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What is the male perspective when it comes to dating

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  • a.manna.mann Posts: 13,347
    let's just keep a hunnid


    ain't know woman just walking around handing niggas pussy at their whim,
    unless she's a PURE whore



    if that's the case, well sometimes you get what you pay for
    u. motion
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  • -Vincenzo--Vincenzo- Posts: 3,375
    a.mann wrote: »
    let's just keep a hunnid


    ain't know woman just walking around handing niggas pussy at their whim,
    unless she's a PURE whore



    if that's the case, well sometimes you get what you pay for

    nah, if they think you hot, you dont have to come out of your pocket
    u. motiona.mann
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  • numbaz...80's babynumbaz...80's baby Posts: 19,939
    It's not burden. I need to know what she's about.
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  • Got Em ShookGot Em Shook Posts: 1,398
    Last Of My Kind wrote:
    like really taking a woman you just met on a traditional date, do you feel like its a burden to a man? I think every dudes idea of a date is over the crib, maybe drinks, movie, smash.
    thats my normal routine

    Wild Self
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  • Wild SelfWild Self Posts: 3,599
    usmarin3 wrote: »
    lighthearted25 wrote: »
    Lol at drinks and dinner being the same as tricking, you cheap bastards. What if it's Mickey D's? Do yall still prefer 50/50 on the dollar menu?

    When's the last time your ass payed for a date, i bet you can recite your drivers license number before you can think of that date. Women are beyond fucking cheap skates, having the nerve to speak about spending money.

    I remember when my college roommate told me about how chicks are using that dinner as free meals, I stopped taking them out to eat and certainly stopped taking them out to movies. If a woman does not offer any financial assistance, then she is jumpoff status and not worthy of my time outside of sex. Women who are cheap are most likely entitled people that use others to get ahead. Stop feeding the troll.
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  • Dr.ChemixDr.Chemix Posts: 8,381
    explain this thing called "dating"

    I am thoroughly confused for I have never dated in my life

    da doc is listening...
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  • rocketsrockets Posts: 435
    if a guy wants to chill or hang out at the "crib" that would probably be the last time I speak to him. Dating means going out to dinner talking and getting to know each other one on one. Not chilling with the fellas. That is the problem with uges today. they act like bitches. The woman is not trying to impress you. You are trying to impress her. therefore the guy should be trying his best to plan something SHE would like and he would feel comfortable with. This applies only to those looking for something serious. If you like a woman you try your hardest to make her comfortable and special.
    Shuffington
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  • aneed123aneed123 Posts: 9,974
    its just depends on the stage of life u at. In high school and college pussy was a plenty and u were in the same vicinity and a plethora to choose from so u really aint have to date or pay for shit. It was pretty much holla , get number/convo and kick/come over =fuck. The older u get that shit go away lol. U gonna pay for something unless its a chick that liked u back in the day or some fluke shit
    tru_m.a.c
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  • Dr.ChemixDr.Chemix Posts: 8,381
    rockets wrote: »
    if a guy wants to chill or hang out at the "crib" that would probably be the last time I speak to him. Dating means going out to dinner talking and getting to know each other one on one. Not chilling with the fellas. That is the problem with uges today. they act like bitches. The woman is not trying to impress you. You are trying to impress her. therefore the guy should be trying his best to plan something SHE would like and he would feel comfortable with. This applies only to those looking for something serious. If you like a woman you try your hardest to make her comfortable and special.

    I can dig it...but its 2012...the ball bounces on both sides of the court when it comes to impressing. That's why I don't date, it comes across like it's a courtesy to a woman...I'm not performing juggling acts and swallowing fire for her entertainment. She should be jumping through rings of fire, IF I'm doing that...
    kAjUnWild Self
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  • aneed123aneed123 Posts: 9,974
    Dr.Chemix wrote: »
    rockets wrote: »
    if a guy wants to chill or hang out at the "crib" that would probably be the last time I speak to him. Dating means going out to dinner talking and getting to know each other one on one. Not chilling with the fellas. That is the problem with uges today. they act like bitches. The woman is not trying to impress you. You are trying to impress her. therefore the guy should be trying his best to plan something SHE would like and he would feel comfortable with. This applies only to those looking for something serious. If you like a woman you try your hardest to make her comfortable and special.

    I can dig it...but its 2012...the ball bounces on both sides of the court when it comes to impressing. That's why I don't date, it comes across like it's a courtesy to a woman...I'm not performing juggling acts and swallowing fire for her entertainment. She should be jumping through rings of fire, IF I'm doing that...

    I feel u. once a female like u tho she will pay.
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  • Raging RavenRaging Raven Posts: 8,342
    ItsKatBitches wrote: »
    I'd prefer not to do the traditional date thing at first for that exact reason.

    Lets meet for drinks, at the park, at the mall, whatever it takes for you NOT to think I owe you shit.

    Don't spend a man's money then and you will not have to worry about him thinking you owe him shit.Common sense men take women out for the soul purpose of a sexual relationship,if you don't plan to fuck eventually then stay your ass at home.
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  • Raging RavenRaging Raven Posts: 8,342
    ItsKatBitches wrote: »
    If I don't feel comfortable to be myself around a man after the first month at least, then he's not the one.

    Nothing beats feeling at ease that very first time ya'll hang out though..it makes it feel like it's destined.

    Get the fuck out of here like you never had a one night stand with a guy who's name you barely knew.If it was destined then you and every other woman would be married and had no more than 2-3 sex partners because after you gain a little experience with en you would not sleep with anyone else unless it was as you say DESTINED.
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  • Raging RavenRaging Raven Posts: 8,342
    usmarin3 wrote: »
    NYCeeCee wrote: »
    usmarin3 wrote: »
    a.mann wrote: »
    drinks or dinner

    never movies on a 1st date


    on another note, what up with dudes whining about coming out they pockets a lil?

    ain't yo daddy taught you gotta pay to play?

    unless you looking for a wife or life partner, don't be disheatened when the average chick don't pay her "fair share" on a night out when all you want from her is ass and pussy

    Nope, my daddy thought me to not trick on bitches and that if a chick likes you money and what you can do for her won't be in the equation. Then again my folks are from an era where men and women build together and women weren't concerned with a mans financial portfolio.

    @usmarin , do you honestly see that as "tricking" ? You've never payed for a platonic male friend's meal?

    It's tricking when it's not a 50/50 thing and lets be real most the time it's not 50/50 when it comes to paying for stuff. I'm sorry that wooing nonsense went down the train once women got on the independent shit, you lost the right to that years ago. Don't talk about what you got and can do for yourself except when it comes to chipping in.

    Women are the cheapest creatures on Earth, they love spending money as long as it's not theirs on a guy.

    Yes i've picked up plenty of bar tabs for my boys before, but they've done the same more me. We are not trying to make a come up off of each other like how dating can be.
    All true,women still expect special treatment even though they cry about wanting equality.
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  • Dr.ChemixDr.Chemix Posts: 8,381
    If I hear "lets meet for drinks"

    It tells me the chick is fast, has a history, and/or I'm fucking that day...

    If I'm going out on a date and the first place is the bar, I really not thinking you to be wifey material for real

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  • kAjUnkAjUn Posts: 1,962
    a.mann wrote: »
    on another note, what up with dudes whining about coming out they pockets a lil?

    ain't yo daddy taught you gotta pay to play?

    unless you looking for a wife or life partner, don't be disheatened when the average chick don't pay her "fair share" on a night out when all you want from her is ass and pussy

    my pops told me regardless you coming out of pocket

    whether it's gas to go see her ass, buying shit to make sure you look good, or something

    he said it's the AMOUNT in which you spend that defines where you are tricking or not

    niggas would rather spend their money to see strippers than to take a bitch out on a date

    ain't that some ass backwards shit

    if your feelings hurt cause i'm talking about you you can drop dead nigga
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  • kAjUnkAjUn Posts: 1,962
    Dr.Chemix wrote: »
    rockets wrote: »
    if a guy wants to chill or hang out at the "crib" that would probably be the last time I speak to him. Dating means going out to dinner talking and getting to know each other one on one. Not chilling with the fellas. That is the problem with uges today. they act like bitches. The woman is not trying to impress you. You are trying to impress her. therefore the guy should be trying his best to plan something SHE would like and he would feel comfortable with. This applies only to those looking for something serious. If you like a woman you try your hardest to make her comfortable and special.

    I can dig it...but its 2012...the ball bounces on both sides of the court when it comes to impressing. That's why I don't date, it comes across like it's a courtesy to a woman...I'm not performing juggling acts and swallowing fire for her entertainment. She should be jumping through rings of fire, IF I'm doing that...

    i totally agree with you doc

    but you ain't got to do all that to impress a chick

    if you do then it must mean she really didn't like your ass that much to begin with
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  • ShuffingtonShuffington Posts: 2,537
    Im pretty hesitant about taking a new chick to my favorite spots... especially my favorite eating spots...

    I might find flaws in her aura that forces me to abort mission...Or I might just want to beat skeet and leave...

    I dont want to run into that old chick at my favorite spots.


    A good idea would be to try some new new shyt that, the both of you are unfamiliar with. You can get a good sense of how people act when they're in an unfamiliar habitat.
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  • black caesarblack caesar Posts: 5,428
    ItsKatBitches wrote: »
    I'd prefer not to do the traditional date thing at first for that exact reason.

    Lets meet for drinks, at the park, at the mall, whatever it takes for you NOT to think I owe you shit.

    I do what's called a meet and greet. No drinks, no dinner, no movies. Parks, museums or other things. This way if I'm not feeling her or vice versa, we can both leave without going through the chore. If it works out, then there will be fun times to be had.
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  • black caesarblack caesar Posts: 5,428
    taeboo wrote: »
    usmarin3 wrote: »
    a.mann wrote: »
    drinks or dinner

    never movies on a 1st date


    on another note, what up with dudes whining about coming out they pockets a lil?

    ain't yo daddy taught you gotta pay to play?

    unless you looking for a wife or life partner, don't be disheatened when the average chick don't pay her "fair share" on a night out when all you want from her is ass and pussy

    Nope, my daddy thought me to not trick on bitches and that if a chick likes you money and what you can do for her won't be in the equation. Then again my folks are from an era where men and women build together and women weren't concerned with a mans financial portfolio.

    When did buying a woman a drink or a meal become tricking?

    Since some women are at the bar to quench their thirst. I'm not buying a drink for a woman I just met in a lounge/bar.

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  • black caesarblack caesar Posts: 5,428
    black caesar wrote: »
    ItsKatBitches wrote: »
    I'd prefer not to do the traditional date thing at first for that exact reason.

    Lets meet for drinks, at the park, at the mall, whatever it takes for you NOT to think I owe you shit.

    I do what's called a meet and greet. No drinks, no dinner, no movies. I'll take her to Parks, museums or other things for the first time.. This way if I'm not feeling her or vice versa, we can both leave without going through the chore. If it works out, then there will be fun times to be had.


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  • .American Loo.American Loo Posts: 303
    The irony is, the less you spend on a date usually the more fun you have.

    But only a few will understand that.
    black caesarNYCeeCee
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  • black caesarblack caesar Posts: 5,428
    .American Loo wrote: »
    The irony is, the less you spend on a date usually the more fun you have.

    But only a few will understand that.

    If she's really feeling you, it won't matter where you take her.
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