all my wife freinds are divorced and only like two are still married.
they was all over last night and basically all said the same thing. that no one told them what to expect before getting married. they was saying how ppl made it sound so much like a fairytale and happily ever after but it was far from that. They didnt expect to have to compromise so much.
they didnt expect to have so much expected of them.
one chick said she didnt think she should have to use all her money paying bills when he could have got a part time job on top of his job because a man is supposed to make his wife comfortable..
Another chick...didnt think she should have to help raise kids that was not hers...and she should not be expected to look at them like they were hers
another chick said...her husband expected her to have anal sex...but she wasnt having it because it was nasty and unhealthy and your ass get stretched out and cant hold bowels...and all this dumb shit.
it was really sad to hear...
but the funny thing is ...most guys before they get married has every man in the world either warning them to not do it or to double and triple check and then sleep on it and double and triple check the next day before the get married.
I know i had total strangers telling me to make sure its what i want to do. but ladies get mad at this shit saying the guy is hating or he'll forever be lonely.
So ladies, why don't yall keep it real with ya girls?