thats why i love my 3 babymamas.........no matter where we go they take care of a nigga........i dont have to say what i want or how much i want......once they see whats out there, they kno & are always on the money......for example, at least once a week we go to Golden Corral (a well known buffet spreaded all over GA)......i take the lil ones....sit them down while my babymamas (or boo-boos as they like to be called) fix my plate & i have never had a time.....was at a lil family bbq bout a year ago.....& my uncle was like "boi u got too much on ur hands....them girls gonna be fighting to fix ur plate, they're not gonna get it right" i jus laughed it off, told exactly what i wanted by looking at other folks plates,sure enuff when they came bacc with my plate, everything i stated was there....oh they got me some sweet potato pie & i didnt even kno it was some.....all unc could say was "well damn"
Cooking,washin dishes,cleaning up the house,takin care of the kids,doin laundry,ironing,cleaning the bathroom = Modern day slavery.
My girl aint gotta do all that cuz I do it daily(except kids) why stop we both can do that shit.
all those things have to be done by somebody right? like i said in another thread, id rather be standing in a hot kitchen cooking than in the hot sun mowing the grass...
and thats what its comes down to loving someone means your willing to take a back seat sometimes, youre willing serve sometimes, youre willing submit to your partner sometimes
and it goes both ways
all I know is if your girl says she loves you, but cant bring herself to do certain things for sake of 'independence"
she don't love you, not for real for real
because even my bougie as will cook
jus sayint
They dont hear me though Haute.. When I talk.. People never listen.... LoL..
all those things have to be done by somebody right? like i said in another thread, id rather be standing in a hot kitchen cooking than in the hot sun mowing the grass...
That's kinda how I see it.
I'm not taking out any trash, pumping any gas, mowing any lawn, killing any spider....so I'll learn to cook and fix plates lol
I didn't mean it as a diss. It's common tradition down there and in other parts of the South so to here you say it's not petty or childish, or that none of the women in your family see it as such isn't surprising.
Haha. I'm a mutt myself, so it's like a nigga callin' another nigga a nigga. But let a white person say that, and it's gonna be hell to pay. YOU or any other darker skinded person call her a half breed and she'll cut the shit outta you. I was kidding though.
Tha Killa was making references to traditions which are typically held in the South concerning gender roles and whatnot; especially about fixing plates. Now I will say, if some old lady knocked my plate out of my hands b/c my partner ain't fixing it, I'm knocking that old lady's plate out of her hands; maybe something else for coming @ me and mine like that (which I think he was referring to, correct me if I'm wrong Killa).Y'all know my views, 2 hands, 2 legs...not a problem w/me doing it. She can make it up other ways. Simple as that.
This young man gets it. I was raised with the understanding that I'm not getting married, and to rely on a woman for things as basic as cooking, cleaning, etc.... isn't a good idea in times like these. I mean, I'd love for my woman to do all of the above for me, but I'd rather that she at least be able to do it for herself, because I can do them for myself as well.
I'm not taking out any trash, pumping any gas, mowing any lawn, killing any spider....so I'll learn to cook and fix plates lol
Thats it right there. They dont see the stuff he's doing for his women in return. They think she gotta fix his plate AND take the trash out afterwards while he just sits on his ass.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •all those things have to be done by somebody right? like i said in another thread, id rather be standing in a hot kitchen cooking than in the hot sun mowing the grass...
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •They dont hear me though Haute.. When I talk.. People never listen.... LoL..
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •That's kinda how I see it.
I'm not taking out any trash, pumping any gas, mowing any lawn, killing any spider....so I'll learn to cook and fix plates lol
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •She always Fix my Plate...if thats your man its not a issue, if it is, your wildin - u supposed to do these things
she would probably Slap that shit out her hand too...unless it was shennika cook out, then she might getta pass.
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •I didn't mean it as a diss. It's common tradition down there and in other parts of the South so to here you say it's not petty or childish, or that none of the women in your family see it as such isn't surprising.
Haha. I'm a mutt myself, so it's like a nigga callin' another nigga a nigga. But let a white person say that, and it's gonna be hell to pay. YOU or any other darker skinded person call her a half breed and she'll cut the shit outta you. I was kidding though.
This young man gets it. I was raised with the understanding that I'm not getting married, and to rely on a woman for things as basic as cooking, cleaning, etc.... isn't a good idea in times like these. I mean, I'd love for my woman to do all of the above for me, but I'd rather that she at least be able to do it for herself, because I can do them for myself as well.
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I'm not instigating hon... just stating the facts
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0 • Wack Feelings Nosign Cosign Ether GOAT LOL •Thats it right there. They dont see the stuff he's doing for his women in return. They think she gotta fix his plate AND take the trash out afterwards while he just sits on his ass.
Lol thats what I thought.
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