My good friend for like 20 years is getting married in a couple months. Now for about as long as they have been dating/engaged, he's pretty much been lying about every aspect of his life. He tells her that he's a VP of a small business, but he really just works at the company, that consists of 3 people. The owner is never there, so all my friend does is go to the office and sleep. He tells her that he is heavily involved in local politics, but thats not true either. He had told her that he didn't use drugs, but he got arrested and had to admit to it ,but told her that he stopped. but he hasn't. hence the sleeping at 'work' I could go on and on about the lie that he's living to her. If she knew who he really was, she'd hate him. I dont care for him anymore b/c i know he's a liar, but like i said, he's been a friend since kindergarten. But his mom just died, well died in december so anytime he gets called out on something, it always goes back to that. So, should i spare this girl (that i don't know that well) the heartache of her finding out his real life after they've already got married? I feel bad just watching a series of events take place, knowing how it will end up. I could really do them both a favor, but i'd probably lose a friend and he'd probably do something crazy if i ruined his lie. Plus, i already paid $180 for a tux to be in the wedding. Is it worth it to be the whistleblower, or should continue to sit back and watch two people get married, based on nothing but lies?
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