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How many of you lazy hoes know how to make a plate for your man

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  • isayasisayas Posts: 2,989
    stilldat_dude wrote: »
    You won't really have a choice in the matter with your thinking lmao (you gonna be lonely or cheated on pick one)


    Definitely be lonely. That's my lifelong dream, duke, next to bein' an RN.
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  • Blue VirgoBlue Virgo Posts: 7,100
    THEsweetheart92 wrote: »
    you missed the whole point. goodbye.

    lol @ goodbye.
    that actually made me laugh.
    :tu
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  • jackthemackjackthemack Posts: 11,498
    lady_c wrote: »
    typical repsonse from someone born in the 90s i guess.

    you are missing the whole point - somebodys gotta do it. let the new pepsi bitches tell it, they not gonna do shit. like at all. so wtf are they good for??? wtf kind of mothers will yall be?

    HAHA killin em softly
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  • Fundz O' PlentyFundz O' Plenty Posts: 10,382
    Hobe cryant wrote: »
    Everytime u disagree wit these corny niggas they say the same redundant "You need a role model" or "You must not have a father" response u niggas wack.

    Shouts to Emm holla a real nigga who can disagree respectful and get his point across

    Get off ya knees pussy!

    A good look that is not.
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  • THEsweetheart92THEsweetheart92 Posts: 1,089
    lady_c wrote: »
    typical repsonse from someone born in the 90s i guess.

    you are missing the whole point - somebodys gotta do it. let the new pepsi bitches tell it, they not gonna do shit. like at all. so wtf are they good for??? wtf kind of mothers will yall be?

    lmao new pepsi bitches? i like that.
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  • hummingbirdhummingbird Posts: 2,341
    THEsweetheart92 wrote: »
    you missed the whole point. goodbye.

    Your post made it seem like you were saying we shouldnt do it because its tradtionally a womans role. So if you refuse to fix a plate because yoou think its chauvinistic thinking in essence, and then you turn around and say cleaning and caring for children is a "womans tradtion" also, then it makes it seem like you would refuse to do those also just because of the same reason you wont fix your man a plate.



    I think what the problem is white some of you, you dont see the give and take in it. Your use to messing with men who expect you to do the womanly things but dont want to do the tradtional manly things in return for you.

    I dont have that in my relationship. I cook and clean. He takes care of the cars and lawn and maintence things. Its not like im having to do everything a woman and a man traditionally do.
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  • caddo mancaddo man Posts: 10,927
    Fundz O' Plenty wrote: »
    No caddo................ Broke ass nigga.

    LOL! I was waiting on that.
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  • Fundz O' PlentyFundz O' Plenty Posts: 10,382
    caddo man wrote: »
    LOL! I was waiting on that.

    lol, you're welcome nigga.
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  • caddo mancaddo man Posts: 10,927
    Naya wrote: »
    Both sides have a point. I'd fix my man's plate cause that's how I grew up.....Momma always taught me to do so....but it's refreshing to see men who have no qualms making their own plate....when men start to demand that shit, it''s REALLY unnattractive....I'll do it because I love you not because you "put your foot down" or whatever....

    at the end of the day, do what works for you

    You are right. I have kids and the kids get their plate first. It doesnt matter who is making the plate. I usually cook so my wife gets a plate first.
    But it is a good look for a woman to fix her man a plate at a function. I would get up and make her a plate if she couldnt or I was already up.
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  • hummingbirdhummingbird Posts: 2,341
    Naya wrote: »
    Both sides have a point. I'd fix my man's plate cause that's how I grew up.....Momma always taught me to do so....but it's refreshing to see men who have no qualms making their own plate....when men start to demand that shit, it''s REALLY unnattractive....I'll do it because I love you not because you "put your foot down" or whatever....

    at the end of the day, do what works for you

    I think thats part of it too. People are thinking we do it because our men said we HAVE to do it. My s/o would get up and fix his own plate if I didnt do it for him. Not once has he ever even asked me to fix him a plate. I do it cause I want to not because he expects me to. Thats were people get confused. They get so caught up in the "Dont tell me what to do" shit that they forget that you dont always have to do the opposite of what other people think just to prove you are a strong woman.
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  • THEsweetheart92THEsweetheart92 Posts: 1,089
    hummingbird wrote: »
    Your post made it seem like you were saying we shouldnt do it because its tradtionally a womans role. So if you refuse to fix a plate because yoou think its chauvinistic thinking in essence, and then you turn around and say cleaning and caring for children is a "womans tradtion" also, then it makes it seem like you would refuse to do those also just because of the same reason you wont fix your man a plate.



    I think what the problem is white some of you, you dont see the give and take in it. Your use to messing with men who expect you to do the womanly things but dont want to do the tradtional manly things in return for you.

    I dont have that in my relationship. I cook and clean. He takes care of the cars and lawn and maintence things. Its not like im having to do everything a woman and a man traditionally do.

    WRONG......
    plus, you just said that you are not gonna mind me because i'm imature and shit
    sooo don't.
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  • Whatcha wearing?Whatcha wearing? Posts: 350
    lady_c wrote: »
    so youre not going to clean your house or take care of your kids either???

    I didn't see her say that. Maybe she wants to do some of those things but not all of them. Maybe she wants her man/husband to share in those duties with her. It shouldn't be all up to the woman to do all of the household responsibilities, just like it shouldn't be all up to the man to work and provide finances for the home. Marriage and relationships should be about equality and I see no reason why a man and a woman cannot share in the household duties. Maybe you could learn something from this young woman and up your standards in a man and not settle for a man that expects you to do ALL of the housework while he sits down on the couch in his draws playing PS3..
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  • EmM HoLLa.EmM HoLLa. Posts: 4,716
    I think Ill quote my nigga Weezy n lurk....

    "Times aint the same.. Shit being goin bad.. But nigga we good.. Nigga we goooder than a mothafucka........ So fuck them niggaz.. And fuck them hoooesss... Money talks.. I say Hellooooooooo..." -Lil Wayne
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  • hummingbirdhummingbird Posts: 2,341
    THEsweetheart92 wrote: »
    WRONG......
    plus, you just said that you are not gonna mind me because i'm imature and shit
    sooo don't.

    Reading is fundamental darling. I never once said you are immature nor that i wasnt going to pay you any mind. Wrong poster. Also I didnt say thats how you ment it, I said thats how it came across.
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  • Simma IISimma II Posts: 787
    What did I miss?
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  • Fundz O' PlentyFundz O' Plenty Posts: 10,382
    THEsweetheart92 wrote: »
    WRONG......
    plus, you just said that you are not gonna mind me because i'm imature and shit
    sooo don't.

    *Wayne voice*

    "She goin' in!"
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  • Fundz O' PlentyFundz O' Plenty Posts: 10,382
    Simma II wrote: »
    What did I miss?

    lol, errything.....
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  • THEsweetheart92THEsweetheart92 Posts: 1,089
    hummingbird wrote: »
    Reading is fundamental darling. I never once said you are immature nor that i wasnt going to pay you any mind. Wrong poster. Also I didnt say thats how you ment it, I said thats how it came across.

    i know.. i love reading.
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  • dr. zero_ahhdr. zero_ahh Posts: 299
    ThatDamnJay wrote: »
    I'm making an assumption here...

    I'm assuming that you'll end up in a relationship with a woman that you consider "thoro". if that assumption is correct, she will take it upon herself to fix u that plate. to your specifics.



    it'll be fine.

    I'll be honest...I was raised to basically act as if "you're never gonna get married, involved, etc." Huge part of that was learning how to do a lot of things yourself. Cleaning, cooking, normal maintenance work with toilets, pipes, etc. (still gotta master car maintenance); and shit like that. So when the issue of who fixes the plate comes up, my instinct is to get my ass up and do it. I know it may be offensive and wrong...but it was never a big deal to me to fix my own if the lady did all the cooking. I never got complaints about it before.
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  • stilldat_dudestilldat_dude Posts: 942
    Whether or not you agree with doing it or not isn't the most disturbing thing in this thread. The scary part is the fact that people can't understand and comprehend what that actions signifies. You don't agree with the action fine we agree to disagree but if you don't understand what it helps signify than you are lost for real. Niggas is seriously in here talking bout what the fuck does that prove or mean WTF??? In the words on Ed Lover CMON MAN. Niggas is still missing the POINT...no shit you can do it for yourself thanks for stating the obvious.
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  • Tha KillerTha Killer Posts: 4,419
    ThatDamnJay wrote: »
    @ Tha Killa^^

    and Doc Zero for good measure lol.


    What? Dude, she's from Texas. It doesn't surprise me they wouldn't find it petty or childish.


    Like I said, I'm not opposed to making my own plate, but smackin' plates out of peoples hands 'cause they made a plate for dude instead of you is childish. Wheretheydothatat?
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  • lady_clady_c Posts: 201
    Whatcha wearing? wrote: »
    I didn't see her say that. Maybe she wants to do some of those things but not all of them. Maybe she wants her man/husband to share in those duties with her. It shouldn't be all up to the woman to do all of the household responsibilities, just like it shouldn't be all up to the man to work and provide finances for the home. Marriage and relationships should be about equality and I see no reason why a man and a woman cannot share in the household duties. Maybe you could learn something from this young woman and up your standards in a man and not settle for a man that expects you to do ALL of the housework while he sits down on the couch in his draws playing PS3..

    lol ok i will play along...

    she previously said that she refuses to fix her man a plate. then included it in a list of other "traditions" typically done by a female. so it was a fair question to ask. you refuse to do one based solely on tradition, do you refuse to do all?
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  • jackthemackjackthemack Posts: 11,498
    It seems like a lot of this is perhaps regional or if you've had a large family or not. A lot of these "customs" are generational and traditional
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  • tamtam Posts: 903
    i would. . . .
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  • Simma IISimma II Posts: 787
    Fundz O' Plenty wrote: »
    lol, errything.....

    Lol apparently so!
    Oh well. I'm going to go watch Archer on hulu
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