭✭✭✭
    FWIW, there is no "perfect time" to have kids. There are just times when you're more prepared to handle the responsibility.
    leftcoastkevrip.dilla
  • ChiCityChiCity Darth Citious Posts: 26,169 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Lotta weak ass sperms and eggs in the building today I see
    TrillfategiborUndefeatable
  • KatKat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownPosts: 48,008 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Copper wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

    Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

    *Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*

    I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.

    I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
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