Fellaz you ever meet a nice girl but the only problem is her sexual past.

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  • Lurker6Lurker6 Posts: 3,226
    If a tree falls in the forest and no ones around, does it make noise?

    yes..........
  • NYCeeCeeNYCeeCee Posts: 1,691
    MrsWest wrote: »
    NYCeeCee wrote: »
    MrsWest wrote: »

    So basically she admitted to sleeping with 2 men. I'm confused...

    No, he's pulling a sales technique and trying to say stuff about himself to see if she can relate.

    Him: I slept around to get over my ex
    Her: Yeah, thats not good...I did that too and it didn't work.

    He's making mental notes and she's thinking they have a lot in common. hahaha!!!




    I saw that but she basically only admitted to having one random hookup that bit her in the ass with a boyfriend.
    Oh, I just reread and saw that too. My bad. LOL!
  • MrsWest wrote:
    NYCeeCee wrote: »
    MrsWest wrote: »

    So basically she admitted to sleeping with 2 men. I'm confused...

    No, he's pulling a sales technique and trying to say stuff about himself to see if she can relate.

    Him: I slept around to get over my ex
    Her: Yeah, thats not good...I did that too and it didn't work.

    He's making mental notes and she's thinking they have a lot in common. hahaha!!!




    I saw that but she basically only admitted to having one random hookup that bit her in the ass with a boyfriend.

    yes but see Im getting details about her sexual past,if I aksed her straight up
    did she ever have a random hook up, she would probably not give me the real answer.

    I just keep giving her these indirect made up stories and gather more info
    to see if she gets put, inthe jumpoff,dating,temporary girlfriend or wifey category
  • -Vincenzo--Vincenzo- Posts: 3,375
    Im not digging,I just ask them indirect question that make them tell on they self.
    heres a Q and A session,I just had with this rich white girls.

    me: yeah my homie just broke up with his girl bcuz he found she was sluty college.
    her: OMG thats so dumb everybody has a past guys need to get over themselves. she was only 19

    me: yeah after my last break up I had alot of random hook ups to get over it.
    her: thats never good,I did that once and it caused problems in my new relationship,because both guys knew each other.

    both these stories are made up by me just to get her reaction fellaz take notes

    also drunk text.

    See..not discreet, and why would you say that to a dude you're trying to get with?

    Rule #1: Don't fuck in circles.

    kat a dude that gets with you, just doesnt give a fuck about it and i dont mean it as a disrespect. if you meet a 30 something y/o chubby white single mother who loves black dudes, you really dont need to ask anything. no offense but dont be so naive.

    the men you meet know you aint mother teresa, just as they know you dont look like megan fox, but guess what not every man will find a super attractive good girl, you have to get in where you fit in at the end of the day.
    ItsKatBitchesalmighty breeze

  • It's not that I want it to be acceptable to be a hoe, it just really irritates me that men think that they can act on any whim they might have in their youth and that's acceptable, but let a girl have a few encounters and she's a fucking hoe. I mean really?

    So I save myself for a man, give him this pure gift just to know that he's done it all before me? FUCK that.

    You can call me a hoe, I don't give a shit but I have no regrets about experiencing some of the things I did before settling down, cause I know my man wasn't holding out for me either.

    Women are just as much to blame for that setup as anyone. Let's be real, a lot of the dudes that continue to get the most pussy are also the dudes that are known to have gotten the most pussy. In other words, no matter how high a guy's body count is, he's still going to be desirable to a lot of women. That's not our fault. We don't control what ya'll like or where ya'll draw the line. Women are free to adopt the same attitude. If dudes are walking around saying they aren't wifing up anything with a count in double digits, females could play the same game. But ya'll won't because at the end of the day, how many chicks a guy has slept with isn't as important to you. And that's fine. It doesn't have to be high on your priority list, but why should it irritate you when it's high on a guy's? Sure there is some hypocrisy there. I can see that. However, it's hypocrisy that is that has basically been sanctioned by women.
    BigBallsNoWorries
  • -Vincenzo--Vincenzo- Posts: 3,375
    lol @ vince trying to hurt my feelings cause I hurt his.

    Don't worry, keep hope alive that you will find your virginal princess Vince...there's hope yet.

    you really long enough in the game to know your lane, it is what it is kat...
  • Really it doesn't matter to me.

    I choose not to adhere to that double standard and I've still got a good man with a logical head on his shoulders so in the long run I don't really give a fuck either way.

    It's still some bullshit though.


    I just think it's funny when women whine about shit like that. When it comes to sex and relationships, ya'll have all the power. Unless, a dude is out there raping chicks, he has to play by the female's rules to get what he wants. Ya'll willingly choose to give up that power and willingly allow dudes to play the game however they want and then get mad because it doesn't work out in your favor. Shit doesn't make sense to me.

    At the end of the day, everyone has to realize actions have consequences. If you're a female and want to a good man, you shouldn't live your life like a slut because the consequences are that a lot of good dudes probably won't want you. Sure, you can argue that it should be the same for a man, but it simply isn't. Lots of dudes can fuck any and everything and still expect to find a decent chick. Is that a double standard or unfair? Maybe, but it's reality, and that's where we all live.
    -Vincenzo-redhandedbandit
  • mindrightmindright Posts: 2,127
    I think the problem is u, not them..
    almighty breeze
  • desertrain10desertrain10 Posts: 1,979
    there's plenty of men who don't care how many men their lady has been with or even more men who don't even ask ..

    i know plenty of them... a lot of male friends and co workers have told me they don't care or don't ask, i guess ignorance is bliss... and i've been in 3 serious relationships myself and 2 of 3 of my ex never even asked about how many men i had slept with...the one who didn't took my virginity

    i get that some people don't want to be w/ the town bike or don't want to end up getting into a relationship w/ someone who they deem morally inferior or untrustworthy... but as i get older and mature, as long as i know they are clean a person's sexual past has less significance for me...i think its because i careless what people think, i know people change and i have come to realize its hard to find someone who you click with who also treats you right and has somewhat of a good head on their shoulders....
    ItsKatBitches-Vincenzo-
  • Apparently the definition of a good man is subjective.

    To me, a good man is someone who plays fair.

    lol @ plays fair. Since when is expecting something and bringing that same thing to the table playing fair? A 5'5 chick may want a dude that's taller than her. Is she not playing fair because she's not checking dudes that are 5'5 too.

    I understand what you're saying, but you're going a little far if you believe a dude wanting a chick that hasn't been run through means he's not a good man.

  • Almost did that shit this winter. Cuffing season is real yall. Red flags all over her personality and past. But she was so damn cool.



    And she fuck so damn good.

  • nex ginnex gin Posts: 4,313
    Notice all the ladies responses...smdh. Take that girl power stuff to the PR. You cannot act like a man and still be considered a lady. Sorry but that double standard is going nowhere anytime soon. By my count ya'll got men beat 2 million to 10 on double standards anyway. Let a nigga live.
    ItsKatBitchesblakfyahkingMr.ForteBigBallsNoWorries
  • .IRS..IRS. Posts: 8,074
    Things aren't as cut and dry as we'd like.
    Young-Ice
  • MrsWestMrsWest Posts: 2,081
    The thing is, girls have said numerous times, on here alone, that they'd rather have sex with someone who they have feelings for. So if the girls are only mostly having sex with people they have attachment too then how'd they get so many notches?

    This is definitely true for me, but my body count isn't high at all. The thing is, I think it's hypocritical to do ho things but expect your spouse, or whatever, to be virginal. If OP wasn't sleeping with 3 girls at the same time, maybe he'd have some room to talk.
  • nex ginnex gin Posts: 4,313
    The thing is, girls have said numerous times, on here alone, that they'd rather have sex with someone who they have feelings for. So if the girls are only mostly having sex with people they have attachment too then how'd they get so many notches?

    Because alot of them think w/ their emotions and not their brains. A lot of times men will pursue until they get what they want...then lose interest once they conquer (hit it). W/in that time, the women are growing emotionally attached while the men are just pursuing the next nut. Then there are the women who give it up early & fall in love after having sex w/ a man. In the man's mind "we just kicking it"...in the females mind "things are getting deep and emotional.....he could be the one". The women are running around equating sex w/ a deeper emotional connection and w/ some men sex is just that.....sex. Women in pursuit of love often go about finding it the wrong way......ie giving up the pussy to try and lock down the man. Of course this doesn't apply to all men & women...but you get the idea.
    MrsWestJohn_Blazini
  • MrsWestMrsWest Posts: 2,081
    nex gin wrote: »
    The thing is, girls have said numerous times, on here alone, that they'd rather have sex with someone who they have feelings for. So if the girls are only mostly having sex with people they have attachment too then how'd they get so many notches?

    Because alot of them think w/ their emotions and not their brains. A lot of times men will pursue until they get what they want...then lose interest once they conquer (hit it). W/in that time, the women are growing emotionally attached while the men are just pursuing the next nut. Then there are the women who give it up early & fall in love after having sex w/ a man. In the man's mind "we just kicking it"...in the females mind "things are getting deep and emotional.....he could be the one". The women are running around equating sex w/ a deeper emotional connection and w/ some men sex is just that.....sex. Women in pursuit of love often go about finding it the wrong way......ie giving up the pussy to try and lock down the man. Of course this doesn't apply to all men & women...but you get the idea.

    I have to agree with every word typed here.
  • .IRS..IRS. Posts: 8,074
    MrsWest wrote: »
    The thing is, girls have said numerous times, on here alone, that they'd rather have sex with someone who they have feelings for. So if the girls are only mostly having sex with people they have attachment too then how'd they get so many notches?

    This is definitely true for me, but my body count isn't high at all. The thing is, I think it's hypocritical to do ho things but expect your spouse, or whatever, to be virginal. If OP wasn't sleeping with 3 girls at the same time, maybe he'd have some room to talk.

    Men readily admit, if pussy is being thrown their way, and all things are looking good, everything is a go. And so when they encounter girls who don't mind throwin it about, of course they'll say they take it. What average man wouldn't? Especially when females are the ones callin the shots. They see it as not letting shit go to waste.
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    next gin hit the nail on the head.

    the game is cold, and it doesnt leave much room for emotion
    John_Blazini
  • Mr.BocarioMr.Bocario Posts: 416
    Nah, but I will get mad at a girl, if she is known to be easy but, wants me to play the bf/simp role
  • John_BlaziniJohn_Blazini Posts: 11,678
    nex gin wrote: »
    The thing is, girls have said numerous times, on here alone, that they'd rather have sex with someone who they have feelings for. So if the girls are only mostly having sex with people they have attachment too then how'd they get so many notches?

    Because alot of them think w/ their emotions and not their brains. A lot of times men will pursue until they get what they want...then lose interest once they conquer (hit it). W/in that time, the women are growing emotionally attached while the men are just pursuing the next nut. Then there are the women who give it up early & fall in love after having sex w/ a man. In the man's mind "we just kicking it"...in the females mind "things are getting deep and emotional.....he could be the one". The women are running around equating sex w/ a deeper emotional connection and w/ some men sex is just that.....sex. Women in pursuit of love often go about finding it the wrong way......ie giving up the pussy to try and lock down the man. Of course this doesn't apply to all men & women...but you get the idea.

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  • MrsWestMrsWest Posts: 2,081
    MrsWest wrote: »
    The thing is, girls have said numerous times, on here alone, that they'd rather have sex with someone who they have feelings for. So if the girls are only mostly having sex with people they have attachment too then how'd they get so many notches?

    This is definitely true for me, but my body count isn't high at all. The thing is, I think it's hypocritical to do ho things but expect your spouse, or whatever, to be virginal. If OP wasn't sleeping with 3 girls at the same time, maybe he'd have some room to talk.

    Men readily admit, if pussy is being thrown their way, and all things are looking good, everything is a go. And so when they encounter girls who don't mind throwin it about, of course they'll say they take it. What average man wouldn't? Especially when females are the ones callin the shots. They see it as not letting shit go to waste.

    Yeah, but the are born with self control. I don't see "I do it because I can" as much of an excuse.
  • Louis CipherLouis Cipher Posts: 3,949
    Hmmm at you having a problem with what are probably the female equivalents of yourself.

    co fuckin sign.

    lol @ this dude hating on cool ass females cause they had a little fun in their youth JUST LIKE HE DID and still is..what you close to 30 now PT?

    just smh..ya'll are so delusional and I hope you end up old and alone because of it.

    this double standard isnt ever gonna change. chances are...especially with the #'s so in favor of men out here...he'll have his pick of women whenever he chooses to settle down...

    women should be mindful...and Kat...you are...of this fact
  • .IRS..IRS. Posts: 8,074
    MrsWest wrote: »

    Yeah, but the are born with self control. I don't see "I do it because I can" as much of an excuse.
    Yes they are, and they have to use it until one of them girls gives it up. Where as females, they don't normally have to hold it in, they drop their drawers and males can sense it.

    @Kat I don't recall specifically


  • Louis CipherLouis Cipher Posts: 3,949
    Soul Clapa wrote: »
    I'm dealing with this right now b

    Shorty just turned 29 2 weeks ago and has fucked 48 dudes including me, No bullshit she told me this is a deep drunk confessional talk after I banged it out da box,she tellin me she loves me and Im the one

    She wants me to be the captain that saves her it's laughable to say the least

    i feel what youre saying..you mind set changes as you get older...im almost 40 so i dont think like i did 10 years ago..back then i probably thought just like you...but at my age all these women gonna have mileage...i just dont ask...as long as you clean...and you #'s stop with me...

    im good...

    but ofcourse everybody doesnt think like me...
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