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Dumping your current MAIN chick, getting, a new MAIN chick, and std test.........

skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
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I'm thingking about dumbing my main chick. We have been on an icy rocky road for years now and the shit is comming to a head and is about to collapse. My only issue is that she was my main for years thus we have had unproctected sex w/o any concern or problems for years. My question is when I start a new relationship and get another main chick again how do I ask the new main chick to get an std test so we can have unprocted sex with as little akwardness as possible? Am I trippin' or does anyone else feel me?
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  • gucci7383gucci7383 Posts: 1,950
    skpjr78 wrote: »
    I'm thingking about dumbing my main chick. We have been on an icy rocky road for years now and the shit is comming to a head and is about to collapse. My only issue is that she was my main for years thus we have had unproctected sex w/o any concern or problems for years. My question is when I start a new relationship and get another main chick again how do I ask the new main chick to get an std test so we can have unprocted sex with as little akwardness as possible? Am I trippin' or does anyone else feel me?
    just keep it real and tell her str8 up..listen bicth aint no pussy worth getting burnt whil i'm up in it...go get checked out and let me see those papers
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  • TrueGodHSTrueGodHS Posts: 2,247
    What's the reasons why it's about to collapse and is that shit reparable if yall niggas can put aside your pride and work shit out? I mean, before just ending it, you gotta make sure everything else is exhausted in the previous shit you in.
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  • skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
    TrueGodHS wrote: »
    What's the reasons why it's about to collapse and is that shit reparable if yall niggas can put aside your pride and work shit out? I mean, before just ending it, you gotta make sure everything else is exhausted in the previous shit you in.

    yeah man this shit is dying. its kinda like already being on life support at a hospital in new orleans b4 katrina and then losing electricity after the storm and finally running out of fuel the generators. its 1 of those types of things. u know when u have already tried as best as u can, shit was steadily getting worse, and now external issues are just making it super obvious that this shit is gonna die no matter what u do. its something like that.
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  • TrueGodHSTrueGodHS Posts: 2,247
    skpjr78 wrote: »
    yeah man this shit is dying. its kinda like already being on life support at a hospital in new orleans b4 katrina and then losing electricity after the storm and finally running out of fuel the generators. its 1 of those types of things. u know when u have already tried as best as u can, shit was steadily getting worse, and now external issues are just making it super obvious that this shit is gonna die no matter what u do. its something like that.

    Man, I been there. Sometimes you gotta back away from it and try to see if there's anyway you can get a do-over. If she ya main chick for years, she ya main chick for a reason. That's all I'm saying bruh. I'm in a situation where after 6 years, shit broke down and we broke up, but now we trying to fix it and make sure everything works out better. Sometimes when shit looks unreparable, you just need to step back for a while and communicate
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  • skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
    im kinda leary of getting a new main b/c that shit takes years. but just mashing pussy w/no purpose has gotten played out. dont wanna get into another long term situation off the bat but i did enjoy knowing that i had a MAIN chick locked down with tamper proof pussy. i want that long term again but i gotta make sure the new MAIN chick is worth it and most importantly clean.
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  • TrueGodHSTrueGodHS Posts: 2,247
    skpjr78 wrote: »
    im kinda leary of getting a new main b/c that shit takes years. but just mashing pussy w/no purpose has gotten played out. dont wanna get into another long term situation off the bat but i did enjoy knowing that i had a MAIN chick locked down with tamper proof pussy. i want that long term again but i gotta make sure the new MAIN chick is worth it and most importantly clean.

    Thats the hardest thing to do in this day and age. Aint really no queen type females out here in any aspect. They gotta look inside themselves to find that, and it's hard to find a main chick that's down for you. If you and ya main girl had that shit, then I dont know man. I would try to sit down and talk with my main girl about what's wrong and what we can do. Communication and compromising are the two keys to relationships working.
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  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,356
    skpjr78 wrote: »
    I'm thingking about dumbing my main chick. We have been on an icy rocky road for years now and the shit is comming to a head and is about to collapse. My only issue is that she was my main for years thus we have had unproctected sex w/o any concern or problems for years. My question is when I start a new relationship and get another main chick again how do I ask the new main chick to get an std test so we can have unprocted sex with as little akwardness as possible? Am I trippin' or does anyone else feel me?

    and you're just now ending things? you're stupid
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  • skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
    TrueGodHS wrote: »
    Thats the hardest thing to do in this day and age. Aint really no queen type females out here in any aspect. They gotta look inside themselves to find that, and it's hard to find a main chick that's down for you. If you and ya main girl had that shit, then I dont know man. I would try to sit down and talk with my main girl about what's wrong and what we can do. Communication and compromising are the two keys to relationships working.

    i hear u dog but she is on some shit that cant possibly be fixed. she is a cool chick but she dont fuck no more. the sex life has been dead for a while. there is no relationship w/o relations in my book. its no working that shit out at all. i tried 2 figure the shit out but this bitch done pushed a nigga 2 far. im a grown ass man and if u cant satisfy a nigga u cant be with a nigga. no question about it.

    but its just the entire starting over with a new chick trying to rebuild what has so tragically and obviously been burned the fuck down. i dont mind dumping this chick. im just pissed that she has flipped out on this crazy shit and lightweight expect a nigga 2 just accept it. fuck that shit. thats a no go. like i said its just the starting over from scratch just to get back 2 where i was thing thats fucked up. but either way a nigga gotta bounce from this shit.
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  • 7figz7figz Posts: 6,617
    Even if she does take the test, what about getting her pregnant ?

    You got something against condoms ?
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  • skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
    7fIG wrote: »
    Even if she does take the test, what about getting her pregnant ?

    You got something against condoms ?

    no i dont have a problem w/condoms. i use them on my backup chicks every fucking time. i just go raw on my main. matter of fact she is the only chick i have ever gone raw on in my life. shit was cool like that. i dont want 2 have a rotation its just that she left me w/no other options. i stay strapped up homie. just thinking long term if i get another main chick how should i handle the shit going 4ward as far as sex, std's, and test and shit.
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  • goat334goat334 Posts: 3,605
    skpjr78 wrote: »
    no i dont have a problem w/condoms. i use them on my backup chicks every fucking time. i just go raw on my main. matter of fact she is the only chick i have ever gone raw on in my life. shit was cool like that. i dont want 2 have a rotation its just that she left me w/no other options. i stay strapped up homie. just thinking long term if i get another main chick how should i handle the shit going 4ward as far as sex, std's, and test and shit.
    Is this your High School sweetheart you're breaking up with?
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  • skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
    its been awhile since i have played the field. i was happy at home for a minute. just trying to see whats going on out there 2day and how to handle a possible new MAIN chick in the future as far as sex, std's, and test and shit. just curious as 2 whats going on out there 2day
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  • skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
    goat334 wrote: »
    Is this your High School sweetheart you're breaking up with?

    no not a high school sweetheart but we have been together 4 years and she hasmultiple family ties. met her through my sister, comes to family functions, gets along w/the entire, and she traveled outta town w/the entire family. kinda worse than a high school sweetheart
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  • 7figz7figz Posts: 6,617
    skpjr78 wrote: »
    no i dont have a problem w/condoms. i use them on my backup chicks every fucking time. i just go raw on my main. matter of fact she is the only chick i have ever gone raw on in my life. shit was cool like that. i dont want 2 have a rotation its just that she left me w/no other options. i stay strapped up homie. just thinking long term if i get another main chick how should i handle the shit going 4ward as far as sex, std's, and test and shit.

    Since you don't even know the new chick yet, you probably shouldn't start off hittin it raw anyway. Just ask her to get the test before yall start fuckin'. But going unprotected, I'd think, is something you do after you been with a chick for a while. By then it should be natural to bring it up. But starting off a relationship like that is kind of strange.
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  • skpjr78skpjr78 Posts: 2,253
    7fIG wrote: »
    Since you don't even know the new chick yet, you probably shouldn't start off hittin it raw anyway. Just ask her to get the test before yall start fuckin'. But going unprotected, I'd think, is something you do after you been with a chick for a while. By then it should be natural to bring it up. But starting off a relationship like that is kind of strange.

    come on man. that goes w/o saying. what type nigga in 2010 would jump into some new pussy raw. come on dog. im just curious if any of yall have had a long term main that u hit raw for years and than had 2 start over from scratch and develop a new main chick. if u hit ur old longterm main chick raw how did u handle sex ur new main chick going 4ward.
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  • letstrythisagainletstrythisagain Posts: 427
    TrueGodHS wrote: »
    Man, I been there. Sometimes you gotta back away from it and try to see if there's anyway you can get a do-over. If she ya main chick for years, she ya main chick for a reason. That's all I'm saying bruh. I'm in a situation where after 6 years, shit broke down and we broke up, but now we trying to fix it and make sure everything works out better. Sometimes when shit looks unreparable, you just need to step back for a while and communicate


    so true. the blame game is strong and no one looks at the parts they play in shit gone wrong. if you "aint happy" automatically its your mate's fault. then you start digging another person thinking you're going to have a better relationship with them and you break up with your current mate and move immediately into a relationship with this "new" person without even checking yourself on shit that went wrong in your last relationship. alot of relationships that end dont have to end if people would take the time to check themselves and change shit within themselves that needs to be changed.
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