Are men done trying to pursue women? (interesting read)

BlackThor356 · February 2012

pico rivera wrote: »

BlackThor356 wrote: »

what yall are witnessing is men going from being the hunter to the hunted... as far as relationships go

lol ill be damned

lol hellz yea, so if u want one u betta get ur hustle on!!!

politicalthug202 · February 2012

like I said the problem is alot of woman want the 1950's romance that never existed
with 21st century perks of being woman. I would be fine if woman wanted 50/50
relationship, but these hoes asking for 70/30. I dont conduct buisness that way
and Im sure as well not going to enter a relationship thats not worth the work.

makaveli03 · February 2012

there is nothing wrong with being weak...

kai_valya · February 2012

makaveli03 wrote: »

there is nothing wrong with being weak...

wait, what?

makaveli03 · February 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

makaveli03 wrote: »

there is nothing wrong with being weak...

wait, what?

there is nothing wrong with being weak

NYCeeCee · February 2012

BlackThor356 wrote: »

haute wrote: »

lol it is weak

it's just as weak as those waiting to exhale bitches who pretend their good cackling with their friends every night, all the while wishing they had a companion

its weak when bitches do it

and its still weak when men do it

relationships are hard but not complicated, and if you, male or female, constantly find yourself being heartbroken or dissatisfied with relationships, the common denominator is you

so work on you and stop bitching, its not attractive no matter who does it

i see what ur sayin, i jus wont go as far as calling someone weak. if u as a woman come to the realization that relationships jus aint for you, then i think thats a hell of alot stronger then coming to that realization, but still being in relationships cuz u think its what u "should do"

I don't think she's saying they're weak for choosing to remain single, I think she's saying their REASON for choosing to remain single is weak. Reminds me of the kid who keeps losing the game, so he takes his ball and goes home. You wanna go home, then go home...but don't go home cause you keep losing, you big punk. LOL

BlackThor356 · February 2012

NYCeeCee wrote: »

BlackThor356 wrote: »

haute wrote: »

lol it is weak

it's just as weak as those waiting to exhale bitches who pretend their good cackling with their friends every night, all the while wishing they had a companion

its weak when bitches do it

and its still weak when men do it

relationships are hard but not complicated, and if you, male or female, constantly find yourself being heartbroken or dissatisfied with relationships, the common denominator is you

so work on you and stop bitching, its not attractive no matter who does it

i see what ur sayin, i jus wont go as far as calling someone weak. if u as a woman come to the realization that relationships jus aint for you, then i think thats a hell of alot stronger then coming to that realization, but still being in relationships cuz u think its what u "should do"

I don't think she's saying they're weak for choosing to remain single, I think she's saying their REASON for choosing to remain single is weak. Reminds me of the kid who keeps losing the game, so he takes his ball and goes home. You wanna go home, then go home...but don't go home cause you keep losing, you big punk. LOL

lol what if by losing all the time he realizes that b-ball aint for him. u guys are assuming this man WANTS a relationship, but says "its too hard" what if through is trials with women he realized he dont want relationships period

kai_valya · February 2012

makaveli03 wrote: »

there is nothing wrong with being weak

yeah there is, regardless of gender

makaveli03 · February 2012

BlackThor356 wrote: »

NYCeeCee wrote: »

BlackThor356 wrote: »

haute wrote: »

lol it is weak

it's just as weak as those waiting to exhale bitches who pretend their good cackling with their friends every night, all the while wishing they had a companion

its weak when bitches do it

and its still weak when men do it

relationships are hard but not complicated, and if you, male or female, constantly find yourself being heartbroken or dissatisfied with relationships, the common denominator is you

so work on you and stop bitching, its not attractive no matter who does it

i see what ur sayin, i jus wont go as far as calling someone weak. if u as a woman come to the realization that relationships jus aint for you, then i think thats a hell of alot stronger then coming to that realization, but still being in relationships cuz u think its what u "should do"

I don't think she's saying they're weak for choosing to remain single, I think she's saying their REASON for choosing to remain single is weak. Reminds me of the kid who keeps losing the game, so he takes his ball and goes home. You wanna go home, then go home...but don't go home cause you keep losing, you big punk. LOL

lol what if by losing all the time he realizes that b-ball aint for him. u guys are assuming this man WANTS a relationship, but says "its too hard" what if through is trials with women he realized he dont want relationships period

this is where people are overlooking wayy too much in the article..the article is bringing awareness of WHY this shit is happening, its not about the author...its the author explaining the logic of WHY the shit is happening, but niggas in here jumping like kangaroos to conclusions

makaveli03 · February 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

makaveli03 wrote: »

there is nothing wrong with being weak

yeah there is, regardless of gender

nope, nothing wrong with it

kai_valya · February 2012

makaveli03 wrote: »

nope, nothing wrong with it

if you say so. but evolution and your entire existence says otherwise. only the strong survive

makaveli03 · February 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

makaveli03 wrote: »

nope, nothing wrong with it

if you say so. but evolution and your entire existence says otherwise. only the strong survive

everybody dies...so it doesnt matter

haute · February 2012

but he isn't saying he doesn't want relationships because they are not for him

he's saying that he doesn't want them because he has a problem with women

saying basketball isn't for me is a little different from saying basketball isn't for me because the other team is constantly whooping my ass

BlackThor356 · February 2012

haute wrote: »

but he isn't saying he doesn't want relationships because they are not for him

he's saying that he doesn't want them because he has a problem with women

saying basketball isn't for me is a little different from saying basketball isn't for me because the other team is constantly whooping my ass

not true...he his merely pointing out the reason why relationships are a waste of time in todays society

kai_valya · February 2012

makaveli03 wrote: »

everybody dies...so it doesnt matter

well why don't you save yourself the trouble and kill yourself now?

Niggersauce · February 2012

usmarin3 wrote: »

I don't know about that sex doll fucking shit but i have been saying for the longest "friendships > relationships". I don't need women for nothing other than pussy to be honest, because most women don't offer much beyond that. I find most women unfunny and lacking of personality, the only ones who are tend to be fat and dikes.

It has nothing about having game or being scared to approach women, because i do and i get bitches on a regular.

Like my nigga Patrice Oneal said, "pussy ages like bread, not like wine". These bitches are so interchangeable!

Well after a real and thorough post like this i dont think i have anything else to contribute.

LOL @" there is nothing wrong with being weak"

Lookin lovely kai

makaveli03 · February 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

makaveli03 wrote: »

everybody dies...so it doesnt matter

well why don't you save yourself the trouble and kill yourself now?

because I dont have a reason to

kai_valya · February 2012

Niggersauce wrote: »

Well after a real and thorough post like this i dont think i have anything else to contribute.

LOL @" there is nothing wrong with being weak"

Lookin lovely kai

thanks hun.

and i too would like to know how exactly there is nothing wrong with being weak.

i can def see how weak men would lose interest in pursuing women. one can only take so much rejection

Lil Loca · February 2012

I beg to differ that a man can get the same social needs met by another man. Typically, men are more repressed to express their feelings and be able to contemplate them. Through women, men are able to be more in touch with their feelings and express that side of themselves, rather than with a male friend, socially, that is.

makaveli03 · February 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

Niggersauce wrote: »

Well after a real and thorough post like this i dont think i have anything else to contribute.

LOL @" there is nothing wrong with being weak"

Lookin lovely kai

thanks hun.

and i too would like to know how exactly there is nothing wrong with being weak.

i can def see how weak men would lose interest in pursuing women. one can only take so much rejection

1.Weak is relative
2. Weakness has nothing to do with someones worth as a person
3. The article is not about rejection, but about effort vs reward

BlackThor356 · February 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

Niggersauce wrote: »

Well after a real and thorough post like this i dont think i have anything else to contribute.

LOL @" there is nothing wrong with being weak"

Lookin lovely kai

thanks hun.

and i too would like to know how exactly there is nothing wrong with being weak.

i can def see how weak men would lose interest in pursuing women. one can only take so much rejection

or one culd only take so much shit from these hoes and doesnt find it beneficial to put in the effort to find someone half way worth it

NYCeeCee · February 2012

BlackThor356 wrote: »

NYCeeCee wrote: »

BlackThor356 wrote: »

haute wrote: »

lol it is weak

it's just as weak as those waiting to exhale bitches who pretend their good cackling with their friends every night, all the while wishing they had a companion

its weak when bitches do it

and its still weak when men do it

relationships are hard but not complicated, and if you, male or female, constantly find yourself being heartbroken or dissatisfied with relationships, the common denominator is you

so work on you and stop bitching, its not attractive no matter who does it

i see what ur sayin, i jus wont go as far as calling someone weak. if u as a woman come to the realization that relationships jus aint for you, then i think thats a hell of alot stronger then coming to that realization, but still being in relationships cuz u think its what u "should do"

I don't think she's saying they're weak for choosing to remain single, I think she's saying their REASON for choosing to remain single is weak. Reminds me of the kid who keeps losing the game, so he takes his ball and goes home. You wanna go home, then go home...but don't go home cause you keep losing, you big punk. LOL

lol what if by losing all the time he realizes that b-ball aint for him. u guys are assuming this man WANTS a relationship, but says "its too hard" what if through is trials with women he realized he dont want relationships period

That's fine if he genuinely doesn't want a relationship, but that's not what I got from the excerpts and responses in this thread. It seems to me that he does want a relationship but is/was too weak to handle the relationship/pursuit downs, so he pulled the same ol' "women are changing/they expect too much blah blah blah" rhetoric out of his ass to mask his weakness. Instead of smartening up, he gave up. Some men have these problems, others don't. Same goes for women.

haute · February 2012

Young-Ice wrote: »

haute wrote: »

but he isn't saying he doesn't want relationships because they are not for him

he's saying that he doesn't want them because he has a problem with women

saying basketball isn't for me is a little different from saying basketball isn't for me because the other team is constantly whooping my ass

He actually doesn't speak about his own stance (situation or w.e.) on the issue of dating at all in the article, he just tries to rationalize why men are opting out of dating and provide some possible explanation in accordance to the Japanese studies and the anecdotal evidence he has provided.

What reason does it matter what someone chooses not to do things for, if in the end it ultimately means the same thing: They dislike it?

I don't want to date because I don't want to put in all that work just to lose half my shit VS I don't want to date because I'm seeking inner peace... it's all the same shit

and all of his reason had to do with what women do or don't do,

if you nevr mentioned women at all, you'd have a point

but his whole reasoning centers around women not personal development

haute · February 2012

haute wrote: »

Young-Ice wrote: »

haute wrote: »

but he isn't saying he doesn't want relationships because they are not for him

he's saying that he doesn't want them because he has a problem with women

saying basketball isn't for me is a little different from saying basketball isn't for me because the other team is constantly whooping my ass

He actually doesn't speak about his own stance (situation or w.e.) on the issue of dating at all in the article, he just tries to rationalize why men are opting out of dating and provide some possible explanation in accordance to the Japanese studies and the anecdotal evidence he has provided.

What reason does it matter what someone chooses not to do things for, if in the end it ultimately means the same thing: They dislike it?

I don't want to date because I don't want to put in all that work just to lose half my shit VS I don't want to date because I'm seeking inner peace... it's all the same shit

and all of his reason had to do with what women do or don't do,

if he'd never mentioned women at all, you'd have a point

but his whole reasoning centers around women not personal development

Niggersauce · February 2012

The rules of the dating game will change but meaningful relationships will always be around. Just like as you age you start to really see who your real friends are and what a real friend is, you discover the same guidelines about potential partners.

Its not the end of the world, everything has to change eventually. There is alot of change going on in EVERY "system" we have right now and its making people uncomfortable; as change often does.

I've learned to embrace change.

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