Ladies.... Do You Believe In the saying "Nice Guys Finish Last"???

silverfoxx · April 2012

I always wanted to know what females thought about the gentlemen approach that soft sensitive Drizzy guys take. I, myself, always thought the nice guy lane was something great to use on females when i was young until found out that i was suffering from simplokia.

In todays age, i have learn that bitches aint shit, but hoes and tricks, but they are some respectful ladies in this world. But thats a declining number. My approach with females is now more blunt and honest because secretly thats what most girls want, not a nice guy who do anything to worship the puss, but a guy with dignity and respect for her and HIMSELF and knows what he wants.

So ladies, how do u feel about the nice guys? Do you love and respect them? Or do u see them a tricking hoe?

texas409 · April 2012

i was just about to post this on fb

FucktheIC · April 2012

Not a lady, but self-proclaimed nice guys are rarely nice. They just don't have a spine so they do "nice" things in an effort to mortgage the pussy. He's no different than the asshole who does what he does to get the pussy. They're both lames.

silverfoxx · April 2012

texasboi409 wrote: »

i was just about to post this on fb

I never ask questions on FB, niggas and females too sensative their lol

1of1 · April 2012

No useful discussion to be had here. And OP is confused and all over the place.

silverfoxx · April 2012

mostvigorousone wrote: »

No useful discussion to be had here. And OP is confused and all over the place.

And how is that ??? please explain.

texas409 · April 2012

from talking to older folks the statement rings true....chicks in the old days didnt like soft niggas either

silverfoxx · April 2012

texasboi409 wrote: »

from talking to older folks the statement rings true....chicks in the old days didnt like soft niggas either

Actually it depends.... I talked to my grandmother recently trying to explain to her the current social norm in the dating scene. I explained to her how the guy with the blunt "no fucks was given" attitude gets most girls while the guys who chases and over compliment broads gets rare play and and chunks of their manhood stolen. But she explained it was vice versa in her days, so it is all about the time frame imo.

G Mack · April 2012

nice guys usually make themselves finish last......its all about playing your cards right at the end of the day...

Wild Self · April 2012

That became true when people from our generation grew up without fathers. You have to blend in with the assholes to adapt to this world. No be them, but remain a mystery and not be a simp/

UPTOWN CONNEXX · April 2012

doesnt matter if they believe it or not. its true regardless

Feelin_Foolay · April 2012

Just act like the bitches favorite rapper

fiat_money · April 2012

Better question - Hoes: Do you let "nice guys" smash?

Wild Self · April 2012

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

You can be nice without being lame.

Some dudes ignore signs of disinterest and then chalk it up to the chick not wanting a nice guy. Maybe she just didn't want THAT nice guy.

You just need to be in tune to the signals she's giving.

Although I learned from trial and error, a lot of men don't know signals outside of basic body language. Care to educate what signs you make that you are interested in a man? not interested?

kai_valya · April 2012

no

fiat_money wrote: »

Better question - Hoes: Do you let "nice guys" smash?

yes

silverfoxx · April 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

no

fiat_money wrote: »

Better question - Hoes: Do you let "nice guys" smash?

yes

haha bullshit......

fiat_money · April 2012

kai_valya wrote: »

fiat_money wrote: »

Better question - Hoes: Do you let "nice guys" smash?

yes

Okay, so out of all of the niggas that have smashed, what percentage of them have been "nice guys"?

BigBallsNoWorries · April 2012

yo are we talking bout

the stereotypical nice guy, who basically lets ppl walk over him and is a pussy

or the "nice guy" that is so called nice, but he doesnt let them walk over them- cause those r the niggaz that get dem hoes

ay and another thing, bitches r confused as what they want and need

they say they want a nice nigga

then fuck a low down dirty nigga like myself =)

thank you

silverfoxx · April 2012

Wild Self wrote: »

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

You can be nice without being lame.

Some dudes ignore signs of disinterest and then chalk it up to the chick not wanting a nice guy. Maybe she just didn't want THAT nice guy.

You just need to be in tune to the signals she's giving.

Although I learned from trial and error, a lot of men don't know signals outside of basic body language. Care to educate what signs you make that you are interested in a man? not interested?

This... Alot of females expect men to know everything about them, but tbh, most males just dont care about the small little things like females do.

BigBallsNoWorries · April 2012

Wild Self wrote: »

ItsKatBitches wrote: »

You can be nice without being lame.

Some dudes ignore signs of disinterest and then chalk it up to the chick not wanting a nice guy. Maybe she just didn't want THAT nice guy.

You just need to be in tune to the signals she's giving.

Although I learned from trial and error, a lot of men don't know signals outside of basic body language. Care to educate what signs you make that you are interested in a man? not interested?

dog, smh, im..........

should I?

nah let i'll let whole milk do it

speak on it kats

silverfoxx · April 2012

BigBallsNoWorries wrote: »

yo are we talking bout

the stereotypical nice guy, who basically lets ppl walk over him and is a pussy

or the "nice guy" that is so called nice, but he doesnt let them walk over them- cause those r the niggaz that get dem hoes

ay and another thing, bitches r confused as what they want and need

they say they want a nice nigga

then fuck a low down dirty nigga like myself =)

thank you

I think in the long run, females want a bad guy because its a challange for them to "fix" him or because the guy doesnt show any sign of attention to the chick, so the female enjoy the challange of trying to please the guy.

CopperKing · April 2012

to the IC(and most black women) nice means weak
but to the real world nice means respectful

fiat_money · April 2012

Word, when I see the phrase "nice guy" used in these threads, I assume it means "bitch-ass nigga" or something similar.

Wild Self · April 2012

copperkid27 wrote: »

to the IC(and most black women) nice means weak
but to the real world nice means respectful

That's in America. Many of these chicks grew up in fucked up homes. Can't forget that.

texas409 · April 2012

copperkid27 wrote: »

to the IC(and most black women) nice means weak
but to the real world nice means respectful

best post of the thread

ATTS · April 2012

i remember when i was in the 7th grade and was "nice" to girls.....they didnt give me no play......when i started studying other niggas...my brothers and got advice from people.....i dropped the "nice" guy shit and became a bad boy...i got more play....
these bitches out there dont want no nice dude.....they want a bad boy who will take that ass..flip it....fuck them good because they want to say "I changed this guy and made him settle down".....thats what these bitches want........ they want a challenge

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