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The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands (Article inside)

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  • BroddieBroddie just me and my bitch NYCPosts: 11,630 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Broddie wrote: »
    If you don't know how to keep her guessing even after living with her then don't marry her. Not that hard. All women want is spontaneity and someone they can't walk over.

    Stop spoiling and make em work after marriage. Give em something to do and think about. They just don't want boredom and monotony. Just like us (men). Live dammit. Especially if married.

    i will say the opposite to this.....for the most part i spoil the shit outta my wife. so that aint the problem...the problem is since she knows what i will do for a chick i love...would she be willing to allow another woman to have that.

    but living....yes......

    Dog that's my point. You have to leave the possibility of that thought even entering their mind. Most people only do what's right when they feel that their position is threatened. Human nature.

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  • Ajackson17Ajackson17 On the shoulders of Giants and Elders in history UniversePosts: 22,490 ✭✭✭✭✭


    Massa done tricked you good.



    SMH.

    Didnt read but the last sentence caught my eye.

    The irony of a religious zealot telling somebody else massa tricked them

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    I know right lmao. The irony in his comments.
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  • blackgod813blackgod813 Posts: 9,558 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Bibical atheist didnt even read the article
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  • LEMZIMUS_RAMSEYLEMZIMUS_RAMSEY SHAPE YOUR REALITY INSIDE WHICH YOU THRIVE Posts: 17,663 ✭✭✭✭✭
    So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

    I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

    That's interesting af to me.

    Wow... joli... well said
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  • LEMZIMUS_RAMSEYLEMZIMUS_RAMSEY SHAPE YOUR REALITY INSIDE WHICH YOU THRIVE Posts: 17,663 ✭✭✭✭✭
    So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

    I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

    That's interesting af to me.

    we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.

    case an point.

    i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.

    now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.

    the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.

    look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.

    how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.

    Excellent bruh
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  • KatKat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownPosts: 50,636 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If you dont get the fuck off me, you sound moronic.

    I'd hand my daughter over to Nelly before your sexually deviant ass.

    Love how we condemn others without the facts but it's so simple for us to justify our own questionable behavior..foh Frenchie.
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  • BroddieBroddie just me and my bitch NYCPosts: 11,630 ✭✭✭✭✭
    So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

    I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

    That's interesting af to me.

    we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.

    case an point.

    i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.

    now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.

    the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.

    look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.

    how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.

    Why you always wana fight me tho? Lol

    Lemme rephrase what I said...and ima keep it brief cuz I ain't got time right now...
    Men and women don't need each other in the sense that we don't need to settle.

    Right now we got time to figure out what we want in life before entering these life long commitments like marriage and kids...and see if we even want em at all. People are getting married and having kids later in life (late 20s-30s) as opposed to earlier.

    There's no disagreement about the family being the bedrock of society. But don't put the cart before the horse. I need to be responsible to myself before I can be responsible for a family. And the maturity to choose a partner worthy of my time and energy to build with goes with that responsibility.

    100% especially the bold.

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  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 32,231 ✭✭✭✭✭
    So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

    I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

    That's interesting af to me.

    we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.

    case an point.

    i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.

    now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.

    the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.

    look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.

    how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.

    Why you always wana fight me tho? Lol

    Lemme rephrase what I said...and ima keep it brief cuz I ain't got time right now...
    Men and women don't need each other in the sense that we don't need to settle.

    Right now we got time to figure out what we want in life before entering these life long commitments like marriage and kids...and see if we even want em at all. People are getting married and having kids later in life (late 20s-30s) as opposed to earlier.

    There's no disagreement about the family being the bedrock of society. But don't put the cart before the horse. I need to be responsible to myself before I can be responsible for a family. And the maturity to choose a partner worthy of my time and energy to build with goes with that responsibility.

    i fight with you cause you can take it and give it back.
    lol

    nah....you cool people an i like your point of view on things.

    but most people dont know who they are even when they get old or older.

    simply cuz they are too busy trying to be liked and follow the latest fad.

    most cant be responsible cause they want what the jones have. but if peter can give it to her then she thinks she has it figured out.

    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



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  • AZTGAZTG Posts: 7,559 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Broddie wrote: »
    AZTG wrote: »
    heres the thing, in this article that I skimmed, it says thay women want to he sexually satisfied.

    here is my issue, as a dude, I'm personally never sexually satisfied fucking the same girl after a while no matter how good she is.

    she could be a true dime, fuck a steak up, and ride dick like a porn star, but after fucking her multiple times a week for months, im bored and wont be satisfied regardless of how good she is.

    If these women from this article feel like I do, then there isnt anything anyone could do.

    Over 245 sex positions available and thousands of different scenarios that could be played out in or outside the bedroom (ie: bringing another girl, role play etc.) Only reason people get bored when they have a fruitful sexlife within a coupling is cause they're straight up nymphos. No disrespect.

    Cant talk for everybody bruh. And cant talk for the women in this article either.

    Im personally a person that gets bores regardless of position.

    But im at the age where I know that its not the girl im withs fault, cause ima get bored regardless if I break up with her and find someone new.

    So at this age I understand that and in a few years I might even be able to deal with it and stay with a girl.

    Thats what comes from experience and living.

    Thats why im a huge proponent of people waiting till they are in their 30s.

    By your 30s you most likely figured out who you are and are not holding yourself to the standard of who you think you are and know what you want in your partner.
  • LEMZIMUS_RAMSEYLEMZIMUS_RAMSEY SHAPE YOUR REALITY INSIDE WHICH YOU THRIVE Posts: 17,663 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Broddie wrote: »
    AZTG wrote: »
    heres the thing, in this article that I skimmed, it says thay women want to he sexually satisfied.

    here is my issue, as a dude, I'm personally never sexually satisfied fucking the same girl after a while no matter how good she is.

    she could be a true dime, fuck a steak up, and ride dick like a porn star, but after fucking her multiple times a week for months, im bored and wont be satisfied regardless of how good she is.

    If these women from this article feel like I do, then there isnt anything anyone could do.

    Over 245 sex positions available and thousands of different scenarios that could be played out in or outside the bedroom (ie: bringing another girl, role play etc.) Only reason people get bored when they have a fruitful sexlife within a coupling is cause they're straight up nymphos. No disrespect.

    Porn wired people.
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