Was this child Abuse?

ShuffingtonShuffington Posts: 3,631 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited July 17 in For The Grown & Sexy
Story:

I walk into my favorite Mexican food restaurant an I'm waiting in line. A little ahead of me
was a lady, The grandma I guess, sitting on the side with her 5 grand Children, and the mother of all those kids.

All the kids had to be no more than 7 yrs old at the most.
One kid had to be about 4 or 5 was crying and the grandma was like... out of nowhere....

" SHUT THE F*CK UP!! HEY HEY..SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!. IF I SEE ONE MORE TEAR IMA WHOOP YO ASS, SO SHUT THE F*CK UP."


meanwhile every single person in this tiny Mexican food establishment was like
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they finally grabbed their order and one of the kids was like.. " I wanna sit here!"
and the Grandma was like .... "YOU SHUT THE F*CK UP!!!... YOU"RE GONNA SIT WHERE I TELL YOU TO SIT!!!"

meanwhile the kid is like
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What y'all think.... child abuse? cause I imagine at home it has to be worse.

Was this child Abuse? 20 votes

Yes
30%
babelipsssmryounggunWill MunnyTrillfateonetoughmiracleJoshuaMoshua  6 votes
Not at all
70%
twenty2Cincobambusoul rattlerdnyce215BOSSExcellencegdatruth2.0HafBaykedCashmoneyDuxBlack_SamsonSuperSoakerKingFreeman808HiLife808Madame_CJSkywalker 14 votes
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  • 7figz7figz Still don’t nothing move but the money Posts: 14,534 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited July 17
    Of course not, they were obviously playing a good old game of STFU.

    Seriously tho, we talmbout "grandma" here and if the mother was there and ain't say shit, then fuck it.
    808HiLife808ChiCitydwade206
  • gdatruth2.0gdatruth2.0 Posts: 3,002 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Not at all
    not child abuse but i never understood parents who talked to their kids like strangers they would fight in the street.

    my parents never cursed around me and i never curse at my kids
    twenty2ChiCity
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 28,212 ✭✭✭✭✭
    we have to understand who they are and their background.

    she could have been having a bad day, or outta control herself and most will take it out on those the see as weaker or in control of.

    verbal abuse?......we can make a case for it....but when we say abuse, it has to mean the same across the board.

    i have heard white people be more verbally abusive to their wife and kids than any black person i ever heard.
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


  • ShuffingtonShuffington Posts: 3,631 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 28,212 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/

    i never insinuated......

    but yo azz iz hood..keep it 100
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


  • Rozetta5toneRozetta5tone Don't quote me bro Right herePosts: 4,259 ✭✭✭✭✭
    There's a way to chastise a child in public without being verbally abusive. Grandma needs some classes. Kids act out and when they get treated with little or no respect they project that shit onto others.

    There's house discipline and public discipline. Granny used house discipline




    onetoughmiracletwenty2JoshuaMoshua
  • 7figz7figz Still don’t nothing move but the money Posts: 14,534 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited July 17
    Sometimes shit ain't the way you would do it, but it's not to the point of it being your business.

    The other day I'm driving past a day care in the parking lot. I see a white lady and her little girl (couldn't be older than 4) coming out of the day care so I stopped the car for them to walk across. The little girl ran, like little kids do, but she stopped herself before entering the street.

    Even though I had already stopped, and the little girl didn't enter the street - the fat white bitch of a mom waited until the girl walked back to her and yanked her up by the arm to the point where it looked like it hurt the little girl's arm - all hyper-extended n' shit.

    I'm looking at this dumb bitch like is all that necessary ? But that's her business. If she would've did any more of that, I might've decided to check her ass. In general, I mind my business tho.
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 28,212 ✭✭✭✭✭
    There's a way to chastise a child in public without being verbally abusive. Grandma needs some classes. Kids act out and when they get treated with little or no respect they project that shit onto others.

    There's house discipline and public discipline. Granny used house discipline

    man...kids aint stupid.

    thats why they try to act up outside the house cuz they know you trynna look good.

    these kids dont know what to think....they just scared and confused...an dont want the attention...lol
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


    twenty2
  • ShuffingtonShuffington Posts: 3,631 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited July 17
    I imagine being told "SHUT THE F*CK UP" from time to time has to be little debilitating to the psyche... no?

    She was talking to them kids like some N*ggas on the corner she was ready to bang on.
    and she was loud as all hell to.

    She even called everyone out in the restaurant on some " I DONT GIVE A F*CK ABOUT ANYBODY IN THIS ESTABLISHMENT... I WILL WHOOP THAT ASS IF I SEE ONE MORE TEAR!!!!"


    thats when all the grownups in the restaurant looked at the each other on some "Welp! sorry kids... y'all on ya own"

    gdatruth2.0JoshuaMoshua  deadeye
  • ShuffingtonShuffington Posts: 3,631 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited July 17
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/

    i never insinuated......

    but yo azz iz hood..keep it 100


    Nah... you definitely insinuated
    Im hood adjacent .... lol
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 28,212 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/

    i never insinuated......

    but yo azz iz hood..keep it 100


    Nah... you definitely insinuated
    Im hood adjacent .... lol

    how did i imply she was black?

    i just stated how i see white people act out more than black people ever did....so was that insinuating white or black or is that what you took from it.

    i got a few more minutes......

    you wanna fight nigga?
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


    deadeye
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 28,212 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I imagine being told "SHUT THE F*CK UP" from time to time has to be little debilitating to the psyche... no?

    She was talking to them kids like some N*ggas on the corner she was ready to bang on.
    and she was loud as all hell to.

    She even called everyone out in the restaurant on some " I DONT GIVE A F*CK ABOUT ANYBODY IN THIS ESTABLISHMENT... I WILL WHOOP THAT ASS IF I SEE ONE MORE TEAR!!!!"


    thats when all the grownups in the restaurant looked at the each other on some "Welp! sorry kids... y'all on ya own"

    but she was forward thinking....

    she stopped fukkery before it began.

    she gets some points
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


    7figz
  • ShuffingtonShuffington Posts: 3,631 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/

    i never insinuated......

    but yo azz iz hood..keep it 100


    Nah... you definitely insinuated
    Im hood adjacent .... lol

    how did i imply she was black?

    Right here:
    "i have heard white people be more verbally abusive to their wife and kids than any black person i ever heard."

    Why is this comparison you're making necessary exactly.
    Do you forget what you type?


    onetoughmiracle
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 28,212 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/

    i never insinuated......

    but yo azz iz hood..keep it 100


    Nah... you definitely insinuated
    Im hood adjacent .... lol

    how did i imply she was black?

    Right here:
    "i have heard white people be more verbally abusive to their wife and kids than any black person i ever heard."

    Why is this comparison you're making necessary exactly.
    Do you forget what you type?


    that assuming i made the implication that they were black first?

    this is a statement implying the ferocity can be causian owned. thus saying...they cant be black cuz them cacs crazier
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


  • ShuffingtonShuffington Posts: 3,631 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/

    i never insinuated......

    but yo azz iz hood..keep it 100


    Nah... you definitely insinuated
    Im hood adjacent .... lol

    how did i imply she was black?

    Right here:
    "i have heard white people be more verbally abusive to their wife and kids than any black person i ever heard."

    Why is this comparison you're making necessary exactly.
    Do you forget what you type?


    that assuming i made the implication that they were black first?

    this is a statement implying the ferocity can be causian owned. thus saying...they cant be black cuz them cacs crazier

    Thats some great spin man... i applaud you.
    Im let you ride off on that one tho cause my rebuttal stamina aint as high as some on here.
    2stepz_aheaddnyce215
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 28,212 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never stated the grandmas racial make up.
    but yeah she was black ... lol .. :-/

    i never insinuated......

    but yo azz iz hood..keep it 100


    Nah... you definitely insinuated
    Im hood adjacent .... lol

    how did i imply she was black?

    Right here:
    "i have heard white people be more verbally abusive to their wife and kids than any black person i ever heard."

    Why is this comparison you're making necessary exactly.
    Do you forget what you type?


    that assuming i made the implication that they were black first?

    this is a statement implying the ferocity can be causian owned. thus saying...they cant be black cuz them cacs crazier

    Thats some great spin man... i applaud you.
    Im let you ride off on that one tho cause my rebuttal stamina aint as high as some on here.

    thank you sir.
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


  • ShizlanskyShizlansky Posts: 33,362 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Soft muthafuckas in here
    (Really though?)
  • babelipsssbabelipsss Posts: 2,187 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Yes
    I never use profanity. Words to a child can feel like a fist. You get them used to public humiliation to the point they think it's normal. Brainwash them to the point where 10 to 20 years later they will turn around and thank you for the privilege and make sure pass it on to their kids.
    BOSSExcellence
  • Trollio Trollio Trollololololololololol Posts: 24,929 ✭✭✭✭✭
    So u got punked by the cleaning lady
    The Hacker. Top Cat. Tex. Wishbone Jones. George Costanza.
    HafBayked
  • semi-auto-matosemi-auto-mato Posts: 2,637 ✭✭✭✭✭
    this is not abuse. every black kid knows that when u are out in public u better not embarrass your peoples. mine didn't curse but her favorite threat...Boy I will beat the black off you! and if someone had anything to say she let them know she had no problems beating them too.
    R.I.P. to my Pops. Sunset 5/2/2017

    2stepz_aheadtwenty2AggieLean.dnyce215
  • konceptjoneskonceptjones Old School Playa Posts: 11,944 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Meh, I grew up in the 70's. Back then it was common to see Granny, Grandma, Grandmother, Ma-Maw, and Abuelita verbally chastise and whoop a kids ass in public and no one batted an eyelash.
    i'm not sure which entity leaves people more abused and lost; the Porn Industry or Bad Boy Records.
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