Are men done trying to pursue women? (interesting read)

Ioniz3dSPIRITZ · February 2012

I Am Jay Pee wrote:

I been saying this for years. ugly or average girls acting stuck-up. I know people have freedom of choice or desperation, but damn your ugly you should be entertaining everything from below average to above average, unless they are weirdos. Girls acting like Nikki Minaj. Shit is absurd. Then these chicks have tha audacity to entertain a boring ugly fellow saying he has a nice personality. Which basically means they think they can have some form of control over the poor simp.

lol at the nikki minaj comment. Shit is absurd and its like living in the twilight. I decided to go out sat for the first time in months and I thought my eyes were playing tricks on me. mediocre bitches with the most funkiest attitudes and even worse simp ass niggas desperately trying to get wit em. Shit was wack

kai_valya · February 2012

Niggersauce wrote: »

The simps and sorry hoes going to cry when a real man say it, but outside of sexual interest there is no way in hell female companionship>male companionship.

If women didnt have vaginas they would be ignored and phased out of the species as males are the superior gender. Without the pussy there is no power.

ummm, how exactly would y'all procreate? and according to evolution, men are the gender of the species that is not really needed. your y-chromosome, which is what makes a male a male, has lost 1,393 of its 1,438 original genes over the course of its existence (meaning there's only 45 genes left). with a rate of genetic loss of 4.6 genes per million years, the Y chromosome may potentially lose complete function within the next 10 million years.

Mr.Bocario · February 2012

Knives Amilli wrote: »

I agree with the premise to an extent and only read like 20% of the article....

But Ima keep it real....

I currently have no interest whatsoever in pursuing bitches, playing the field, playing the game whatever you wanna call it. My last bout with dating just tore all of the energy and excitement (and admittedly a little bit of my confidence smh) about all of it out of me. I haven't been out clubbing or drinking or anything in like two months. And I never was a "get at bitches thru FB type of person". So I just be chilling really....

But I don't think id ever get to the point of calling escorts or using dolls (especially the dolls thing).

I don't believe in fate or destiny, but in this case, hopefully the odds are in my favor next time I go out or whatever and something just falls in my lap cuz ill be damned if you catch me out here looking....

. Its no point in stressin over chicks especially when your young, they'll be there when your here they'll be there when your gone, but remember its in your natural instincts to always be looking.

Ioniz3dSPIRITZ · February 2012

kai_valya wrote:

Niggersauce wrote: »

The simps and sorry hoes going to cry when a real man say it, but outside of sexual interest there is no way in hell female companionship>male companionship.

If women didnt have vaginas they would be ignored and phased out of the species as males are the superior gender. Without the pussy there is no power.

ummm, how exactly would y'all procreate? and according to evolution, men are the gender of the species that is not really needed. your y-chromosome, which is what makes a male a male, has lost 1,393 of its 1,438 original genes over the course of its existence (meaning there's only 45 genes left). with a rate of genetic loss of 4.6 genes per million years, the Y chromosome may potentially lose complete function within the next 10 million years.

lol thats so irrelevant

BlackThor356 · February 2012

what yall are witnessing is men going from being the hunter to the hunted... as far as relationships go

Niggersauce · February 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

Niggersauce wrote: »

The simps and sorry hoes going to cry when a real man say it, but outside of sexual interest there is no way in hell female companionship>male companionship.

If women didnt have vaginas they would be ignored and phased out of the species as males are the superior gender. Without the pussy there is no power.

ummm, how exactly would y'all procreate? and according to evolution, men are the gender of the species that is not really needed. your y-chromosome, which is what makes a male a male, has lost 1,393 of its 1,438 original genes over the course of its existence (meaning there's only 45 genes left). with a rate of genetic loss of 4.6 genes per million years, the Y chromosome may potentially lose complete function within the next 10 million years.

Yea thats interesting and all but all im focused on your firsf statement. We wouldnt procreate without women, if we could we would. Guys wouldnt even approach or interact with most women outside of family if there wasnt a chance at getting the draws.

Now im not saying every woman is a boring attention whore thats not worth the pussy she sits on, but most are; which is why they place such a high value on the shit.

black caesar · February 2012

The battle of the sexes on the IC never stops. lol

BlackThor356 · February 2012

hol up kai, lets keep it 100 for a second. if there was a male BC pill, i believe the number in new pregnancies wuld plummet worse than the dow jones on 9-12-2001

thats goes to say i dont think niggas care all that much about procreating

Wild Self · February 2012

What it boils down to it is that men want traditional type relationships and women want that 21st century type of relationships (that 50/50 crap). Men stopped pursuing women when they recognize that shit.

haute · February 2012

lmaoooo

nigga don't even care enough about themselves to strap up on a regular basis, but you want to convince me that these same 'logical' and 'responsible' men would take a male birth control regularly and correctly

lol

tell me more about this fairytale

The Lonious Monk · February 2012

I agree with the dude that some chicks do overvalue and "overprice" themselves. I disagree with the dude that a grown man buying a doll and consistently preferring video games over sex isn't a loser.

haute · February 2012

no the men I associate with are fine

but the men here stay complaining about no good women they knocked up

and those same men who complain about the 'no good' women they choose to nut in would still be irresponsible no matter how many choices you give them

but that has to do more with taking personal responsibility

and sense you're more concerned with scape goating the opposite sex instead of just doing you

I'm sure you'll miss the point entirely

Mr.Bocario · February 2012

I thinking people need to realize the dating game is just a bunch of highs and lows. Sometimes your going to go out and every chick you meet is given you play, other days not so much. Whoever wrote this article probably just had a bad day with women, but he'll eventually bounce back, well atleast real men do.

BlackThor356 · February 2012

haute wrote: »

lmaoooo

nigga don't even care enough about themselves to strap up on a regular basis, but you want to convince me that these same 'logical' and 'responsible' men would take a male birth control regularly and correctly

lol

tell me more about this fairytale

lol i understand why u wouldnt get that so imma break it down.

strapping up is something to do "in the moment" no nigga goes to the spot saying "imma nut in this bitch" his hard dick gets the better of him. is that stupid? yes, yes it is.

but taking male BC is something u do when there is no pussy right in front of you. ud prolly take ur pill at some random point during the day when u have a FLACCID penis...and ur always thinkin clearer with a flaccid penis

haute · February 2012

Mr.Bocario wrote: »

I thinking people need to realize the dating game is just a bunch of highs and lows. Sometimes your going to go out and every chick you meet is given you play, other days not so much. Whoever wrote this article probably just had a bad day with women, but he'll eventually bounce back, well atleast real men do.

man I've said many times that this new generation is simply not built for this life

they all (boys and girls) have this idea that you should never go through anything and when you do you have to whine, cry. and die about it

people have been getting their heart broken since the beginning of time, and yet they where able to continue with their lives

people get hurt everyday b

but most sane people take that shot and keep moving

MeTaL · February 2012

haute wrote: »

Mr.Bocario wrote: »

I thinking people need to realize the dating game is just a bunch of highs and lows. Sometimes your going to go out and every chick you meet is given you play, other days not so much. Whoever wrote this article probably just had a bad day with women, but he'll eventually bounce back, well atleast real men do.

man I've said many times that this new generation is simply not built for this life

they all (boys and girls) have this idea that you should never go through anything and when you do you have to whine, cry. and die about it

people have been getting their heart broken since the beginning of time, and yet they where able to continue with their lives

people get hurt everyday b

but most sane people take that shot and keep moving

Right on. Take the loss, keep it moving and live another day. That's how I operate.

BlackThor356 · February 2012

haute wrote: »

Mr.Bocario wrote: »

I thinking people need to realize the dating game is just a bunch of highs and lows. Sometimes your going to go out and every chick you meet is given you play, other days not so much. Whoever wrote this article probably just had a bad day with women, but he'll eventually bounce back, well atleast real men do.

man I've said many times that this new generation is simply not built for this life

they all (boys and girls) have this idea that you should never go through anything and when you do you have to whine, cry. and die about it

people have been getting their heart broken since the beginning of time, and yet they where able to continue with their lives

people get hurt everyday b

but most sane people take that shot and keep moving

yea u say that cuz in ur mind the good outweigh the bad, but once having a girlfriend isnt all that important to a nigga then what?? i think ur so stuck on the fact that men are starting not to want women (relationship wise) is having u feel threatened to the point where u cant even at least acknowledge the point the author was trying to make, but hey...

usmarin3 · February 2012

I don't know about that sex doll fucking shit but i have been saying for the longest "friendships > relationships". I don't need women for nothing other than pussy to be honest, because most women don't offer much beyond that. I find most women unfunny and lacking of personality, the only ones who are tend to be fat and dikes.

It has nothing about having game or being scared to approach women, because i do and i get bitches on a regular.

Like my nigga Patrice Oneal said, "pussy ages like bread, not like wine". These bitches are so interchangeable!

haute · February 2012

BlackThor356 wrote: »

yea u say that cuz in ur mind the good outweigh the bad, but once having a girlfriend isnt all that important to a nigga then what?? i think ur so stuck on the fact that men are starting not to want women (relationship wise) is having u feel threatened to the point where u cant even at least acknowledge the point the author was trying to make, but hey...

not all
i get his point, i just don't agree with the 'woah is me mentality' and that goes for men and women

people like that stay stuck in the same scenario over and over again, because they lack the courage to try a little self improvement before giving up on everything and everyone, I consider it weak no matter who does it.

anyway

if a man doesn't want relationship with a woman it doesn't bother me

you act as if i have date or if acknowledge him

there are literally billions of people in world and i, unlike the author, don't spend time on people who don't want me. I put energy to those who do

BlackThor356 · February 2012

haute wrote: »

BlackThor356 wrote: »

yea u say that cuz in ur mind the good outweigh the bad, but once having a girlfriend isnt all that important to a nigga then what?? i think ur so stuck on the fact that men are starting not to want women (relationship wise) is having u feel threatened to the point where u cant even at least acknowledge the point the author was trying to make, but hey...

not all
i get his point, i just don't agree with the 'woah is me mentality' and that goes for men and women

people like that stay stuck in the same scenario over and over again, because they lack the courage to try a little self improvement before giving up on everything and everyone, I consider it weak no matter who does it.

anyway

if a man doesn't want relationship with a woman it doesn't bother me

you act as if i have date or if acknowledge him

there are literally billions of people in world and i, unlike the author, don't spend time on people who don't want me. I put energy to those who do

see right there, why the nigga gotta be weak?? or have a woah is me mentality?? what if, homie is happy with himself, and has jus made an observation as to how he think the male/female paradigm is shifting

haute · February 2012

lol it is weak

it's just as weak as those waiting to exhale bitches who pretend their good cackling with their friends every night, all the while wishing they had a companion

its weak when bitches do it

and its still weak when men do it

relationships are hard but not complicated, and if you, male or female, constantly find yourself being heartbroken or dissatisfied with relationships, the common denominator is you

so work on you and stop bitching, its not attractive no matter who does it

black caesar · February 2012

haute wrote: »

lol it is weak

it's just as weak as those waiting to exhale bitches who pretend their good cackling with their friends every night, all the while wishing they had a companion

its weak when bitches do it

and its still weak when men do it

relationships are hard but not complicated, and if you, male or female, constantly find yourself being heartbroken or dissatisfied with relationships, the common denominator is you

so work on you and stop bitching, its not attractive no matter who does it

Mos Def is dropping gems. LOL Seriously though, you hit the nail on the head with this post.

BlackThor356 · February 2012

haute wrote: »

lol it is weak

it's just as weak as those waiting to exhale bitches who pretend their good cackling with their friends every night, all the while wishing they had a companion

its weak when bitches do it

and its still weak when men do it

relationships are hard but not complicated, and if you, male or female, constantly find yourself being heartbroken or dissatisfied with relationships, the common denominator is you

so work on you and stop bitching, its not attractive no matter who does it

i see what ur sayin, i jus wont go as far as calling someone weak. if u as a woman come to the realization that relationships jus aint for you, then i think thats a hell of alot stronger then coming to that realization, but still being in relationships cuz u think its what u "should do"

Jamaica · February 2012

Fuck what that article says at some points you just want some female companionship.

Pico Roscoe · February 2012

BlackThor356 wrote: »

what yall are witnessing is men going from being the hunter to the hunted... as far as relationships go

lol ill be damned

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