How would you handle the situation? Awkward situations Pt. 2

nuri · November 2010

I'm readin what everybody is sayin and I already consider the best and worst case scenario.
She's not bitter. And she takes full responsibilities for her decisions. She's not one of those typical black chicks that make decent dudes responsible for all the shit the last nigga put her through.
She has a nice body too considering the two kids cause like I said she works hard to keep her appearance up.
Niggas is under the impression that she's tryna okie doke a playa but that ain't even it.
I agree that i'm too young for everything that she comin with. And I ain't tryna play daddy at 21 and I ain't even finished school.
It's not like she doesn't understand that though.

thehonorable · November 2010

Sounds like game.

Maalik · November 2010

I know you think that Im biased on these sort of subjects but....from what I gather from you on here, you seem like a cool, levelheaded person. I dont think you'd be ready for all of that, especially at 21. She's almost 30, got a family & was in marriage life for a decade. She may entertain a fling for a while but, she gonna expect you to get on your grown man sh*t quick as far as yall relationship is concerned.

Also..........PROCEED WITH CAUTION........she can say all she want about her husband being abusive but, Im sure she had a hand in that marriage dissolving as well. Its never onesided. If one dude got completely tired of her sh*t, there's a high likelihood that you might too.

Jus sayin.

nuri · November 2010

ParallelRhymes wrote: »

nah sounds like Nuri already knows he shouldn't proceed with more than just friendship but he also knows he's going to go through with it anyways...

It's like I said earlier man i'm just gon keep it at a friendship level.
It's all I can really manage at this point. It'll give me a good opportunity to get to know her even better anyway.
I'm not stupid. I can't just ignore the fact that she has all this baggage. Gotta look at the full spectrum.
Chances are we'll still be cool later on down the line.

Yung_Souf_Money · November 2010

nuri wrote: »

I'm readin what everybody is sayin and I already consider the best and worst case scenario.
She's not bitter. And she takes full responsibilities for her decisions. She's not one of those typical black chicks that make decent dudes responsible for all the shit the last nigga put her through.
She has a nice body too considering the two kids cause like I said she works hard to keep her appearance up.
Niggas is under the impression that she's tryna okie doke a playa but that ain't even it.
I agree that i'm too young for everything that she comin with. And I ain't tryna play daddy at 21 and I ain't even finished school.
It's not like she doesn't understand that though.

if youre not ready to play daddy and just wants to be friends with benefits just tell her that instead of turning her into your personal sperm bank.chix like that are hard to come by and plus she keeps herself up

1of1 · November 2010

Maalik wrote: »

..........PROCEED WITH CAUTION........

As you enter the symphony
Degrees of punishment increase intensely

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MERYLISBACK · November 2010

captain kirk sit ur dumb ass down!

now nuri, i like ut. u seem hella earthly
and NOT 21
which is nice.

BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
youARE 21
so one day u will feel the need to be young. and u cant do that taking care of 2 stepsons who constantly tellu :u aint my daddy, shit i dont even know the nigga" etc etc

shes a cool girl, but too much miles, and too much baggage
whether she tells u or not

kids in a marriage is cool

but u didnt say where the second son came from??

do u my man
but id HATE to see u get caught up by some milf, with baggage

i know young hoes our age aint bout shit, but give us one more chance

let a man in his mid 40s read her sons bedtime stories
theyll respect his salt and pepper beard more

willhustle · November 2010

ryder225 wrote: »

Damn, I'd seriously leave that alone. You too young to be getting caught up

This ^^^^^^
I mean you haven't really begun to live life yet at 20-21 and even though some of the things you have mentioned about this girl would blow some guys mind away would seem to be a catch alone. But you have to be able to sit-down and ask yourself are you willing to take on the responsibility of somewhat being in a relationship with a woman that has 2 kids by 2 different men that's basically have some experiences in life already. I would say the best advice would be stay focused on college and you can still maintain a friendship with her but don't lead her on.

phantom0900 · November 2010

You gonna buy the 3 yr old a bday gift and a christmas present next month? Its something to think about, you're not obligated to, but you know youre gonna have to invest in them kids at least a lil bit financially. I dont know if youre a family man or not, but you gotta keep your personality in mind. Follow your heart so you live with no regrets, but remember you have 3 hearts and minds to tend to now.

D-Marco · November 2010

Take it slow fam... Im in a similar situation but Im just beating...lol

She got alot on her plate. You're too young to be her official "dude" not because of her age but her experiences and the 2 kids. Plus if you main her, you gonna be cool playing "play-step pops"? Plus dealing with the BD's if they're still around.
You're 21...she damn near 30. Not saying it cant work...but thats alotta obstacles out the gate

7figz · November 2010

Listen to experience man... They tryin' to warn you for a reason.

Do you want to be the next baby daddy ?

There's enough other bitches out there, and at your age group, you should be able to find some decent ones without children.

Beatin' it wouldn't have been a problem but it sounds like you might make it into one because you're feelin' her. Then you'll be that step-pops nigga until you eventually become the next baby daddy and then you'll start having problems with her and end up just like them other dudes.

jackthemack · November 2010

Lmao this nigga Nuri be wildin the fuck out sometimes with these threads

Nigga knows hte obv answer

earth two superman · November 2010

2 sons by 2 dudes is perfect?

for someone like nuri who probably makes a living sketching people in airports, im surprised hes never heard about 'baggage'.

UPTOWN CONNEXX · November 2010

smh at how judgemental people are in this thread lol

juice86 · November 2010

Run for the hills nigga! thats chick is going to make you the 3rd baby-daddy

CopperKing · November 2010

ParallelRhymes wrote: »

word she was married when Nuri was sketching power rangers and ninja turtles for his friends on the playground...

Im I the only one that found this shit funny???

CopperKing · November 2010

lolz ....................

King Erauno · November 2010

dude...u only 21. what u know about the perfect woman fam? smash and keep her on ur squad...wrap it up or you gonna be baby daddy # 3

kzzl · November 2010

T/S obviously likes this chick, a lot. Y'all less that 10 years apart, nothing wrong with that. Normally I'd say pass, but I think you're too infatuated to just leave her be at this point. Talking bout she perfect, ol' sucka for love ass nigga. You know you want to. So fuck it........ commit that.

spit_fiya · November 2010

Yall need to stop setting dude up for failure....T/S...DROP HER...she's being on her best behavior so she can trap your ass fam!...it may sound harsh but its the truth...and in an earlier post you said..."Im just a college student"...Thats it!..She knows you're gonna have a bright future...I've seen it too many times fam...niggas sayin "man, she's heaven sent"...two weeks later you find out she's gettin pounded by her ex bf

Coo Coo Cal's Beanie · December 2010

LMAO story dont even add up nigga. You said she was married for 10 years but got 2 kids by 2 different niggas. You said a 3 and 9 year old. You said the divorce was last year, which means she committed adultery and got pregnant by the other nigga. She's a fuckin smut and you tryna wife. :disgust

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GTariq · December 2010

Damn another potential with a setback...Always something huh sir?

King Erauno · December 2010

damn....i thought hommie in the pic was tracy morgan. lmao

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