Do men care about how their children will look ?

simplyspeaking · October 2010

my aunt just told me that my cousin refuses to have children with black women because they and i quote "black women don't make pretty babies".
and he has stood by his word by having kids with a sloppy white chick and hispanic lady that's a little better looking. lol
as tickled as i am, i never thought guys cared about how attractive their children were going to be. i thought it was only a woman thing.

so, im asking the guys of the I.C., do you care about how your children look ? does that effect who you'll get with too ?

allreasoned_out · October 2010

Smh @ your self-hating cousin.

D-Marco · October 2010

Why would I wanna ugly ass baby? lol.... but sidenote: ive seen regular people have some ugly ass babies.

Nas BM is fine but their daughter ugly...i cant even lie

isayas · October 2010

D-Marco wrote: »

Why would I wanna ugly ass baby? lol.... but sidenote: ive seen regular people have some ugly ass babies.

Nas BM is fine but their daughter ugly...i cant even lie

Kelis or Carmen?

D-Marco · October 2010

isayas wrote: »

Kelis or Carmen?

Carmen. She a dime...but their daughter look like Bobby and Whitneys

Zone6reppa · October 2010

stupid question

1of1 · October 2010

You can't predict how the mix will work

blakfyahking · October 2010

simplyspeaking wrote: »

my aunt just told me that my cousin refuses to have children with black women because they and i quote "black women don't make pretty babies".
and he has stood by his word by having kids with a sloppy white chick and hispanic lady that's a little better looking. lol
as tickled as i am, i never thought guys cared about how attractive their children were going to be. i thought it was only a woman thing.

so, im asking the guys of the I.C., do you care about how your children look ? does that effect who you'll get with too ?

that's the dumbest concept I have ever heard

SMH @ cuzzo basically clowning his own mom and calling himself ugly

Darxwell · October 2010

lmao @ Blak

Nobody wants an ugly baby but I dont know of many males that go around picking women based on how the baby will look. I thought that was a hoodrat thing wit black females wanting thier baby to have "good hair."

SMH @ black people. I wonder who is more self hating. Blacks or Asians.

blakfyahking · October 2010

Darxwell wrote: »

lmao @ Blak

Nobody wants an ugly baby but I dont know of many males that go around picking women based on how the baby will look. I thought that was a hoodrat thing wit black females wanting thier baby to have "good hair."

SMH @ black people. I wonder who is more self hating. Blacks or Asians.

well asians got that one

cause I've even seen asians emulate black people.........they are the wackest when it comes to following trends

Darxwell · October 2010

blakfyahking wrote: »

well asians got that one

cause I've even seen asians emulate black people.........they are the wackest when it comes to following trends

true..........

birdcall89 · October 2010

im a beautiful young and bung nigga. my babies are gonna be dimes and studs (no pedo/incest/homo).

Meet The Sniper · October 2010

My kid ain't gonna be fuckin his mom, I am. Therefore I get first and last say on who he's pushed out of. I don't give a flying fuck what the kid looks like. As long as his mom sexy.

If he ugly..... oh well.

Guess you gotta get some money then, little nigga.

LT-ELLE · October 2010

ughhh shallow people...the most important thing that a parent should be worried about is having a HEALTHY baby.

lilhd47 · October 2010

ugly kids are unfortunate...MIXED BABIES FTW!!

LT-ELLE · October 2010

lilhd47 wrote: »

ugly kids are unfortunate...MIXED BABIES FTW!!

smh. really tho? ughh.

simplyspeaking · October 2010

i just didn't think that men, or most men, cared about stuff like "pretty babies"....

and my cousin's slightly on the ugly side and he's dark as hell, so i can only assume what's he's been thru in life that would make him say such a thing.

bless the child · October 2010

as long as they're healthy I dont give a fuck.

Jamaica · October 2010

Women think about that stuff more than men, well that's what I assume.

DatNiggaB1 · October 2010

Women do care more than men, me personally I would not have a baby wid a white girl cause someone gotta preserve our race.

As for how my kids look, I aint a male model or nothing but I got good genes.

ptnutz · October 2010

And have to say, when mixed kids work they work (Halle Berry, Alicia Keys, and Denyce Lawton to name a few). But I have seen a lot more f__ked up mixed kids than good looking ones. Then again outside of the inbreeders in the boot hills, how many of us from any race in this country are pure. My wife and I are mostly African American, but I know there is some Native American in both our bloods, and we have 3 very handsome boys. (They are some real girl magnets).

Echs Calibre · October 2010

In defense of shallow motherfuckers everywhere I'll keep it 100, 1000. I had an accident when I was two years old that fucked my mouth up. When I got older, I was mercilessly ridiculed in school. It didn't matter how nice of a person I was, my personality didn't mean shit. I can still remember all the laughter, all the loneliness, all of the rejection I experienced. Then to make it worse my mother bought me the cheapest clothes ever, it was like open season on my ass. I had braces to try to correct my teeth but my mother couldn't keep up the payments, long story short I actually ended up with half broken braces in my mouth for a long ass time further humiliating me. My teeth still haven't been corrected to this very day. I remember all the fat kids, ugly kids, buck toothed kids, bummy dressed kids, etc. Kids are EXTREMELY cruel. You see how these kids are driving motherfuckers to kill themselves these days? I ain't gonna lie there was plenty a night I cried myself asleep and there were plenty of days that I cut school. In fact by 7th grade I pretty much dropped out completely without my mother knowing for a while. I couldn't allow my child to be subjected to that kind of ridicule. My mother ruined my life. Every time I was made fun of it was her fault. Every fight I got in, it was her fault. Every girl I had a crush on that shot me down (Some shot me down, chopped me up, fed me to the dogs, and set the dogs and my grisly remains aflame.), it was her fault. Despite all of this I overcame and I got extremely lucky. I got a hold of a pretty woman who had ugly duckling syndrome, and I never let her go. I built her up, molded her into a powerful and strong as well as beautiful woman (She still needs alil tinkering every now and then). I'm happy to say we have a beautiful son together now whom everyone absolutely adores. My son looks like a combination of me and her. Now I'm not a bad looking dude just my teeth, (and the I put on weight as I got older, slowly losing it now though) are fucked up. He looks more like his mother and I pat myself on the back, now all I gotta do is keep him fresh to death and never let him look sloppy and he'll lead a pretty damn good life and will probably finish school and everything. If you don't think about how your kids will appear to so many people that alter their reality then you're either too idealist or just plain selfish. It sounds shallow but I suffered a lot of goddamn pain and loneliness in my life because of my adversity. I also have a bad case of misogyny that I'm still working on because of all the women that hurt me. I'm actually planning to make a girl who rejected me when I was younger fall in love with me so I can smut her out and completely humiliate her online just to gain my vengeance. I've got problems. Look out for your kids so they don't have problems. Let's face it, even a person with the most beautiful heart has an ugliness limit. You know what else really sucked ass? There were some pretty popular girls who loved the shit out of me and wanted to be with me but because of what everyone else thought they wouldn't be with me. Shit sucks.

Fundz O' Plenty · October 2010

Zone6reppa wrote: »

stupid question

.............................

Conscious__Nkechi · October 2010

lilhd47 wrote: »

ugly kids are unfortunate...MIXED BABIES FTW!!

So either you are ugly or you're mixed.....with what exactly?

Echs Calibre · October 2010

DatNiggaB1 wrote: »

Women do care more than men, me personally I would not have a baby wid a white girl cause someone gotta preserve our race.

As for how my kids look, I aint a male model or nothing but I got good genes.

The human race? Nah I think we chillin' man. Fuck whoever you want.

The LouisiAnimal · October 2010

D-Marco wrote: »

Carmen. She a dime...but their daughter look like Bobby and Whitneys

Not true, she's a cute little girl. She's just a a lil chubby.

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