My good friend for like 20 years is getting married in a couple months. Now for about as long as they have been dating/engaged, he's pretty much been lying about every aspect of his life. He tells her that he's a VP of a small business, but he really just works at the company, that consists of 3 people. The owner is never there, so all my friend does is go to the office and sleep. He tells her that he is heavily involved in local politics, but thats not true either. He had told her that he didn't use drugs, but he got arrested and had to admit to it ,but told her that he stopped. but he hasn't. hence the sleeping at 'work' I could go on and on about the lie that he's living to her. If she knew who he really was, she'd hate him. I dont care for him anymore b/c i know he's a liar, but like i said, he's been a friend since kindergarten. But his mom just died, well died in december so anytime he gets called out on something, it always goes back to that. So, should i spare this girl (that i don't know that well) the heartache of her finding out his real life after they've already got married? I feel bad just watching a series of events take place, knowing how it will end up. I could really do them both a favor, but i'd probably lose a friend and he'd probably do something crazy if i ruined his lie. Plus, i already paid $180 for a tux to be in the wedding. Is it worth it to be the whistleblower, or should continue to sit back and watch two people get married, based on nothing but lies?
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gotta look out for that poor girl, here she is expecting some big pay day
when your buddy just lug in the machine
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3 • Wack Feelings Nosign 3Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •If she's willing to marry a dude that is living a complete lie, it says alot about her intelligence as well.
It's called fact-checking (or maybe due dilligence). Either way, all those lies you listed could easily be exposed by her if she took the time to get to know her future life partner.
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6 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether 1GOAT 4LOL •i'd swoop in that very day, to be honest with you. but nah, i only met her once they started dating
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •i guess probably a 'best friend' from about age 6 to maybe 20. during/after college didn't hang out as much. and still don't. but there is no hostility or anything like that. its just getting older, ya dig?
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •You beat me to it, you got a shit load of negative things to say about him but you saying he ya friend.
Maybe you dont choose such good friends sir.
Either way, if she cant figure out all this basic shit about this nigga but she gone get married to him, she probably deserves it, let them figure they own bullshit out
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •thats my incilnation, either she knows and is willing to accept it just to save face and have her wedding and hoping to change him one day or she's a complete moron and she may never know. i guess i gain more but doing nothing.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •The truth hurts, but it will save intense heartache later down the road.
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-5 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •let them do what they do...
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2 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether 1GOAT LOL •I think he's going to experince more than heartache if he snitch on his boy
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Maybe the fiancé will have a forgiving spirit and will be willing to reconcile with the dude.
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2 • Wack Feelings Nosign 1Cosign Ether GOAT 1LOL •This. She can get an annulment later due to fraud but it's not your place to inform her.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •no. he's a fucking liar!!! i called him out on it a while back and he just kept lying and i decided it wasn't worth it. fuck him and fuck his wedding and fuck you from causing all these repressed emotions of mine to surface!!!
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0 • Wack 4Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •This. You dont know her and she may have a idea he is lying but F--- it! She may not even believe you.
Just give them a toaster that matches your kitchen setup. You will be getting it back soon.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Why didn't you just tell dude you didn't want to be in his wedding when he asked you?
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •I was just talking about this to someone. Its ridiculous and I do it too...b/c I feel bad. smh
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