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whats worse being too passive or being too aggressive...

2stepz_ahead2stepz_ahead Who I am is Complex, What i am, simply put. I'm a Threatwalking out the lions denPosts: 28,694 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited September 2010 in For The Grown & Sexy
being to passive will get you all used the fuk up and ran over
but being too aggresive may get you killed and you will end up alone..

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you have the dude that wants to be thorough so he pretend to be Alpha -Beta
then you have the nigga who wants to hang with the first two to be seen and grab any dropped crumbs.- Omega

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  • The JackalThe Jackal Posts: 1,897 ✭✭✭
    edited August 2010
    Passive.
    Being aggressive doesn't mean acting like a dumbass and being reckless. It means being assertive and sure of yourself. Beside girls love it when your aggressive.
  • STOP.IT.5STOP.IT.5 Posts: 250
    edited August 2010
    I'm passive and don't give the opportunity to get used or run over. But being laid back has went against me at times and I've missed out on getting laid because I wasn't aggressive enough. You just have to have that even balance.
  • Blue VirgoBlue Virgo Posts: 7,092 ✭✭✭
    edited August 2010
    I'll say passive.

    On the end of aggressive--it doesn't have to go to the far end of the spectrum....so it's not always a bad thing.
  • caddo mancaddo man Failure is success in progress! Posts: 21,803 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited August 2010
    Being too passive. When you are too passive you have all the friends but they run over you and you dont have shit.
    When you are too aggressive. You dont have friends (you have associates)but you have everything!
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  • jay83jay83 Posts: 5,424 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited August 2010
    Most folks are passive-aggressive anyway.
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  • jay83jay83 Posts: 5,424 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited August 2010
    matter of choice really...

    Is it better to be the asshole everyone hates but respects or be the person everyone likes but wont even think twice about overstepping their boundaries.
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  • rose.amoureuxrose.amoureux Posts: 2,046
    edited August 2010
  • MAKAVELI25MAKAVELI25 Posts: 5,595 ✭✭✭✭
    edited August 2010
    I'd rather be agressive.

    Having respect>>

    I'm like the perfect median though. I am a laid back dude, nice, funny etc. I have a lot of friends, but I've shown my temper is not to be fucked with enough times that people don't step to me like that. It takes a while to piss me off.
  • marie addamsmarie addams Posts: 1,699 ✭✭
    edited August 2010
    being too passive (which i'm working on) at least being aggressive will get shit done
  • AquafinafloeAquafinafloe Posts: 2,871
    edited August 2010
    lmaoo@ the responses....anywho i am a passive person...have you ever heard of the saying you get further with salt than shyt?..or money talks bullshyt walks....or its nuttin to a boss? bieng passave is the way to go and be bieng passive BUILDS a hard shell that is already there but doesnt want to be used due to the fact it dosent want to hurt ppl...bieng passive gets you everything in life also when your a passive person..when aggression does show that aggression gets more respect than a person that already is aggressive....and this is coming from a "truely" passive person ;)
  • _Soulljah_Soulljah Posts: 249
    edited August 2010
    Being too passive annoys the shit out of me. I'm more aggressive and shit, so I need a man who can keep up with me and challenge me as well. I don't have time for all that passive shit. Aggressiveness turns me on, get the hell out from under your covers and shake me or something, bitch.
  • AquafinafloeAquafinafloe Posts: 2,871
    edited August 2010
    being too passive (which i'm working on) at least being aggressive will get shit done

    it is hard to just try to "be passive" passive is something that is best when it is there from the gate...trying to be "passive" with ppl that are already aggressive or even passive aggressive....ppl find that they are acting as a sell out or they aren't getting the results they usualy get..its sort of like trying to change your whole personality....
  • isayasisayas Posts: 2,972 ✭✭
    edited September 2010
    Being aggressive. It's too much, but comin' from a passive person, I do keep it honest.
  • marie addamsmarie addams Posts: 1,699 ✭✭
    edited September 2010
    it is hard to just try to "be passive" passive is something that is best when it is there from the gate...trying to be "passive" with ppl that are already aggressive or even passive aggressive....ppl find that they are acting as a sell out or they aren't getting the results they usualy get..its sort of like trying to change your whole personality....


    no i'm working on being LESS passive and more aggressive.
  • American Loo VII 3DAmerican Loo VII 3D Posts: 6,371 ✭✭✭
    edited September 2010
    i'd rather be called too aggressive.

    in my experience, being too passive is always a bad thing.
  • BootyButterPiBootyButterPi Posts: 1,436 ✭✭
    edited September 2010
    passive is a double edge sword.
  • D-MarcoD-Marco Posts: 4,308 ✭✭
    edited September 2010
    Passive= Bitch
    Agressive= Jerk

    Id rather be a prick than a bitch anyday
  • AquafinafloeAquafinafloe Posts: 2,871
    edited September 2010
    no i'm working on being LESS passive and more aggressive.

    ok yea same here however i find that if u are a passive person..if u work on bieng MORE DEMANDING that works waaaay better than trying to be aggressive ppl who realy know u and know u as passive will actualy listen and will back off!
  • isayasisayas Posts: 2,972 ✭✭
    edited September 2010
    Only time I want to be aggressive is if I want to beat the living fuck outta you.
  • Will MunnyWill Munny Eatin pussy and kickin ass Posts: 29,550 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2010
    TOO much of either is never really a good thing. I've seen passive people suceed in life and agressive people suceed in life, but people are too much in either tend to struggle.
    Times are tough, but they ain't got nothin' on me.
  • D-MarcoD-Marco Posts: 4,308 ✭✭
    edited September 2010
    A lot of people are passive-agressive though. U have to know when to be one or the other. I used to be very agressive to the point I almost got myself killed.

    Then tried being extra passive... but that always cool shit dont work for me
  • Will MunnyWill Munny Eatin pussy and kickin ass Posts: 29,550 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2010
    Tony Dungy - Superbowl Champion coach. Passive

    Rex Ryan - Agressive coach and has had success.
    Times are tough, but they ain't got nothin' on me.
  • texas409texas409 Posts: 20,164 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2010
    Will Munny wrote: »
    Tony Dungy - Superbowl Champion coach. Passive

    Rex Ryan - Agressive coach and has had success.

    nice avi......sons of anarchy is a goat show
  • Will MunnyWill Munny Eatin pussy and kickin ass Posts: 29,550 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2010
    nice avi......sons of anarchy is a goat show

    It's actually from Justified, but Sons is a goat show.
    Times are tough, but they ain't got nothin' on me.
  • Ms_NinaMs_Nina Posts: 51
    edited September 2010
    I'm a chill person, go with the flow so, don't like conflict or drama so I'd rather be too passive than too aggressive

    but I'm more passive aggressive than anything
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