i think it has a lot to do with traditional gender roles which cast men as the bread winner while women were left home to raise the children... so many times fathers are forgotten to be appreciated because their roles in the family are not seen easily...
daddy disciplines but has limited interaction with the children. mom who is the nurturer is the one to change diapers, feed you, teach you how to talk/walk, comfort you after a bad fall, etc... which could also account for why fathers are often unappreciated
just another double standard ...like how mothers are criticized more so than fathers for too little involvement at home or too much involvement in paid work. fathers are criticized more than mothers were, for too much involvement at home or too little in paid work....
and like you were saying a lot of black mothers have had to be both mom and dad ...
That's just society. Religion breeds this too. Every Mother's Day the pastor preaches about "A Mother's Love/Sacrifice/etc", but when it's Father's Day... the nigga just talks about Jesus.
For yall complaining about getting no love fathers day, yall sounding real emotional. Real men dont give a fuck about fathers day.
Real man holiday is kick off weekend. And that's when women need to shut the fuck up and fix a nigga a plate.
Co-sign. I told my pops happy fathers day one year and he looked at me like I was crazy and said "the fuck is that shit for just get me a beer damnit."
real dads get no love an shitty dads get all the attention even if it is bad.
I hate when ppl say props on being a good dad....the fukk? dont give me props...how about you go an give the guy hell that aint doing shit for his kids instead of listening to his excuses...
and some of these women need to give props where its due rather than taking it all. just because they are usually the most vocal dont mean they have all the answers. I know plenty of times my mom would talk things over with my dad then come with an answer like it was her idea.
i know plenty of chicks that say what they do and minimize what the father does cause they want all the glory.
just like i always let my kids know its a joint effort between me and my wife....and that no one person is doing this...i would expect the same to be said when i not around.
Fathers really don't care though. I asked my mom what she wanted for Mothers Day & she gave me a list. Told me to pock 1 & she'd be happy. If I know my pops all he wants is for nobody to ask him for money.
Not true, we celebrate Father's day the exact same way we celebrate Mother's day. At least that's how we do it in my family.
And for y'all saying Father's don't care, don't be so naive. You being a guy yourself should know how we act. We don't "care," but we don't mind the shit either. Stop acting like you wouldn't like to be taken out to dinner or given a new TV just because. That shit still counts for something regardless of what we say.
Yeah, we still do things to show our appreciation, he just has never made a big deal out if it so that's what we're used to. Take him out to dinner, etc. But my pops B-day is in June so he gets things before Fathers Day anyway.
Not true, we celebrate Father's day the exact same way we celebrate Mother's day. At least that's how we do it in my family.
And for y'all saying Father's don't care, don't be so naive. You being a guy yourself should know how we act. We don't "care," but we don't mind the shit either. Stop acting like you wouldn't like to be taken out to dinner or given a new TV just because. That shit still counts for something regardless of what we say.
you and your family are the exception not the rule
mothers get calls, flowers, dinners, diamonds and all types of other shit...
dads get ties and socks, maybe a card and some nasty ass french toast that we have to pretend to like cause daddies cant hurt ppls feelings
I do what I do cuz it's in me to do it. I take care of home. I aint looking for know praise in it cuz I know when I'm done doing what I need to do I go do what I want, like fucking wit the next bitch. You can have the praise but my victory is silent
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just another double standard ...like how mothers are criticized more so than fathers for too little involvement at home or too much involvement in paid work. fathers are criticized more than mothers were, for too much involvement at home or too little in paid work....
and like you were saying a lot of black mothers have had to be both mom and dad ...
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •real dads get no love an shitty dads get all the attention even if it is bad.
I hate when ppl say props on being a good dad....the fukk? dont give me props...how about you go an give the guy hell that aint doing shit for his kids instead of listening to his excuses...
and some of these women need to give props where its due rather than taking it all. just because they are usually the most vocal dont mean they have all the answers. I know plenty of times my mom would talk things over with my dad then come with an answer like it was her idea.
i know plenty of chicks that say what they do and minimize what the father does cause they want all the glory.
just like i always let my kids know its a joint effort between me and my wife....and that no one person is doing this...i would expect the same to be said when i not around.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •And for y'all saying Father's don't care, don't be so naive. You being a guy yourself should know how we act. We don't "care," but we don't mind the shit either. Stop acting like you wouldn't like to be taken out to dinner or given a new TV just because. That shit still counts for something regardless of what we say.
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