If Your Best/Favorite Friend Needed A Place To Stay...

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  • kat2180kat2180 Posts: 12,066
    bruh.. Sex and money bring the worst out in people....

    I trust my gul and my homies but shyt happends

    Exactly...I've seen a female fuck her sisters man of 5 years after being allowed to stay at their home to get her shit together. I don't put ANYTHING past humans, even best friends.
  • goat334goat334 Posts: 3,605
    She don't have to be living with you to fuck your man. If that's what they are worried about.
  • Mood IndigoMood Indigo Posts: 2,127
    As long as he's ok with it and she helps pay her share and it's established that it's a temporary stay, I don't se a problem with it.
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,355
    bruh.. Sex and money bring the worst out in people....

    I trust my gul and my homies but shyt happends

    i know shit happens...but there's certain shit that if I trust you, I give you the leeway to think you won't fuck me over...I mean why call you my friend if in the front of my mind I don't trust you? Why call you my best friend if I don't trust you? I think people use these terms too loosely and just call anybody a friend...if you're my best friend, like my brother...why would I think you're trying to fuck my girl on the low? If you're my woman, why should I be thinking that you're trying to fuck my best friend on the low?
  • twinzmomtwinzmom Posts: 1,038
    kat2180 wrote: »
    Honestly, this is how I feel...and for good reason.

    Losing a man and a best friend would be too much to even risk it.

    I'm all for them digging a whole and jumping in it.
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,355
    goat334 wrote: »
    She don't have to be living with you to fuck your man. If that's what they are worried about.

    somebody please let them know...if a nigga wants to fuck your friend, he's gonna fuck her....or at least try to...hell a smart man would be less likely to fuck her in that situation because the chances of getting caught are multiplied x1000...like I said I'd be insulted if my woman said that shit to me...ask her "Bitch do you think I'm THAT stupid?"
  • goat334goat334 Posts: 3,605
    kat2180 wrote: »
    Honestly, this is how I feel...and for good reason.

    Losing a man and a best friend would be too much to even risk it.

    If that happened, she was never your friend and he wasn't your man.
  • Wouldnt have a problem with it. He already let me do tha same n the past. If they fuck around, its fuk both of em. He wasnt a true friemd n the 1st place. I'd be glad to find out they both aint shit.
  • twinzmomtwinzmom Posts: 1,038
    goat334 wrote: »
    If that happened, she was never your friend and he wasn't your man.

    yep^^^^^^^
  • goat334goat334 Posts: 3,605
    Wouldnt have s problem with. He already let me do tha same n the past. If they fuck around, its fuk both of em. He wasnt a true friemd n the 1st place. I'd be glad to fimd out they both aint shit.

    That's how you turn a negative into a positive. It's such a beautiful thang!!
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,355
    Wouldnt have a problem with it. He already let me do tha same n the past. If they fuck around, its fuk both of em. He wasnt a true friemd n the 1st place. I'd be glad to fimd out they both aint shit.

    I'm trying to figure out what there is to be upset about really...you found out 2 people who were supposed to be honest and loyal to you aren't...so you kick them out your life and make room for people who are...where's the bad in that?
  • DRODRO Posts: 9,949
    ON SECOND THOUGHT.. I DONT THINK IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA FOR MY GIRLS FEMALE FRIEND TO STAY WITH US..

    WHEN CHICKS ARE AT HOME, THEY PUT ON THE SKIMPIEST SHYT..

    PAJAMA PANT WITH THE ASS JIGGLIN EVERY WHERE, WHITE T'S AND NO BRA.. NIPPLES HARD AS ROCKS.. JUST TO NAMW A FEW

    IF I SAW THAT SHYT, IMA WANT THAT ASS RIGHT THEN AND THERE.. AND IF SHE CATCH ME LOOKIN, IMA LET HER KNOW IM LOOKIN... NO MATTER WHAT, CHICKS LOVE ATTENTION...

    SO NAw.. THATS A NO GO
  • DRODRO Posts: 9,949
    blackrain wrote: »
    i'm trying to figure out what there is to be upset about really...you found out 2 people who were supposed to be honest and loyal to you aren't...so you kick them out your life and make room for people who are...where's the bad in that?

    so its that simple bruh?.. Like 4 real.. U stayin with this person, so yall gots to have strong feelings and then ya bf, blood sweat and tears, does dirt like that and u simply say kick em out and move on?..naw, not that easy
  • kat2180kat2180 Posts: 12,066
    goat334 wrote: »
    If that happened, she was never your friend and he wasn't your man.

    But to have to come to that realization all at once would be too much..I'd probably snap.
  • NYCeeCeeNYCeeCee Posts: 1,691
    blackrain wrote: »
    I'm trying to figure out what there is to be upset about really...you found out 2 people who were supposed to be honest and loyal to you aren't...so you kick them out your life and make room for people who are...where's the bad in that?

    Oh, blackrain, stop. LOL! Of course you'd be forced to turn that negative into a positive in order to not go crazy....but initially your heart would be in 480920 pieces and you'd be ready to kill both of them.

    btw, you're making really good points, but that was ridiculous. LOL!
  • kat2180kat2180 Posts: 12,066
    so its that simple bruh?.. Like 4 real.. U stayin with this person, so yall gots to have strong feelings and then ya bf, blood sweat and tears, does dirt like that and u simply say kick em out and move on?..naw, not that easy

    Yeah they're tripping .

    That would be devastating.
  • goat334goat334 Posts: 3,605
    so its that simple bruh?.. Like 4 real.. U stayin with this person, so yall gots to have strong feelings and then ya bf, blood sweat and tears, does dirt like that and u simply say kick em out and move on?..naw, not that easy
    Sure it's going to hurt. I guess I'm cold-hearted though, cause once you crossed me in that type of way, it's fuck you until I die.
  • just cause someone is your best friend, dont mean that you have 2 trust them in every aspect in life

    I feel ya..... I know a gang of people but I only have a couple BEST friends that i consider like brothers that i would trust with something or in a situation like this.

    That's like me sayin... "Yeah... I trust you to be the godfather of my daughter if anything ever happened to me 'n all but if you ever fall bad and need a place to stay.....nigga you on your OWN".
  • NYCeeCeeNYCeeCee Posts: 1,691
    sboogie wrote: »
    shit would probably be so awkward, he would leave anyway...

    lol, you'd probably make it awkward for him. Knowing he works nights and comes home in the morning to sleep and you're up at 6am blasting music and hitting pots and pans together.
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,355
    ON SECOND THOUGHT.. I DONT THINK IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA FOR MY GIRLS FEMALE FRIEND TO STAY WITH US..

    WHEN CHICKS ARE AT HOME, THEY PUT ON THE SKIMPIEST SHYT..

    PAJAMA PANT WITH THE ASS JIGGLIN EVERY WHERE, WHITE T'S AND NO BRA.. NIPPLES HARD AS ROCKS.. JUST TO NAMW A FEW

    IF I SAW THAT SHYT, IMA WANT THAT ASS RIGHT THEN AND THERE.. AND IF SHE CATCH ME LOOKIN, IMA LET HER KNOW IM LOOKIN... NO MATTER WHAT, CHICKS LOVE ATTENTION...

    SO NAw.. THATS A NO GO

    if your woman allows that then she ain't shit either....or they trying to get you into a 3some...
    so its that simple bruh?.. Like 4 real.. U stayin with this person, so yall gots to have strong feelings and then ya bf, blood sweat and tears, does dirt like that and u simply say kick em out and move on?..naw, not that easy

    It's not that simple but it ain't that hard either....regardless of how I feel about our history, if you show me you're no longer worth trusting and keeping around, then bye...peace...get the fuck out
  • lamontbdclamontbdc Posts: 12,996
    Naw don't do it. My girl let her friend stay with us for a week and shit wasn't cool for real. Had me nervous and shit b/c half the time slim was just half naked in the house. Im going to get something to drink on the late night and she's in the kitchen breasts jumping out her tank top and boy shorts on. I'm telling my girl that her friend is walking around our crib like she wants me to fuck. She half naked so don't be mad at me if i'm looking. Not to mention my daughter is in the spot i told her she needs to check her friend b/c her friend trying to get me to check something.

    my girl doesn't even talk to slim anymore
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,355
    NYCeeCee wrote: »
    Oh, blackrain, stop. LOL! Of course you'd be forced to turn that negative into a positive in order to not go crazy....but initially your heart would be in 480920 pieces and you'd be ready to kill both of them.

    btw, you're making really good points, but that was ridiculous. LOL!

    nah it wouldn't...i've actually had someone I consider a friend go after a girl I was with...we knew each other from ages 8-18...best friends...couldn't keep us from hanging out...niggas thought we'd be friends for life...haven't spoken to him since we were 18 for what he did...shit didn't affect me one bit...

    but to me the real issue wouldn't even be her friend, like I said a couple times already, why in the hell would my woman think I'm that stupid to fuck her best friend with them literally sleeping in the same place...that's just dumb...
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,355
    lamontbdc wrote: »
    Naw don't do it. My girl let her friend stay with us for a week and shit wasn't cool for real. Had me nervous and shit b/c half the time slim was just half naked in the house. Im going to get something to drink on the late night and she's in the kitchen breasts jumping out her tank top and boy shorts on. I'm telling my girl that her friend is walking around our crib like she wants me to fuck. She half naked so don't be mad at me if i'm looking. Not to mention my daughter is in the spot i told her she needs to check her friend b/c her friend trying to get me to check something.

    my girl doesn't even talk to slim anymore

    see that's what I'm talking about...slim wasn't your girl's friend if she was putting on for you like that...
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 13,355
    kat2180 wrote: »
    Yeah they're tripping .

    That would be devastating.

    Nope...wouldn't be devastating at all...i'd be thankful
  • twinzmomtwinzmom Posts: 1,038
    kat2180 wrote: »
    But to have to come to that realization all at once would be too much..I'd probably snap.
    NYCeeCee wrote: »
    Oh, blackrain, stop. LOL! Of course you'd be forced to turn that negative into a positive in order to not go crazy....but initially your heart would be in 480920 pieces and you'd be ready to kill both of them.

    btw, you're making really good points, but that was ridiculous. LOL!
    Yeah you two are probably right, so it's may be best just to avoid the whole situation.


    But then I would think if he/they do it so close to home, it would be nothing to be out in the streets doing it. .........Iono
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