Tell your S/O to Lose some Damn Weight

Gnawledgeable · March 2012

If you been with them for awhile and they start to gain weight, how would you let them know that it can become an issue? If they were overweight/chubby when you first met them, I don't think you should try to change them later because you accepted it from the start.

Theodis · March 2012

take her to the gym with you.
play sports with her.
take her to a free class of cardio kickboxing.

act like you doing it for you, but you really doing it for her.

J-GUTTA · March 2012

Thulsa Doom wrote: »

take her to the gym with you.
play sports with her.
take her to a free class of cardio kickboxing.

act like you doing it for you, but you really doing it for her.

working out with the S/O is woat, broads only want to stay less than an hour on the tread mill at that and if you work out with them it's the constant teaching techniques. Never again yo.

kai_valya · March 2012

well if you date fitness freaks to begin with you won't have to worry about this.

i'm my own biggest critic tho, if i was getting fat/chunky, i wouldn't need someone to tell me, i'd know it already

.American Loo · March 2012

i like girls that are size conscious.

because I try to stay looking right too.

bignorm · March 2012

Both me and mine are big.

Difference is , i work out every day and walk/job at least 3 miles a day/5 days a week.

I guess you cant really control what they do.

black caesar · March 2012

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

I wouldn't want him to work out with me.

I would like him to know wtf I'm talking about when I say no carbs.

How do you NOT know what has carbs in it? Fucking skinny people.

Damn Kat you sounding like Monique on some skinny people are evil shit. LOL Did a skinny person tease you?

black caesar · March 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

well if you date fitness freaks to begin with you won't have to worry about this.

i'm my own biggest critic tho, if i was getting fat/chunky, i wouldn't need someone to tell me, i'd know it already

I agree. That's why working out in a gym is the best place to meet a woman. Not only you're taking care of your body, but you know the lady is too.

Only thing worse than on obese woman is a obese woman that smokes. That says to me she doesn't give a shit about herself.

.American Loo · March 2012

i was dating this chick...i just know she gonna be big.

right now, her youth is combating most of the fat for her

but once that metabolism slows she not gonna wanna be in the gym tough. if you find it too much to work out with no kids and no real job, imagine how little motivation you gonna have when those things come into play

Du_Du · March 2012

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

How are you big and run 3 miles 5 times a week plus work out?

Just saying.

drink a lotta beer....

Law Trafalgar · March 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

well if you date fitness freaks to begin with you won't have to worry about this.

i'm my own biggest critic tho, if i was getting fat/chunky, i wouldn't need someone to tell me, i'd know it already

Dat avi

bignorm · March 2012

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

How are you big and run 3 miles 5 times a week plus work out?

Just saying.

I clearly said walk/jog.

I was a college O Lineman. You aint gonna be naturally big, and try to get bigger until you turn 22,
then, all the sudden be small.

Plus it to control my blood sugar. Its a necessity.

Nosey ass.

caddo man · March 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

well if you date fitness freaks to begin with you won't have to worry about this.

i'm my own biggest critic tho, if i was getting fat/chunky, i wouldn't need someone to tell me, i'd know it already

This right here! My wife gets a little chubby I am cool cause eventually she will. But if she get like her cousins and other family members, we got a problem. But she is on hers and has always done it.

If she has never exercise a day in her life, she never will.

kai_valya · March 2012

SuperstarCole wrote: »

Dat avi

lol, don't know whether to be offended or flattered, i'll pick the latter

NYCeeCee · March 2012

Thulsa Doom wrote: »

take her to the gym with you.
play sports with her.
take her to a free class of cardio kickboxing.

act like you doing it for you, but you really doing it for her.

I agree with this. If you have kids, make everyone in the house do it too.

.American Loo · March 2012

I've found with fitness, like quitting smoking, can only work in the long run if the person truly wants it.

Talking and working out with your partner is good

But it'll won't last past 6 weeks if they aren't motivated from within. Which is why its best to get with someone already on your level health wise.

HATCHIGO · March 2012

Currently going thru this right now, the resentment I feel for her is immense. It almost seems like that one issue has exaggerated every other flaw. I honestly think I should have started speaking up earlier (as soon as I noticed it) cos now I don't see how we can be the same

black caesar · March 2012

HATCHIGO wrote: »

Currently going thru this right now, the resentment I feel for her is immense. It almost seems like that one issue has exaggerated every other flaw. I honestly think I should have started speaking up earlier (as soon as I noticed it) cos now I don't see how we can be the same

Oh well shit happens. You can do better.

caddo man · March 2012

I walk with my wife but I am a runner so walking just kinda of irritates me. That is why I am happy as hell that my wifes friends come with us. Run my 3 miles and get back before they hit half way.
I had P90X and me and the wife was doing it. She didnt do half the shit they want you to do.
She wont do a full push up.
wont attempt a pull up.
and the yoga parts she loves to say "There is no reason for me to even attempt that"
So working out with her pisses me off but at least she is doing it.

.American Loo · March 2012

HATCHIGO wrote: »

Currently going thru this right now, the resentment I feel for her is immense. It almost seems like that one issue has exaggerated every other flaw. I honestly think I should have started speaking up earlier (as soon as I noticed it) cos now I don't see how we can be the same

How long yall been together and how big is she

kai_valya · March 2012

DRO3000 wrote: »

@kai_valya .. WHERE IS THE REST OF YOUR ARM? DID YOU LOSE IT OR SOMETHING?

lol, no. it's just how the picture was cropped, and i think my hair is covering it

mindright · March 2012

working out with your girl is woat like someone mentioned earlier..

I have no problem telling my chick if she's getting fat and she needs to go to the gym. She may not like the message, but hey, I'm only being real and for her, I would expect the same thing if I let myself go and get fat, but that will never happen, but if it did, I'd appreciate the heads up and honesty.

a.mann · March 2012

we try to be each other on point

but it's a battle tho

and she's trooper just last weekend she hit the treadmill with my 25lbs weight vest

health issues and kids aside, there's just know excuse for a woman to be fat and sloppy

a.mann · March 2012

DRO3000 wrote: »

OK, WHATS MEN EXCUSE THEN?

it's a man's world

kai_valya · March 2012

men, no matter how fat or unattractive they are, all think that they deserve the hottest chicks

a.mann · March 2012

we didn't make that rule up

women did actually

why's that ya say?

D.A.D. that's why

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