Ladies: I met this girl that made me break my rules (help me out)

Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
edited April 2012 in The Powder Room
well fuggit
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  • major painmajor pain Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭✭
    ...goddamn pick up your emotions off the floor nigga..

    has it occurred to you maybe she doesnt even realize you're "ignoring" her?

    if you want to make more of it.. then do it. you sounding real childish right now.
    jay83
  • #1 pick#1 pick Posts: 3,926 ✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2012
    Emotions my nigga. Been there done that. For some reason, niggas on the IC want everyone to be emotionless zombies. Fuck them niggas. Anyway, I agree with Em, she's conflicted with you and someone else. I been there before. If she can't give you 100% you might as well stay single. Shit pointless unless you just in it to cut which clearly ain't the case.
    HyenaKillaFroHawke
  • major painmajor pain Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Wtf @ all these dudes answering..coulda sworn title said LADIES.

    What was the OP?

    oh hush...
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    Smellin like perfume in this bitch.

    my dude

    thread title clearly said LADIES and you still sashayed your bitch ass in here to see what was being said.

    but yo, thanks to everybody else that gave a real response. i havent taken a chick serious in going on 3 years so its like i'm reentering new territory.
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    Wtf @ all these dudes answering..coulda sworn title said LADIES.

    What was the OP?

    Basically, I actually started taking this one chick seriously and the reaction is less than satisfactory in my eyes. chicks i show less attention to seem to be more attentive. i fell back a little bit and her interest increased. this all confused me.
  • KaiKai evil nerd bitch from hell Posts: 21,505 Regulator

    what rules did she make you break and how/why did you do so?
    Cabana_Da_Don
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    kai_valya wrote: »
    what rules did she make you break and how/why did you do so?

    For the most part, I dont really catch feelings for women or go out of my way to make them feel special. But honestly, i was so drawn into her beauty and personality, i said, "fuck it. court her." so i did. even brought her lunch at work, which I've NEVER done.

    she said she enjoys everything but i hear from her far less than the chicks i do nothing for. i found myself thinking about her too much so i just erased her number and started doing me again. THATS when she texts me like, "youre such a great guy. i need you to know that."

    its just a very roller coaster situation when you involve feelings.
  • major painmajor pain Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭✭
    c'mon man...

    shit looks like this... if she were showing you more attention you wouldnt be as concerned with her

    the fact she isnt blowing you up makes you erase her number

    this is the kind of emotional rollercoaster females go through bruh... the real question is wtf do you REALLY want out of her and then go from there.
    #1 pick
  • ocelotocelot Posts: 9,745 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Nigga brought her lunch tho...
    HyenaKilla-Vincenzo-gns
  • CopperCopper The WickPosts: 38,916 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Loo.Loo wrote: »
    kai_valya wrote: »
    what rules did she make you break and how/why did you do so?

    For the most part, I dont really catch feelings for women or go out of my way to make them feel special. But honestly, i was so drawn into her beauty and personality, i said, "fuck it. court her." so i did. even brought her lunch at work, which I've NEVER done.

    she said she enjoys everything but i hear from her far less than the chicks i do nothing for. i found myself thinking about her too much so i just erased her number and started doing me again. THATS when she texts me like, "youre such a great guy. i need you to know that."

    its just a very roller coaster situation when you involve feelings.

    yeah one of those situations where a girl gives attention one minute then u dont hear from her for a while. Sorta in that dilema myself met a girl we talked. she gave me the number the next day and brought me food her work schedule is busy so is mine so didnt hear from her in a while but call her and asked to take her out she like yeah Imma call u back and then doesnt (so I put it off as her being busy) see her the next day and shes like call me or text me later...and its been like a big run around for a few weeks now...im almost like fuck it
  • FroHawkeFroHawke Posts: 1,114
    Women will fuck you up with that. Generally it takes them to see you with other females for them to snap 'to' attention. She's possibly just underrating you or something.
  • Iheart~CaliIheart~Cali Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭✭✭
    You and her are playing the same game. She's smart enough to know that men like a challenge so she's trying not to make herself too available. Meanwhile you're erasing her number because of it. Just like you she doesn't want to put herself out there in case her feelings aren't reciprocated. Maybe you have to be another female to recognize the m.o. but that's definitely what she's doing. You're gonna have to take that risk and be the first to put yourself out there. Trust me she's interested, so she's trying to play it cool because she knows guys are automatically more interested in something they can't readily have. And the fact that she was on your mind enough for you to even make this thread means that what she's doing is working :)
    Loo.Looa.mannnumbaz...80's baby
  • Cabana_Da_DonCabana_Da_Don Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Take her out on a date.AND SHUT THE FUCK UP.
    DaBullDWOnumbaz...80's baby
  • CopperCopper The WickPosts: 38,916 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Take her out on a date.AND SHUT THE FUCK UP.

    lmao...
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    Women will fuck you up with that. Generally it takes them to see you with other females for them to snap 'to' attention. She's possibly just underrating you or something.

    She shouldn't. I've smashed a few people she knows.
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    You and her are playing the same game. She's smart enough to know that men like a challenge so she's trying not to make herself too available. Meanwhile you're erasing her number because of it. Just like you she doesn't want to put herself out there in case her feelings aren't reciprocated. Maybe you have to be another female to recognize the m.o. but that's definitely what she's doing. You're gonna have to take that risk and be the first to put yourself out there. Trust me she's interested, so she's trying to play it cool because she knows guys are automatically more interested in something they can't readily have. And the fact that she was on your mind enough for you to even make this thread means that what she's doing is working :)

    Very interesting, makes a lot of sense, too.

    Thanks Cali.
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    Ever consider straight out telling her how you feel and seeing if she feels the same?

    I've considered it, but it may be too soon for a talk that serious.
  • KaiKai evil nerd bitch from hell Posts: 21,505 Regulator
    Loo.Loo wrote: »
    kai_valya wrote: »
    what rules did she make you break and how/why did you do so?

    For the most part, I dont really catch feelings for women or go out of my way to make them feel special. But honestly, i was so drawn into her beauty and personality, i said, "fuck it. court her." so i did. even brought her lunch at work, which I've NEVER done.

    she said she enjoys everything but i hear from her far less than the chicks i do nothing for. i found myself thinking about her too much so i just erased her number and started doing me again. THATS when she texts me like, "youre such a great guy. i need you to know that."

    its just a very roller coaster situation when you involve feelings.

    maybe she's just trying to take things slow. if a woman is worth it, you should definitely be going out of your way. but you don't want the chicks you do nothing for, you want (or wanted) her. unless she is showing absolutely no interest, i think you're making too big a deal of this.

    how long did she go without contacting you when you deleted her number? if you really think this girl is worth it, don't get dissuaded so easily.
  • ocelotocelot Posts: 9,745 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Go for it... The best that could happend is she's wifey and the mother of your children...
    Worse... Just another girl
    Loo.Loo
  • FroHawkeFroHawke Posts: 1,114
    I've found that there just isn't a right way to approach this. You can strike for gold now and she'd accept your advances or pull back....or you can continue playing the game until she gets fed up or she throws herself at you.

    I'd just go for it man. I'm usually always nihilistic like that. Life is short, take chances.
    Loo.Loo
  • Loo.LooLoo.Loo Posts: 682
    kai_valya wrote: »
    Loo.Loo wrote: »
    kai_valya wrote: »
    what rules did she make you break and how/why did you do so?

    For the most part, I dont really catch feelings for women or go out of my way to make them feel special. But honestly, i was so drawn into her beauty and personality, i said, "fuck it. court her." so i did. even brought her lunch at work, which I've NEVER done.

    she said she enjoys everything but i hear from her far less than the chicks i do nothing for. i found myself thinking about her too much so i just erased her number and started doing me again. THATS when she texts me like, "youre such a great guy. i need you to know that."

    its just a very roller coaster situation when you involve feelings.

    maybe she's just trying to take things slow. if a woman is worth it, you should definitely be going out of your way. but you don't want the chicks you do nothing for, you want (or wanted) her. unless she is showing absolutely no interest, i think you're making too big a deal of this.

    how long did she go without contacting you when you deleted her number? if you really think this girl is worth it, don't get dissuaded so easily.

    not long, less that 2 days.

    truthfully, i'm not used to having to "chase" someone. but you're giving good advice.
  • KaiKai evil nerd bitch from hell Posts: 21,505 Regulator
    Loo.Loo wrote: »
    kai_valya wrote: »
    Loo.Loo wrote: »
    kai_valya wrote: »
    what rules did she make you break and how/why did you do so?

    For the most part, I dont really catch feelings for women or go out of my way to make them feel special. But honestly, i was so drawn into her beauty and personality, i said, "fuck it. court her." so i did. even brought her lunch at work, which I've NEVER done.

    she said she enjoys everything but i hear from her far less than the chicks i do nothing for. i found myself thinking about her too much so i just erased her number and started doing me again. THATS when she texts me like, "youre such a great guy. i need you to know that."

    its just a very roller coaster situation when you involve feelings.

    maybe she's just trying to take things slow. if a woman is worth it, you should definitely be going out of your way. but you don't want the chicks you do nothing for, you want (or wanted) her. unless she is showing absolutely no interest, i think you're making too big a deal of this.

    how long did she go without contacting you when you deleted her number? if you really think this girl is worth it, don't get dissuaded so easily.

    not long, less that 2 days.

    truthfully, i'm not used to having to "chase" someone. but you're giving good advice.

    silly ass, 2 days that's it? i thought you were talking like a few weeks. imo, i think she's just trying to gauge your feelings towards her. i don't think she's playing games, just trying to be careful. if you really like her, just take the time to get to know her as a person, and then let her know how you feel and what you want. what's the worst that could happen?
  • BiblicalAtheist BiblicalAtheist Prude OutskirtsPosts: 11,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Quit stressing and go with the flow.
  • Cabana_Da_DonCabana_Da_Don Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Nigga you still here and hasn´t asked her on a date.You lost her b.
  • hawk dhawk d Posts: 328 ✭✭✭
    Loo.Loo wrote: »
    kai_valya wrote: »
    Loo.Loo wrote: »
    kai_valya wrote: »
    what rules did she make you break and how/why did you do so?

    For the most part, I dont really catch feelings for women or go out of my way to make them feel special. But honestly, i was so drawn into her beauty and personality, i said, "fuck it. court her." so i did. even brought her lunch at work, which I've NEVER done.

    she said she enjoys everything but i hear from her far less than the chicks i do nothing for. i found myself thinking about her too much so i just erased her number and started doing me again. THATS when she texts me like, "youre such a great guy. i need you to know that."

    its just a very roller coaster situation when you involve feelings.

    maybe she's just trying to take things slow. if a woman is worth it, you should definitely be going out of your way. but you don't want the chicks you do nothing for, you want (or wanted) her. unless she is showing absolutely no interest, i think you're making too big a deal of this.

    how long did she go without contacting you when you deleted her number? if you really think this girl is worth it, don't get dissuaded so easily.

    not long, less that 2 days.

    truthfully, i'm not used to having to "chase" someone. but you're giving good advice.

    ....................................I was actually on ur side like damn I feel this guy....then I saw TWO DAYS.....nigga go kill yourself lol it probably wasnt even a whole 48 hours either
    Copperjay83
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