I am from the Bronx and this is nothing unusual around here, it is second nature at least to the women I know.
I guess. I guess that for many women, being possessive, insecure, or territorial is nurture, not nature. I'd hope they're not the type to get belligerent over such trivial things though....
if she's^^ not your current girl, does your current gf fix your plate?
It looks like you're asking the same question twice. Yes I've had my girlfriend at the time fix me a plate, but it was because I was preoccupied at the time....
And the second question seems a bit redundant. Are you asking if one of my female friends fixed me a plate while my current gf was there? If so, I can't recall that happening, but that's 'cause there was never a function like that for that kind of thing to occur...
A. Its not about thinking her making you a plate is gonna take you away. Its about her intent. We know she's doing it because she wants to look like a nurturer. That is one of the many ways women make themselves stand out from the pack. Same way males do extra manly shit to make a woman take notice that is the better provider/protecter.
B. It was a good anoalogy, because typically people believe Women should be cooks and provide nourishment not men. SO asking if it would bother for another man to make her plate does evoke the same feeling. You have to ask something like "if another man gave her money" which is something traditionally people believe Men should be the providers
This was the first time in the entire thread I've heard this point being argued this clearly and precise. Well said.
Now I see where you're coming from with that analogy. There wouldn't be much of a chance of that happening compared to someone else making my plate though.
I'm gonna to be alone. So all of this stuff really doesn't applied to me.
Well if you plan on being alone. What does it matter what other people do inside thier relationships? I swear ya'll kill me with this shit. SO because your gonna be alone and dont want anybody doing anything for you everyone else in the world is supposed to fall into line with your thinking?
you know what's also tradition for females??
cleaning around the house, taking care of kids, and not having a job.
basically being a house wife (did a research paper on this recently.)
Everytime u disagree wit these corny niggas they say the same redundant "You need a role model" or "You must not have a father" response u niggas wack.
Shouts to Emm holla a real nigga who can disagree respectful and get his point across
real talk tho i feel like i entered a time warp to 1960 or some shit b
these days findin a female who'll fight over who fixed their man a plate is a rarity, at least in any non-rural area... bitches will take it as disrespect if u DONT let them fix ur man a plate.
you're welcome!
as a matter of fact, any time me or my sister brought a guy to our house for dinner or something, we were expected to fix their plates.
I will be that! Shit, my mom used to fix everyone's plate til we were a certain age and she fixed my dad's plate. But when she wasn't around and when they went to social gatherings, shit...he fixed his own plate, she fixed her own. They didn't divorce (he died in 08), but man...what do I seriously look like waiting for someone to fix my plate like I'm 2? If I got 2 functioning legs and hands, better believe...I'm getting my own plate. She can get my drink if she wants, but not my plate!
you know what's also tradition for females??
cleaning around the house, taking care of kids, and not having a job.
basically being a house wife (did a research paper on this recently.)
bitches gonna follow that tradition too??
so youre not going to clean your house or take care of your kids either???
you know what's also tradition for females??
cleaning around the house, taking care of kids, and not having a job.
basically being a house wife (did a research paper on this recently.)
you know what's also tradition for females?? cleaning around the house, taking care of kids, and not having a job. basically being a house wife (did a research paper on this recently.)
bitches gonna follow that tradition too??
If thats what works for them and they dont mind it... why not?
Are you saying there is something wrong with being a housewife?
Well if you plan on being alone. What does it matter what other people do inside thier relationships? I swear ya'll kill me with this shit. SO because your gonna be alone and dont want anybody doing anything for you everyone else in the world is supposed to fall into line with your thinking?
There is nothin' wrong with thinkin' what you're thinkin. Somebody has to condone, and someone has to opposed it. Do what you want to do, and I'm just stated the truth. One can get up and grab his or her plate. There's nothin' wrong or illegal on fixin' your S/O plate.
I couldn't even get my reply typed without laughing my ass off! It's just a plate man! If she did all that damn sweating in the kitchen and shit, I'll fix my own. That's just me tho. I mean if she wants to, that's fine...but I'd prefer to get it...I got specifics w/certain foods and whatnot.
typical repsonse from someone born in the 90s i guess.
you are missing the whole point - somebodys gotta do it. let the new pepsi bitches tell it, they not gonna do shit. like at all. so wtf are they good for??? wtf kind of mothers will yall be?
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Damn ethering themselves. Thats that new shit!
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·I guess. I guess that for many women, being possessive, insecure, or territorial is nurture, not nature. I'd hope they're not the type to get belligerent over such trivial things though....
It looks like you're asking the same question twice. Yes I've had my girlfriend at the time fix me a plate, but it was because I was preoccupied at the time....
And the second question seems a bit redundant. Are you asking if one of my female friends fixed me a plate while my current gf was there? If so, I can't recall that happening, but that's 'cause there was never a function like that for that kind of thing to occur...
This was the first time in the entire thread I've heard this point being argued this clearly and precise. Well said.
Now I see where you're coming from with that analogy. There wouldn't be much of a chance of that happening compared to someone else making my plate though.
Same thing I said......
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·No caddo................ Broke ass nigga.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Well if you plan on being alone. What does it matter what other people do inside thier relationships? I swear ya'll kill me with this shit. SO because your gonna be alone and dont want anybody doing anything for you everyone else in the world is supposed to fall into line with your thinking?
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·not even ether
shit is true.
you know what's also tradition for females??
cleaning around the house, taking care of kids, and not having a job.
basically being a house wife (did a research paper on this recently.)
bitches gonna follow that tradition too??
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Shouts to Emm holla a real nigga who can disagree respectful and get his point across
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·these days findin a female who'll fight over who fixed their man a plate is a rarity, at least in any non-rural area... bitches will take it as disrespect if u DONT let them fix ur man a plate.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·you're welcome!
as a matter of fact, any time me or my sister brought a guy to our house for dinner or something, we were expected to fix their plates.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Cheeseburger kids meal with Thousand Island dressing
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·I will be that! Shit, my mom used to fix everyone's plate til we were a certain age and she fixed my dad's plate. But when she wasn't around and when they went to social gatherings, shit...he fixed his own plate, she fixed her own. They didn't divorce (he died in 08), but man...what do I seriously look like waiting for someone to fix my plate like I'm 2? If I got 2 functioning legs and hands, better believe...I'm getting my own plate. She can get my drink if she wants, but not my plate!
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·so youre not going to clean your house or take care of your kids either???
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·OK and what exactly is wrong with that^^^^^?
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Gotcha .
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·If thats what works for them and they dont mind it... why not?
Are you saying there is something wrong with being a housewife?
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Nah, that's actually a 'W' for me, duke. I don't need anyone else in my life, trust. That whole family life is corny, to me.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·You won't really have a choice in the matter with your thinking lmao (you gonna be lonely or cheated on pick one)
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·you missed the whole point. goodbye.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·There is nothin' wrong with thinkin' what you're thinkin. Somebody has to condone, and someone has to opposed it. Do what you want to do, and I'm just stated the truth. One can get up and grab his or her plate. There's nothin' wrong or illegal on fixin' your S/O plate.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·I couldn't even get my reply typed without laughing my ass off! It's just a plate man! If she did all that damn sweating in the kitchen and shit, I'll fix my own. That's just me tho. I mean if she wants to, that's fine...but I'd prefer to get it...I got specifics w/certain foods and whatnot.
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·typical repsonse from someone born in the 90s i guess.
you are missing the whole point - somebodys gotta do it. let the new pepsi bitches tell it, they not gonna do shit. like at all. so wtf are they good for??? wtf kind of mothers will yall be?
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0 · Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL ·Pick n Pair: caesar salad & 3 cheese penne pasta
and a strawberry shooter.
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