Why Dudes Change During A Pregnancy?

Gnawledgeable · April 2012

We know women get most of the heat when they were stupid to be messin' with dudes that they shouldn't have in the first place. Well what about the good, thorough chicks? I often hear a dude changes when they are pregnant, so ladies explain specific changes you noticed.

Maybe niggas out here pokin' holes in they own rubbers. Are they knockin these chicks up because she looks good that they wanna cuff her or keep her around? They too weak to control their nut? They see havin' multiple babymamas as having trophies?

John_Blazini · April 2012

biggyboy_karl wrote: »

I often hear a dude changes when they are pregnant

Da fuck.

what he said..............

Gnawledgeable · April 2012

Ya'll never heard females say that? Everything is good before she pregnant then the guy's either act bossy, insecure, etc. I know females in here been through it.

I be thinkin' ya'll be fuckin' ugly broads with fat ass that when ya'll knock her up, you're ashamed of her ugliness that you become a deadbeat. Lmao

bgoat · April 2012

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

Ya'll never heard females say that? Everything is good before she pregnant then the guy's either act bossy, insecure, etc. I know females in here been through it.

I be thinkin' ya'll be fuckin' ugly broads with fat ass that when ya'll knock her up, you're ashamed of her ugliness that you become a deadbeat. Lmao

I hear women say the get more emotional because of the hormonal change....Niggas don't deal with emotions that well.

Jamaica · April 2012

He act passive aggressive because he probably don't want to have a kid at the moment.

taeboo · April 2012

bgoat wrote: »

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

Ya'll never heard females say that? Everything is good before she pregnant then the guy's either act bossy, insecure, etc. I know females in here been through it.

I be thinkin' ya'll be fuckin' ugly broads with fat ass that when ya'll knock her up, you're ashamed of her ugliness that you become a deadbeat. Lmao

I hear women say the get more emotional because of the hormonal change....Niggas don't deal with emotions that well.

This. I was an emotional wreck when I was pregnant. I could be sweet one minute and the next be a complete asshole then a crying mess right after that. My son's father at times couldn't handle it.

Gnawledgeable · April 2012

Lol. So it's females on faults that men are leaving them?

7figz · April 2012

They change because they're about to be broke.

caddo man · April 2012

Sometimes the enormity of the situation hits you. The first time I was hit with that news I cowarded out. Never hit the chick back, even though I found out months later. She wrote me and the letter didnt get to me until six months later. It was a old saying that when a dude sleeps alot, he got someone preggers. I slept all the time during that period.

But when my son was born. I was already married and ready. A times her mood swings drove me up the wall but I was ready. Her family was very supportive.

Gnawledgeable · April 2012

caddo man wrote: »

Sometimes the enormity of the situation hits you. The first time I was hit with that news I cowarded out. Never hit the chick back, even though I found out months later. She wrote me and the letter didnt get to me until six months later. It was a old saying that when a dude sleeps alot, he got someone preggers. I slept all the time during that period.

But when my son was born. I was already married and ready. A times her mood swings drove me up the wall but I was ready. Her family was very supportive.

You married another woman or the female who had your son?

I wonder why dudes coward out when they know the possibilities or agreed to have the child. I will say if she said she had a shot and didn't take it at all or at the times when she's supposed to then I'll be mad as hell.

ScumbagSwag · April 2012

if anything the female changes, dependin on the girl postpartum depression is a mofo brah

32DaysOfInfiniti · April 2012

Its a pretty obvious change in life, and a man who bust a nut in a girl he is not married too is obviously not the best with commitment... I dont know, why do you think they change?

caddo man · April 2012

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

caddo man wrote: »

Sometimes the enormity of the situation hits you. The first time I was hit with that news I cowarded out. Never hit the chick back, even though I found out months later. She wrote me and the letter didnt get to me until six months later. It was a old saying that when a dude sleeps alot, he got someone preggers. I slept all the time during that period.

But when my son was born. I was already married and ready. A times her mood swings drove me up the wall but I was ready. Her family was very supportive.

You married another woman or the female who had your son?

I wonder why dudes coward out when they know the possibilities or agreed to have the child. I will say if she said she had a shot and didn't take it at all or at the times when she's supposed to then I'll be mad as hell.

I married another woman. The other girl supposedly had a abortion.

PRIAPISM. · April 2012

i'm pregnant now
my husband has gained weight and sleeps a lot, he's not he-motional or nothin like that.
it may just be because i'm cooking more for myself so he's eating more, and i'm sleeping more so he is too.

Max. · April 2012

Titangraph

I cant even lie i got this chick preg recently..i was fuckn raw(i knew she could get preg) she said she took the pill the next day fast forward couple weeks im n bed wit this mex bitch..n my phone was getting blown up..i keep my phone n my closet tho so bitches dontt be going threw my shit..neways when i woke up from a nap i read that text..my heart dropped nh...she got a abortion tho recently..she works 2 jobs n school so i knew she wasnt gona keep it..funny ting is she was wit her ex for 6 years n he never got her preg..im wit her for a month n did..

Gnawledgeable · April 2012

You niggas probably lucky they got an abortion, also the pills don't work any more.

The Prodigalson · April 2012

Max-b wrote: »

Titangraph

I cant even lie i got this chick preg recently..i was fuckn raw(i knew she could get preg) she said she took the pill the next day fast forward couple weeks im n bed wit this mex bitch..n my phone was getting blown up..i keep my phone n my closet tho so bitches dontt be going threw my shit..neways when i woke up from a nap i read that text..my heart dropped nh...she got a abortion tho recently..she works 2 jobs n school so i knew she wasnt gona keep it..funny ting is she was wit her ex for 6 years n he never got her preg..im wit her for a month n did..

Seems like here ex was the smart man.

bgoat · April 2012

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

You niggas probably lucky they got an abortion, also the pills don't work any more.

Birth control, morning after pills, or the abortion pills???

The Prodigalson · April 2012

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Just because a man isn't carrying the baby doesn't mean he's not going through a life-changing event along with the mother.

True. When my wife was pregnant with my daughter seems like I took all the symptoms she was suppose to have. I'm like what the fuck.

Gnawledgeable · April 2012

bgoat wrote: »

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

You niggas probably lucky they got an abortion, also the pills don't work any more.

Birth control, morning after pills, or the abortion pills???

Lol. Morning after pills better work or I will sue! They worked for me, I mostly hear birth control pills don't work because females don't take them consistantly when they're supposed to. They need a birth control shot like morena, depo, whatever hell they're called.

The Prodigalson · April 2012

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

The Prodigalson wrote: »

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

Just because a man isn't carrying the baby doesn't mean he's not going through a life-changing event along with the mother.

True. When my wife was pregnant with my daughter seems like I took all the symptoms she was suppose to have. I'm like what the fuck.

lol @ ya'll crying over Lifetime movies together.

Naw shawty, Prod don't do life time yo. I just took on the sickness and keen sense of smell.

bgoat · April 2012

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

bgoat wrote: »

Gnawledgeable wrote: »

You niggas probably lucky they got an abortion, also the pills don't work any more.

Birth control, morning after pills, or the abortion pills???

Lol. Morning after pills better work or I will sue! They worked for me, I mostly hear birth control pills don't work because females don't take them consistantly when they're supposed to. They need a birth control shot like morena, depo, whatever hell they're called.

Those shots blow yo ass up. Well that's what my ex told me.

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