question for the fellas about cheating

Cutty5000 · April 2012

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

don't try to involve me in that bullshit, I'm not going to lie for you. Friends or not.

What about withholding the truth?

Do you consider that lying?

Lou Cypher · April 2012

All my friends cheat on their GF. all their girlfriends are stupid tho lol.

Du_Du · April 2012

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

What goes on in his marriage has nothing to do with you though. If he's been a good friend to you then that's all that should concern you. Cheating is foul but it doesn't automatically make someone a bad person for doing it. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors between him and his wife.

that's easy to say, but when you're taking a major step in your life, it's common nature to look at those around you and see how they handle the same things.......

now while his relationship isn't my business directly......i'd be dishonest with myself if i said didn't make observations on how he handles his marriage when i began considering marrying my wife......

yes i started looking at a lot of my friends differently, cuz i'm looking at a friend who's been married for like damn near 10 years, and i never would want my marriage to end up like his....sometimes that shit bothers me, cuz i look at him as a close friend...but we can't even see eye to eye on certain shit cuz he just doesn't display the same kinda passion or whatever to his marriage as i try to dedicate towards mines...but the thing is he looks at me like i'm tripping....

so yea.....i threw that shot at him one day, we were talking some serious shit that relied heavily on his word, and i wanted to stress the importance of that shit

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

DRO3000 wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

What goes on in his marriage has nothing to do with you though. If he's been a good friend to you then that's all that should concern you. Cheating is foul but it doesn't automatically make someone a bad person for doing it. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors between him and his wife.

COME ON KIMI.. U THE SAME PERSON THAT SAID YOUR BEST FRIEND GOT HER HUSBAND THINKIN THAT THAT HIS CHILD WHEN IT REALLY AINT.. SOME SHYT U JUST CANT BE CONNECTED TO... THATS COME GRIMEY SHYT

So what's your point? Shes a good friend, has been since waaaay before they even met. It's a sad situation but I don't interfere in anyone else's marriage. My loyalty will always be to my friend. :-??

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

Haul Judos wrote: »

i guess the topic is too misleading, cuz i don't bring that kinda stuff home either....

i'm solely talking how about the dynamics of a friendship can change because yall prioritize things in your lives differently....

me being newly married and having a kid so soon into the marriage, i've changed my going out habits dramatically......

and when i do go out, i've realized i can't really relate to and have fun with some of the guys i hung out with a lot before i made those changes in my life, they just don't relate to those things because they don't prioritize them as much in their lives.....

That makes since, if your friends are still single or behaving like it, it's totally understandable to not hang with them as much.

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

Cutty5000 wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

don't try to involve me in that bullshit, I'm not going to lie for you. Friends or not.

What about withholding the truth?

Do you consider that lying?

I don't have to with hold anything because I'm not close enough to their Men to where they would come to me for info on their wives.

So if a question isn't asked I'm obviously not going to volunteer info.

Green Mamba · April 2012

Du seem like a wack ass friend...
imagine if your so called friends deaded u because u live with your moms...
how a cat deals with hoes doesn't necessarily reflect on what type of friend they are

Du_Du · April 2012

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

DRO3000 wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

What goes on in his marriage has nothing to do with you though. If he's been a good friend to you then that's all that should concern you. Cheating is foul but it doesn't automatically make someone a bad person for doing it. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors between him and his wife.

COME ON KIMI.. U THE SAME PERSON THAT SAID YOUR BEST FRIEND GOT HER HUSBAND THINKIN THAT THAT HIS CHILD WHEN IT REALLY AINT.. SOME SHYT U JUST CANT BE CONNECTED TO... THATS COME GRIMEY SHYT

So what's your point? Shes a good friend, has been since waaaay before they even met. It's a sad situation but I don't interfere in anyone else's marriage. My loyalty will always be to my friend.

but that doesn't' make you question her character at all??

like if she's willing to lie to her husband about some shit like that.....that doesn't make you second guess her in the least in regards to you??

i mean if she took those wedding vows seriously, and completely subscribed to everything they're supposed to symbolized... that means husband/wife>>>>>>bff's in terms of trust, honesty, loyalty, and all that.....

so given all that.... you can realistically say you've never questioned how valid yall friendship really is???

like if it came down to some really important shit, you can throw 100% trust on her word????

Du_Du · April 2012

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

That makes since, if your friends are still single or behaving like it, it's totally understandable to not hang with them as much.

no i'm talking about married friends too....friends who don't hold their relationships to them the same way you hold yours too you....

like if you say

"i gotta get home to my family"

and they on some

"man they be iight, my family home waiting for me too....and they be there when i get there"

Du_Du · April 2012

Green Mamba wrote: »

Du seem like a wack ass friend...
imagine if your so called friends deaded u because u live with your moms...
how a cat deals with hoes doesn't necessarily reflect on what type of friend they are

i'm talking about wives, families, shit like that.. not hoes....

Du_Du · April 2012

DRO3000 wrote: »

Green Mamba wrote: »

Du seem like a wack ass friend...
imagine if your so called friends deaded u because u live with your moms...
how a cat deals with hoes doesn't necessarily reflect on what type of friend they are

***PLAYS MUSIC****

niggaz gonna take shots....shit happens...

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

Haul Judos wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

What goes on in his marriage has nothing to do with you though. If he's been a good friend to you then that's all that should concern you. Cheating is foul but it doesn't automatically make someone a bad person for doing it. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors between him and his wife.

yes i started looking at a lot of my friends differently, cuz i'm looking at a friend who's been married for like damn near 10 years, and i never would want my marriage to end up like his....sometimes that shit bothers me, cuz i look at him as a close friend...but we can't even see eye to eye on certain shit cuz he just doesn't display the same kinda passion or whatever to his marriage as i try to dedicate towards mines...but the thing is he looks at me like i'm tripping....

What does the way he handles his marriage have to do with yours though? I just don't get the correlation.

Now I can see if you didn't want to spend as much time with him because he's out there living like a single Man. But overall, if he's been a good, loyal friend to you over the years, and you cut him off for shit that has nothing to do with you, then I agree....you are trippin

a.mann · April 2012

DRO3000 wrote: »

MY HOMIE (BEST FRIEND) DID HIS GIRL SOOOOOO BAD ONE NIGHT...

I WAS IN TOWN, WE WENT TO THE CLUB.. I WAS RIDING WITH HIM, SO I WAS BASICALLY STUCK.. HE GOES HOME WITH SOME CHICK HE MET AT THE CLUB.. I CRASHED ON HER COUCH.. WE AINT GET HOM TIL 8AM..ALL THE WHILE, HIS GIRL IS AT HOME, WITH HIS MAMA... I TOLD HIM "MAN THATS FUCKED UP".

WHATS CRAZY IS, I WAS COOL WITH HIS GIRL BEFORE I EVEN KNEW HIM

cases like that your "homie"

not only disrepecting his girl but you to

nigga would have dropped me off,specially if he knows I'm cool with his lady like that

niggas like that are to reckless for me

Du_Du · April 2012

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

What goes on in his marriage has nothing to do with you though. If he's been a good friend to you then that's all that should concern you. Cheating is foul but it doesn't automatically make someone a bad person for doing it. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors between him and his wife.

that's easy to say, but when you're taking a major step in your life, it's common nature to look at those around you and see how they handle the same things.......

now while his relationship isn't my business directly......i'd be dishonest with myself if i said didn't make observations on how he handles his marriage when i began considering marrying my wife......

yes i started looking at a lot of my friends differently, cuz i'm looking at a friend who's been married for like damn near 10 years, and i never would want my marriage to end up like his....sometimes that shit bothers me, cuz i look at him as a close friend...but we can't even see eye to eye on certain shit cuz he just doesn't display the same kinda passion or whatever to his marriage as i try to dedicate towards mines...but the thing is he looks at me like i'm tripping....

so yea.....i threw that shot at him one day, we were talking some serious shit that relied heavily on his word, and i wanted to stress the importance of that shit

What does the way he handles his marriage have to do with yours though? I just don't get the correlation.

Now I can see if you didn't want to spend as much time with him because he's out there living like a single Man. But overall, if he's been a good, loyal friend to you over the years, and you cut him off for shit that has nothing to do with you, then I agree....you are trippin

it has nothing to do with my relationship....but it is observed....

anything you're doing major in your life, you're going to look at those close to you to observe how they handle the same things....

well atleast i will...

i have a child now.. so i constantly talk to other people with children especially young children just to get a little advice, or an impression on things...i always thoguht this was natural behavior for people....if i heard about someone who i always considered a close friend doing something crazy with their kids.. yes it's going to change my impression of them....being that i have a child now....i just look at things regarding kids differently than i did before....

same thing with marriage, making my marriage work is very important to me, i put a lot of time, dedication and passion into it....it's a very rewarding experience, i love my wife, and I enjoy where i'm at. however with any relationship or marriage, you're going to have issues and disagreements at times....and again while me and my wife keep our "business" to ourselves....it's still natural to talk to others who are married as well just to get a different look on how they do things.....

and when i start seeing more and more how one of my friends just shits all over his marriage....it jsut kinda bugs me out a little, cuz i really don't know how to digest that....it's not my business, i don't want to tell him what to do with his life.. but i notice an awkwardness there now......i don't really feel comfortable talkign to him about my wife and son, because i don't want to seem like i'm bragging.....

i might have some shit on my mind, or had a rough day, and might wanna go out and do something and he's on some
"man i know what you need, let's go out get some bitches and take them back to the telly"....and i just gotta kinda step back like i'm not on that shit no more.....

i guess i'm just going through a transitional stage and wanted to see if anyone could relate...

Green Mamba · April 2012

if he steady trying to get u to violate your values, yeah thats foul...
i have homies that do dirt, but they never try to pressure me into doing bullshit...
likewise, when I do fuckery I dont try get my friends to be down... the issue is u rolling with dudes trying to bring u down... not that they cheat...

Du_Du · April 2012

i mean i get what she's saying, and i get what everyone else who is throwing the same question is sayin....

but the only response i can give them is that anytime you have really close friends....i thought it was natural for you guys to have like views and relate on certain issues in a similar way....i mean that's the basis for friends...yall basically do the same shit and trip off the same things....

and lately the things that are most important to me in my life, i can't relate to or with at all with those who used to be some of my closest friends...i talk to them every now n then.. it's just a noticeable change.....but whatever..i'm getting tired of trying to explain it

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

Haul Judos wrote: »

anything you're doing major in your life, you're ing to look at those close to you to observe how they handle the same things....

well atleast i will...

i have a child now.. so i constantly talk to other people with children especially young children just to get a little advice, or an impression on things...i always thoguht this was natural behavior for people....if i heard about someone who i always considered a close friend doing something crazy with their kids.. yes it's going to change my impression of them....being that i have a child now....i just look at things regarding kids differently than i did before....

same thing with marriage, making my marriage work is very important to me, i put a lot of time, dedication and passion into it....it's a very rewarding experience, i love my wife, and I enjoy where i'm at. however with any relationship or marriage, you're going to have issues and disagreements at times....and again while me and my wife keep our "business" to ourselves....it's still natural to talk to others who are married as well just to get a different look on how they do things.....

mfortable talkign to him about my wife and son, because i don't want to seem like i'm bragging.....

i might have some shit on my mind, or had a rough day, and might wanna go out and do something and he's on some
"man i know what you need, let's go out get some bitches and take them back to the telly"....and i just gotta kinda step back like i'm not on that shit no more.....

i guess i'm just going through a transitional stage and wanted to see if anyone could relate...

I understand your point, which is why I said its understandable if you don't want to hang out with him since he's out there doing foul shit. But to cut him off completley for it when he's been nothing but a friend is not something I can agree with doing.

If for some reason you feel like you need advice or someone to talk to your marriage about...talk to another friend. *shrugs*
I don't believe in cutting off a close friend because they cease being useful since your life has changed.

No one is perfect, you might have a friend whos faithful but he's an alcoholic, or something to that degree. None of us is without sin, therefore we're in no position to judge.

BoldChild · April 2012

The majority of niggas I associate with cheat on their girls.

It's not my concern.

Du_Du · April 2012

the thing is kimi....i ain't gotta cut him off.....

the shit just wedged on it's own.....

if i try to hang out, or see what's going on....it feels like a forced effort.....

everynow and then we talk for a little....but it's always one of those "catching up with somebody...."type of conversations....like...seriously....how you "catching up" with someone who supposed to be fam??

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

DRO3000 wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

What goes on in his marriage has nothing to do with you though. If he's been a good friend to you then that's all that should concern you. Cheating is foul but it doesn't automatically make someone a bad person for doing it. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors between him and his wife.

that's easy to say, but when you're taking a major step in your life, it's common nature to look at those around you and see how they handle the same things.......

now while his relationship isn't my business directly......i'd be dishonest with myself if i said didn't make observations on how he handles his marriage when i began considering marrying my wife......

yes i started looking at a lot of my friends differently, cuz i'm looking at a friend who's been married for like damn near 10 years, and i never would want my marriage to end up like his....sometimes that shit bothers me, cuz i look at him as a close friend...but we can't even see eye to eye on certain shit cuz he just doesn't display the same kinda passion or whatever to his marriage as i try to dedicate towards mines...but the thing is he looks at me like i'm tripping....

so yea.....i threw that shot at him one day, we were talking some serious shit that relied heavily on his word, and i wanted to stress the importance of that shit

What does the way he handles his marriage have to do with yours though? I just don't get the correlation.

Now I can see if you didn't want to spend as much time with him because he's out there living like a single Man. But overall, if he's been a good, loyal friend to you over the years, and you cut him off for shit that has nothing to do with you, then I agree....you are trippin

it has nothing to do with my relationship....but it is observed....

anything you're doing major in your life, you're ing to look at those close to you to observe how they handle the same things....

well atleast i will...

i have a child now.. so i constantly talk to other people with children especially young children just to get a little advice, or an impression on things...i always thoguht this was natural behavior for people....if i heard about someone who i always considered a close friend doing something crazy with their kids.. yes it's going to change my impression of them....being that i have a child now....i just look at things regarding kids differently than i did before....

same thing with marriage, making my marriage work is very important to me, i put a lot of time, dedication and passion into it....it's a very rewarding experience, i love my wife, and I enjoy where i'm at. however with any relationship or marriage, you're going to have issues and disagreements at times....and again while me and my wife keep our "business" to ourselves....it's still natural to talk to others who are married as well just to get a different look on how they do things.....

and when i start seeing more and more how one of my friends just shits all over his marriage....it jsut kinda bugs me out a little, cuz i really don't know how to digest that....it's not my business, i don't want to tell him what to do with his life.. but i notice an awkwardness there now......i don't really feel comfortable talkign to him about my wife and son, because i don't want to seem like i'm bragging.....

i might have some shit on my mind, or had a rough day, and might wanna go out and do something and he's on some
"man i know what you need, let's go out get some bitches and take them back to the telly"....and i just gotta kinda step back like i'm not on that shit no more.....

i guess i'm just going through a transitional stage and wanted to see if anyone could relate...

FULLY UNDERSTAND WHAT UR SAYING... FRIENDS LIKE THAT AINT GOOD FOR YOU... PLANTIN SEEDS IN YA MIND TO CHEAT.. IVE HAD FRIENDS LIKE THAT.. NIGGAS CALL ME LAME CAUSE I SAY, "NAW, IM GOOD"...

THE THING IS..KIMI KEEP SAYIN WHAT DOES HIS RELATIONSHIP HAVE TO DO WITH YOU..

YOU CAN FLIP THAT AROUND ANYWAY..

WHAT IF YA HOMIE WAS MOLESTING HIS CHILD.. WOULD YOU STILL NOT LET IT AFFECT YOU EVEN THOUGH IT AINT YO BUSINESS?

OF COURSE IT WOULD BOTHER U, CAUSE U DON’T GET DOWN LIKE THAT

Lol....how does molesting his child compare? Come on now Dro....lmao

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean i get what she's saying, and i get what everyone else who is throwing the same question is sayin....

but the only response i can give them is that anytime you have really close friends....i thought it was natural for you guys to have like views and relate on certain issues in a similar way....i mean that's the basis for friends...yall basically do the same shit and trip off the same things....

and lately the things that are most important to me in my life, i can't relate to or with at all with those who used to be some of my closest friends...i talk to them every now n then.. it's just a noticeable change.....but whatever..i'm getting tired of trying to explain it

I have friends who's views differ from mine in many aspects. Your friends don't have to believe everything you do and to put it frankly, I would be bored as hell hanging out and conversing with people who spit my views right back at me...lol.

Now I have wild girlfriends that do all types of shit, I just don't participate and they can't persuade me to do otherwise because I'm not a weak minded person.

With the way your feeling though, you probrably should just cut dude off because being his friend and throwing the shit he does back into his face is self righteous and judgmental as hell.

I guess this is just one of the few subjects we disagree on buddy

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

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Du_Du · April 2012

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean i get what she's saying, and i get what everyone else who is throwing the same question is sayin....

but the only response i can give them is that anytime you have really close friends....i thought it was natural for you guys to have like views and relate on certain issues in a similar way....i mean that's the basis for friends...yall basically do the same shit and trip off the same things....

and lately the things that are most important to me in my life, i can't relate to or with at all with those who used to be some of my closest friends...i talk to them every now n then.. it's just a noticeable change.....but whatever..i'm getting tired of trying to explain it

I have friends who's views differ from mine in many aspects. Your friends don't have to believe everything you do and to put it frankly, I would be bored as hell hanging out and conversing with people who spit my views right back at me...lol.

Now I have wild girlfriends that do all types of shit, I just don't participate and they can't persuade me to do otherwise because I'm not a weak minded person.

With the way your feeling though, you probrably should just cut dude off because being his friend and throwing the shit he does back into his face is self righteous and judgmental as hell.

I guess this is just one of the few subjects we disagree on buddy

i have no reason or desire to cut him off....i just noticed that i don't really be trying to hang with them niggaz no more

Ms.Scorp · April 2012

DRO3000 wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

DRO3000 wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

Ms.Scorp wrote: »

Haul Judos wrote: »

i mean, one of my boys is married and he caught mad feelings one time cuz i said something similar to him, i basically was trying to get clarity on something that was pretty important and he was on some

"come on yo, i got any reason to lie to you?"

and i responded

"nigga .......you lie to your wife and the mother of your children on a daily basis..you share a bed with her and don't think twice about lying to her just to get some pussy, feel me????........i'm JUST your homeboy...so yea, i gotta make sure"

What goes on in his marriage has nothing to do with you though. If he's been a good friend to you then that's all that should concern you. Cheating is foul but it doesn't automatically make someone a bad person for doing it. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors between him and his wife.

that's easy to say, but when you're taking a major step in your life, it's common nature to look at those around you and see how they handle the same things.......

now while his relationship isn't my business directly......i'd be dishonest with myself if i said didn't make observations on how he handles his marriage when i began considering marrying my wife......

yes i started looking at a lot of my friends differently, cuz i'm looking at a friend who's been married for like damn near 10 years, and i never would want my marriage to end up like his....sometimes that shit bothers me, cuz i look at him as a close friend...but we can't even see eye to eye on certain shit cuz he just doesn't display the same kinda passion or whatever to his marriage as i try to dedicate towards mines...but the thing is he looks at me like i'm tripping....

so yea.....i threw that shot at him one day, we were talking some serious shit that relied heavily on his word, and i wanted to stress the importance of that shit

What does the way he handles his marriage have to do with yours though? I just don't get the correlation.

Now I can see if you didn't want to spend as much time with him because he's out there living like a single Man. But overall, if he's been a good, loyal friend to you over the years, and you cut him off for shit that has nothing to do with you, then I agree....you are trippin

it has nothing to do with my relationship....but it is observed....

anything you're doing major in your life, you're ing to look at those close to you to observe how they handle the same things....

well atleast i will...

i have a child now.. so i constantly talk to other people with children especially young children just to get a little advice, or an impression on things...i always thoguht this was natural behavior for people....if i heard about someone who i always considered a close friend doing something crazy with their kids.. yes it's going to change my impression of them....being that i have a child now....i just look at things regarding kids differently than i did before....

same thing with marriage, making my marriage work is very important to me, i put a lot of time, dedication and passion into it....it's a very rewarding experience, i love my wife, and I enjoy where i'm at. however with any relationship or marriage, you're going to have issues and disagreements at times....and again while me and my wife keep our "business" to ourselves....it's still natural to talk to others who are married as well just to get a different look on how they do things.....

and when i start seeing more and more how one of my friends just shits all over his marriage....it jsut kinda bugs me out a little, cuz i really don't know how to digest that....it's not my business, i don't want to tell him what to do with his life.. but i notice an awkwardness there now......i don't really feel comfortable talkign to him about my wife and son, because i don't want to seem like i'm bragging.....

i might have some shit on my mind, or had a rough day, and might wanna go out and do something and he's on some
"man i know what you need, let's go out get some bitches and take them back to the telly"....and i just gotta kinda step back like i'm not on that shit no more.....

i guess i'm just going through a transitional stage and wanted to see if anyone could relate...

FULLY UNDERSTAND WHAT UR SAYING... FRIENDS LIKE THAT AINT GOOD FOR YOU... PLANTIN SEEDS IN YA MIND TO CHEAT.. IVE HAD FRIENDS LIKE THAT.. NIGGAS CALL ME LAME CAUSE I SAY, "NAW, IM GOOD"...

THE THING IS..KIMI KEEP SAYIN WHAT DOES HIS RELATIONSHIP HAVE TO DO WITH YOU..

YOU CAN FLIP THAT AROUND ANYWAY..

WHAT IF YA HOMIE WAS MOLESTING HIS CHILD.. WOULD YOU STILL NOT LET IT AFFECT YOU EVEN THOUGH IT AINT YO BUSINESS?

OF COURSE IT WOULD BOTHER U, CAUSE U DON’T GET DOWN LIKE THAT

Lol....how does molesting his child compare? Come on now Dro....lmao

IM JUST COMMENTING ON WHAT YOU SAID.. U SAID HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS WIFE SHOULD HAVE NO EFFECTS ON DU, SO I WAS STATING, DOES THAT APPLY TO EVERYTHING? EVEN CHILDMOLESTATION?

Of course not...wtf?!....lmao

desertrain10 · April 2012

i get what you are saying t/s.... nobody is perfect and i'm not a judgmental person but how people handle certain situations/ interact and treat their s/o, children, parents, siblings, etc is a true reflection of their character...

so if you are a habitual cheater.... or you are a deadbeat parent.... or you are engaging in behavior that i don't agree with we can't be more than associates .... that person may be cool as hell but at the end of the day i can't trust you nor do we share much in common... and really what's a friendship without trust or common ground?

and the people in your life who you around the most do influence your thinking, behavior, etc subconsciously... so i try best to surround my self with like minded people who have the same values, interests, etc...

but yea i actually had to learn this the hard way though, went though a similar situation when i was younger. had a close friend i meet in high school. she had her current bf thinking he was the father of her baby yet around the time she got pregnant she was cheating on him with her ex...so really she didn't know who the father was. anyways i always thought that was beyond shady cuz he was really head over heels for her....two yr later me and the girl still good friends, until i ran into an old bf. we ended up going out for drinks and he finally confessed the girl had tried to get with him when we were together. smdh.

moral of the story? choose your friends wisely...

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