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Asking for a friend

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  • DupacDupac Retired PurgatoryPosts: 68,307 ✭✭✭✭✭
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    Hey guys,

    What would you do if a friend of yours hit you up about an internet stalker who wouldn't leave her alone??

    How would you guys handle that??

    Asking for a friend btw


    Lol



    First, let's determine whether or not actual......."stalking"..........is taking place.



    In order to determine that, we need to find out what this............"friend's"............"alleged stalker"................is actually doing.



    Basically, just because this friend is annoyed ..........it doesn't mean that they're being "stalked."



    So please, give us more details so that we can determine whether or not these are legitimate concerns.

    Very valid points.....


    In a total hypothetical...

    What would constitute "stalking"??

    Like if the chick is bothered.....tells dude multiple times to cease communication....yet he still dropping paragraph after paragraph explaining himself and professing his love....

    What would that be considered...?



    It depends on the type of communication.



    Meaning, is it taking place in public in full view of the board............or is it taking place in private in the form of pm's, dm's, text messages, voicemail, etc?



    If it's simply a message board thing, then.....like @AZTG said........they just need to block the person and keep it moving.




    However, if the person is making direct contact.........unless they're threatening to harm them in any way..........I'm not sure if that constitutes stalking.



    At least in terms of dm's, pm's, texts, etc.



    Now, if this person is making direct physical contact by showing up at their workplace or place of residence..........then they may have legal grounds to file a restraining order or some other legal action.



    Were these 2 people ever in any kind of a relationship?

    Naw just a simp situation that got way too deep. Chick tried to explain to dude they not really friends and to leave her alone.

    But the dude can't handle the rejection.

    He keeps trying to figure out where he went wrong and profess his love towards her..yet she just wants him to leave her alone....

    I mean...If I had to make up something....This would be a close enough scenario. .

    My advice would be to block dude on all media and keep the screenshots on deck just in case he persists....

    I would even suggest sending those screenshots to several folk just in case....

    I mean....If this was a real life situation.





    I appreciate your feed back...This has been most helpful



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    If these two people are on the IC, I think I know who you're talking about.



    Not gonna put him on blast, but it seems as if this individual has a pattern.

    I have no idea of what which you speak...

    Care to enlighten us ?????

    deadeyemiamivice305
  • BetaBeta #FastFamily Posts: 64,696 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Lol I know who this about..
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    DupacAZTGdeadeyeJoshuaMoshua
  • Elzo69RenaissanceElzo69Renaissance Never selling dreams, always serving cream SeattlePosts: 50,196 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Dupac wrote: »
    Don't make this a thing you guys. This totally had nothing to do with exactly who you all think this about.

    I'm fairly certain that the complete vagueness and ambiguity of my hypothetical situation has absolutely no similarities to anything that's ever happened on this board.

    Then who is this about fam....if we don't know the person then it dont matter does it....name names
    As I look back over a misspent life, I find myself more and more convinced that I had more fun posting on the IC than in any other enterprise. It is really the life of kings.

    JoshuaMoshua  Stew
  • deadeyedeadeye Walmart Warrior Kat's buttPosts: 22,632 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 9
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    Hey guys,

    What would you do if a friend of yours hit you up about an internet stalker who wouldn't leave her alone??

    How would you guys handle that??

    Asking for a friend btw


    Lol



    First, let's determine whether or not actual......."stalking"..........is taking place.



    In order to determine that, we need to find out what this............"friend's"............"alleged stalker"................is actually doing.



    Basically, just because this friend is annoyed ..........it doesn't mean that they're being "stalked."



    So please, give us more details so that we can determine whether or not these are legitimate concerns.

    Very valid points.....


    In a total hypothetical...

    What would constitute "stalking"??

    Like if the chick is bothered.....tells dude multiple times to cease communication....yet he still dropping paragraph after paragraph explaining himself and professing his love....

    What would that be considered...?



    It depends on the type of communication.



    Meaning, is it taking place in public in full view of the board............or is it taking place in private in the form of pm's, dm's, text messages, voicemail, etc?



    If it's simply a message board thing, then.....like @AZTG said........they just need to block the person and keep it moving.




    However, if the person is making direct contact.........unless they're threatening to harm them in any way..........I'm not sure if that constitutes stalking.



    At least in terms of dm's, pm's, texts, etc.



    Now, if this person is making direct physical contact by showing up at their workplace or place of residence..........then they may have legal grounds to file a restraining order or some other legal action.



    Were these 2 people ever in any kind of a relationship?

    Naw just a simp situation that got way too deep. Chick tried to explain to dude they not really friends and to leave her alone.

    But the dude can't handle the rejection.

    He keeps trying to figure out where he went wrong and profess his love towards her..yet she just wants him to leave her alone....

    I mean...If I had to make up something....This would be a close enough scenario. .

    My advice would be to block dude on all media and keep the screenshots on deck just in case he persists....

    I would even suggest sending those screenshots to several folk just in case....

    I mean....If this was a real life situation.





    I appreciate your feed back...This has been most helpful



    110zrd961rs9.gif



    If these two people are on the IC, I think I know who you're talking about.



    Not gonna put him on blast, but it seems as if this individual has a pattern.

    I have no idea of what which you speak...

    Care to enlighten us ?????


    Nah, I did that before.........and hilarity ensued.



    Plus, I'm cool with this individual now.........and he seems like a good dude, so I'm gonna leave it alone.



    I will say this though.



    If it was a simping situation, and the young lady in question was benefiting financially from this simping.........then it's not right to cry foul just because things aren't going your way and the situation became inconvenient.



    I honestly saw this shit coming when it first manifested and couldn't understand how this young lady would entertain this gentleman considering his history.



    However, as time went on.........it seemed to be a genuine friendship so I thought I may have been wrong about the situation.



    Not my business either way, so.........if she doesn't have a problem with it.......who am I to judge.



    But again, you can't just be cool with someone........cut them off out of the blue.......and then not expect that person to question what happened.



    Unless he did something that crossed the line, it's not cool to treat people like that.
    deadeye
    So, you're mad because I quoted a post.....that included a scantily clad pic of you......that you sent to another man.....while both of you are supposed to be in committed relationships with other people?

    Hilarious.
    June 12 Delete


    MsSouthern
    just messy ...smh
    June 12



    deadeye
    You can call me messy, but you can't say I was lying about anything I said.
    June 12 Delete


    MzGrahamBitches
    gtfoff my page and mind your fucking business old man.


    Oh wait, you have no business which is why you stalk various females on the internet tryibg to interject yourself into their business.

    Fuck off.
    June 12


    deadeye
    Most of your business is public knowledge Kathryn.

    You should learn to exercise more discretion.

    You're too old to continuously find yourself in compromising situations.

    I'm extremely disappointed in your behavior and expect much better of you in the future.

    With compassion, concern, sincerity, and due diligence.
    June 12 Delete

    MzGrahamBitches
    I hope you die of old age tonight.
    June 12

    deadeye
    That's a horrible thing to say.

    I'm sorry you feel that way Kathryn.

    However, I've never heard of anyone dying of old age at 43.

    My words must've really hit home for you to want me to die tonight.

    I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings.

    Instead of wishing me death, your time would be better served reflecting on your past transgressions and thinking about what steps you can take to improve yourself.
    June 12 Delete


    Dirty Sanchez
    kat caught feelings
    June 12

    deadeye
    Indeed she did.

    Definitely not your usual white woman.
    June 12 Delete

    MzGrahamBitches
    Titanagraphs but I caught feelings..ok.

    Type me another one pops.
    June 12


    deadeye
    You wished death upon me Kathryn.

    Solely because I quoted a post which featured you in a bathrobe with your privates partially exposed.

    A pic that would have never been publicly accessible had it not been for your carelessness and bad judgement.

    Essentially, you want me to die for your mistakes.

    Smarten up Kathryn.

    If anyone caught feelings it's you.

    This is just entertainment for me.
    June 12 Delete




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    @deadeye nah mate, fuck off, I literally hate seeing your name in my notifications because I know it's your FUCKING LIST. I'm tired of being @'d to some thread because of your shitty list, makes me just want to punch you in your fat fucking face.

    You're a digrace to creepset and 'mature' black men the world over.

    Fuck your entire existence.


    You are a plain idiot. Since you cannot give birth nor have a proper sense of enduring and suffering you cannot understand my post.

    @Westie has put her life on the line several times to give life. I wish I had an ounce of that courage, endurance and resiliance.

    Peace
    DupacCashmoneyDuxAjackson17
  • DupacDupac Retired PurgatoryPosts: 68,307 ✭✭✭✭✭
  • BetaBeta #FastFamily Posts: 64,696 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Beta wrote: »
    Lol I know who this about..

    Really my nigga? You gonna pull this after you been begging to know when ic doomsday was coming......

    full

    Lol well only out of respect. I feel like it's not my place to do that


    #maturebeta
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    giphy.gif


    JoshuaMoshua  Cain
  • DupacDupac Retired PurgatoryPosts: 68,307 ✭✭✭✭✭
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    deadeye wrote: »
    Dupac wrote: »
    Hey guys,

    What would you do if a friend of yours hit you up about an internet stalker who wouldn't leave her alone??

    How would you guys handle that??

    Asking for a friend btw


    Lol



    First, let's determine whether or not actual......."stalking"..........is taking place.



    In order to determine that, we need to find out what this............"friend's"............"alleged stalker"................is actually doing.



    Basically, just because this friend is annoyed ..........it doesn't mean that they're being "stalked."



    So please, give us more details so that we can determine whether or not these are legitimate concerns.

    Very valid points.....


    In a total hypothetical...

    What would constitute "stalking"??

    Like if the chick is bothered.....tells dude multiple times to cease communication....yet he still dropping paragraph after paragraph explaining himself and professing his love....

    What would that be considered...?



    It depends on the type of communication.



    Meaning, is it taking place in public in full view of the board............or is it taking place in private in the form of pm's, dm's, text messages, voicemail, etc?



    If it's simply a message board thing, then.....like @AZTG said........they just need to block the person and keep it moving.




    However, if the person is making direct contact.........unless they're threatening to harm them in any way..........I'm not sure if that constitutes stalking.



    At least in terms of dm's, pm's, texts, etc.



    Now, if this person is making direct physical contact by showing up at their workplace or place of residence..........then they may have legal grounds to file a restraining order or some other legal action.



    Were these 2 people ever in any kind of a relationship?

    Naw just a simp situation that got way too deep. Chick tried to explain to dude they not really friends and to leave her alone.

    But the dude can't handle the rejection.

    He keeps trying to figure out where he went wrong and profess his love towards her..yet she just wants him to leave her alone....

    I mean...If I had to make up something....This would be a close enough scenario. .

    My advice would be to block dude on all media and keep the screenshots on deck just in case he persists....

    I would even suggest sending those screenshots to several folk just in case....

    I mean....If this was a real life situation.





    I appreciate your feed back...This has been most helpful



    110zrd961rs9.gif



    If these two people are on the IC, I think I know who you're talking about.



    Not gonna put him on blast, but it seems as if this individual has a pattern.

    I have no idea of what which you speak...

    Care to enlighten us ?????


    Nah, I did that before.........and hilarity ensued.



    Plus, I'm cool with this individual now.........and he seems like a good dude, so I'm gonna leave it alone.



    I will say this though.



    If it was a simping situation, and the young lady in question was benefiting financially from this simping.........then it's not right to cry foul just because things aren't going your way and the situation became inconvenient.



    I honestly saw this shit coming when it first manifested and couldn't understand how this young lady would entertain this gentleman considering his history.



    However, as time went on.........it seemed to be a genuine friendship so I thought I may have been wrong about the situation.



    Not my business either way, so.........if she doesn't have a problem with it.......who am I to judge.



    But again, you can't just be cool with someone........cut them off out of the blue.......and then not expect that person to question what happened.



    Unless he did something that crossed the line, it's not cool to treat people like that.

    All extremely valid points that I also would point out if asked about certain situation.

    However my advice tends to be a bit more abrasive, considering the history of assumed individual.

    Like the way your described it almost made it sound habitual....Like a sickness.....

    But that's just speculation.....

    This is amazing insight though.....any further you'd like to add.

    Call me crazy, but I feel like you dropping some gems.to those in need of it

    deadeyemiamivice305
  • DupacDupac Retired PurgatoryPosts: 68,307 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 9
    Does this friend realize Du isn't a mod anymore?

    Considering I'm now free to start shit whenever I please, with absolutely no representation of or protected interest of the board/site in consideration what so ever


    Stew
  • Idiopathic JokerIdiopathic Joker PISTOL GRIP PUMP IN MY LAP AT ALL TIMES Working On My LowriderPosts: 45,113 Regulator
    Dupac wrote: »
    Does this friend realize Du isn't a mod anymore?

    Considering I'm now free to start shit whenever I please, with absolutely no representation of or protected interest of the board/site in consideration what so ever

    I see ya
    Fuck you, I'm a mod
    Beta
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