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The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands (Article inside)

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  • EmM HoLLa.EmM HoLLa. Rolex Watches & Diamond Chains.. Posts: 3,254 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 11
    CapitalB wrote: »
    monogamy isnt real..

    It's a lie.
    When the ice hit the light it be going off.. I'm livin' life I aint showin' off.. -Don Q
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  • BiblicalAtheist BiblicalAtheist Prude FieldsPosts: 15,648 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Bibical atheist didnt even read the article

    You're right, I skimmed it, and when I saw SEX pop up more than twice, I assumed any other words in the article were merely there to make it look like it wasn't just about sex.
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  • BroddieBroddie just me and my bitch NYCPosts: 11,643 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 11
    Cinco wrote: »
    LordZuko wrote: »
    A bitch only as loyal as her options.
    What bitch don't have options? All they have to do is step outside

    Exactly.

    Women are biologically being chased by men their age and older by 15 and 16.

    Remember being in high school girls had mad options across age ranges? that doesn't happen with boys. We were lucky if 2 girls at a time likes us.

    Men hunt inherently. It's our biological programming. We never had sex options as easy as women do and never will. We're not prey and if we are women shun us with the quickness.

    It goes back to the biological clock talk someone brought up I think in the last page. It's a good point. Women sexually peak in their 20s cause they generally get it in earlier cause they'e chased by adolescence. So they get that out their system by the mid to late 20s generally.

    Men we dont go from boys to men in the bedroom till our 30s. Thats when we generally know who we truly are in all respects. So nature plays it that women who have kids say after 35 could but have greater risks to bear. While men mature into sexual dynamos for the sake of procreation.

    This goes back to the cavemen. Shit the ceasers in rome kept 14 yr old brides and concubines. It's crazy but that shit plays a factor. Women have a lot of pressure at a younger age cause of all that but the options never stop coming.

    Like jono and VIBE said though because of discrepancy like that communication and unconditionally mutual need for understanding is important. It takes a lot of self discipline and restraint. Men ain't ready to get there till we push mid age. Women dont get that luxury. They're forced into situations that leads to the "women mature quicker" cliche.

    Understanding that is the first step when meeting any woman. Personally I'm single but I restrict to 26 and older cause that is when they're generally on the other side of that scenario.
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  • dallas' 4 evadallas' 4 eva Dallas Cowboys 2016 NFC EAST CHAMPS Posts: 11,205 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I never believed in young relationships for these reasons, everybody before like the age of 24 cheats on everybody it's just a given.
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  • Trollio Trollio Trollololololololololol Posts: 25,799 ✭✭✭✭✭
    VIBE wrote: »
    Men don't give the women what they want or need. I've seen many marriages end up being blamed on the man for various reasons. Two of those reasons that are high on the list - sex and communication.

    There's no human connections. Everything today is expressed through social media; birthdays, anniversaries, vacations, baby announcements etc. Shit seems to have lost its value in the journey for likes, shares and the hope your video or message goes viral. I tell my wife happy birthday w a kiss, hug and some shit I'll do for her. I don't say shit on FB.

    Men don't even need women to get pleasure, either. These married men are popping open web browsers and searching up porn fantasies to get off bc wifey ain't doing shit. She's out cheating bc he can't fuck or just ain't fucking at all.

    It's all a lack of deep connection to each other. People don't realize that it doesn't just happen, you have to consistently work on that everyday. Compromise is also something many people don't understand. They're too immature and anal about shit.

    I've been w my wife since I was 15. I'm going to be 31 this year. 17 yrs together. 9 yrs married. 6 kids. She works. I stay at home. We have been through open heart surgeries w my 2nd son, which was hell for the first 3 yrs. Then, our 5th son was born and he has allergies, eczema & asthma, and that's a shit load of work, too.

    Even through that and typical bullshit, our sex lives are top notch. Sex every day, every week, every month. We can talk for hours. Humor is on point. We just click. Always have. We are both mature and just don't care to devote our time or energy to bullshit. Instead of arguing we get angry, don't talk, then talk it out when tempers are cooled. Even then, we hardly ever have any kind of issues with each other. Average argument, fight or being mad at each other is like once a month - if that.

    People just don't care to devote time to someone else. Everything is about them. Social media has created this selfish "me, me, me" idea. You have ppl marrying themselves now. Why marry someone when you don't want to work on shit, not even yourself?

    I don't get what's hard about being mature and being able to rationally understand and work things out that are necessary in a relationship.

    So you dont care if i smash yo wife???
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  • KatKat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownPosts: 50,636 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Cinco wrote: »
    LordZuko wrote: »
    A bitch only as loyal as her options.
    What bitch don't have options? All they have to do is step outside

    Dick is not the option. That's the easy part.
    Go figureatribecalledgabiBroddieMadame_CJSkywalker
  • KatKat Don't @ Me to Dumb Shit. H-TownPosts: 50,636 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I love your post @VIBE..you and your wife got very lucky to find that one so early on in life. Good for y'all.
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  • LordZukoLordZuko Black Ronin A swirling tempest in the midnight sunPosts: 2,416 ✭✭✭✭✭
    @vibe gonna kill himself when he find out his wife got a lunch nigga.

    Don't do it bro. Think of the ic
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  • LEMZIMUS_RAMSEYLEMZIMUS_RAMSEY SHAPE YOUR REALITY INSIDE WHICH YOU THRIVE Posts: 17,666 ✭✭✭✭✭
    LordZuko wrote: »
    @vibe gonna kill himself when he find out his wife got a lunch nigga.

    Don't do it bro. Think of the ic

    Bruh come on. Its ok to be a red pill man. However dont be an extremist and automatically shit on any woman. Like you dont want to be place aside the supreme manly bastards that are in some way the cause of Feminazism.

    True love is like Rolls Royces imo.
    We have to get humble and realise that WE WONT ALL FIND IT.

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  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 32,244 ✭✭✭✭✭
    it just sound like them chicks wasnt hit to begin with an needed a reason to validate their actions rather than just be a hoe.

    but they still hoes....they just think they are justified in acting like one.

    shit why be with any woman if she aint the better part of you?

    im cool.
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



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  • BedStuyBedStuy My caliber, got me thinking on a higher algebra Posts: 2,996 ✭✭✭✭✭
    victoria don't know how to keep a secret
    like a nigga need pussy
    a bitch need dick
    sextistics show
    that out of every ten hoes
    whether married
    or in love done cheating befo'
    and if they did it once
    they'll probably do it again
    turn your back
    Jerry Springer style
    they screwing your friend
    and that alone enough to make any nigga furious
    maybe you wasn't hittin right
    maybe she's just curious

    You dead serious
    your girl all giggalish
    Cause she know I'm right
    somebody slid up in that clitoris

    somebody slid up in that clitoris

    somebody slid up in that clitoris





    :smirk:

    Its a neverending story yo

    Word
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  • LPastLPast Posts: 4,533 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Some of y'all are selling some new age fallacies. What do people always say? The game doesn't change, only the players.

    Ok, women are coming are cheating because they are bored and unsatisfied...

    ... But what is the constant in this generation? Our new habits are typically not good for us...
  • 2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threat walking out the lions denPosts: 32,244 ✭✭✭✭✭
    LPast wrote: »
    Some of y'all are selling some new age fallacies. What do people always say? The game doesn't change, only the players.

    Ok, women are coming are cheating because they are bored and unsatisfied...

    ... But what is the constant in this generation? Our new habits are typically not good for us...

    that bitch need to get a playstation then
    you have the dude who is naturally thorough -Alpha
    you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
    then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

    I am still struggling between blocks to get from the have nots to the have yachts and I won't be stopped.



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HhTZZdVbjio


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